Here’s the thing- she isn’t wrong.
We remove/groom the hair because
#1 men like it
#2 socially/culturally it was taboo to have visible body hair for a long time. Under arms, legs and “bikini line”. So even if you are a virgin or celibate, if you go to the beach and you aren’t groomed down there, men and women will have an issue with visible pubic hair.
Now, if it were just a matter of removing hair for the sake of aesthetics, it isn’t really thaaaaat big of a deal, as long as you aren’t swimming in dirty water or waist deep in sewage or something.
The issue is, when we SHAVE/wax, we are creating tiny cuts. Once another human being is down there, you are exposing your tiny, open wounds to another human’s body. So whatever is on the surface of that man’s skin, ESPECIALLY if he didn’t wash his hands, body or his
; his bodily fluids (saliva and ejaculate if he doesn’t wear a condom)…all that stuff can enter our bloodstream much easier because our skin barrier is damaged.
So we have a greater chance to catch something or infect our pubic area if we sleep with someone right after shaving or waxing.
That’s one of the reasons why you have to be super careful about who you sleep with.
Even if a dude doesn’t have an std; if he’s just dirty and doesn’t wash his hands frequently/before y’all get started then all the germs he picked up from:
gripping the steering wheel, his key fob, door handles, shaking someone’s hand, handling cash/credit cards, shopping bags, groceries, scratching his ass, whatever- lol all of that crap accumulates on his hands, and he starts handling business…all those germs are now on your waxed/shaved
That ain’t stuff YALL really think about, but that’s what WE have to think about.
Think about when you first started dating and went to “third base” with a girl. Were you running to wash your hands before you started inserting your fingers somewhere????? Nah, you probably didn’t even think about it. All the crap you touched all day or all during your date- you put all that crap inside that girl’s body if you didn’t wash your hands.
So if she has some weird irritation down there…you won’t know, cuz it isn’t your problem.
