how exactly did he approach you?
He came up and asked me where he could get a cab to where he was heading, I gave him directions, then he asked me how long I'd been waiting for a cab and that turned into a whole conversation, he never complimented me or was overtly sexual. He was just kind and funny. At the time, I remember thinking that I'd never been approached so nonchalantly. Leave the compliments and catcalls behind, try just talking to her as a friend.
After weeks of dating, he admitted he always knew how to get to where he was going, he just wanted to approach me and didn't know how. I wasn't even mad at him, I thought it was pretty sweet.
OK, breh. You can call it conversation. You can call it conversation with a side of body language. You can call it "self confidence to know that when I speak to these women, many will understand and appreciate my candor." Break it down all you want. It is "Game." I think you see negative connotations with that word because of the pretenders. Game is the sum of all parts, dude. I don't spit to women, I say what comes to mind when I see her and have a normal conversation because I have nothing to hide. I can list a million reasons why, but I will sum it up with "Game". My brand of game, in fact, that I don't have to fake and took me knowing myself before I could be myself. But hey, maybe i'm just talking too much.