Should be common sense, right?
NOPE. Just got off the phone with a homeboy of mine who lost an amazing woman, primarily b/c he was following up bullshyt one of his bitter ass homies kept talking about his relationship.
Chick made six figures as a dentist. Pretty chick. Shy around new people but cool and down to earth.
One dummy in his circle always talked shyt. Used to try and clown his woman back when they were dating.
“She aight, but nothing special.”
To anybody else, it was obvious the dude was hating, but the miserable fukk went way back with my friend, so he was in his ear. My friend started being an a$$hole to his woman trying to follow up his dumb ass homeboy.
“Oh you gotta call if you stay out late?!”
“Oh you gotta hang with wifey? He on a leash ya’ll!”
Now chick has ghosted and deleted him and his bitter homie is laughing at him.
Meanwhile, I have a female friend whose mother and sister is dead set on keeping her single. Every word that comes out of their mouths about ANYBODY she brings home is something negative. Just fukking meant to tear them down. Ain’t NOOOOOBODY good enough.
But ask me what they do? One works in a hot ass DMV and the other is on disability. Probably ain’t had dikk in decades. But my home girl keeps listening to these toxic ass people b/c they family.
They be asking guys she dates for money.
Edit: I had to go back and reemphasize this shyt b/c it made me so mad.
Just fukking stop. How hard is it to see that some people just want you to be miserable with them?!
Cliffs: Stop listening to miserable bitter ass people about your life…even if it’s family. It’s okay to cut people off once you’ve outgrown them.