Studies Say Men Are Their ‘Loneliest,’ Representing 62% Of Dating App Users

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Hypergamy is not genetic.

I think it is
It is but it was partially justified by the fact that men were moving in a more brutish and medically primitive world where we were much more likely to die off in child bearing/family raising years.

That isn't the case anymore, same with us spreading our seed. Civil customs haven't caught up with biology yet.
 

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It is not genetic as money, capitalism and status did not exist in the early days of humanity. Hypergamy had become more of a thing when humans have socially evolved to create a social hierarchy within their kingdoms and villages. Men of status were and to this current day were seen as more desirable as they had more resources that can be passed down. But just because a man is seen as more desirable, it does not mean that every woman will get a chance to benefit. Look at drake, I am sure he has had a mad body count, but only one woman has benefited by giving birth to his child.

The average western woman is not hypergamous. And if it was genetic, the human population would have seen a major decline in birthrate. The human population and the availability of sexual partners had marginally increased as society had become more modern and westernized. The only thing that is genetic is our need as humans to procreate.
Status existed. Currency didn't exist but resources did. Cattle, sheep, weapons and the ability to make them, spoils of hunting, fertile land and it's harvest, etc. Having the most resources or having the physical bearing most likely to go acquire them drove hypergamy.
 

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What writing on the wall? :mjlol:

The majority of Men don't use dating apps because they're lonely, they use it to try and get a quick smash.

That's why 95% of women's inbox's on these apps are filled with vulgar and sexual messages.

The men who want relationships use PAID dating apps like Match.com where everyone on the app is serious as they are paying a fee for the service.

Most men use FREE apps.
Oh I had entire threads of users arguing me down denying that there were more men than women on dating apps. But no I’m not talking about dating apps. I’m talking about this general trend where incels get online to talk shyt about women, hyperfocus on women problems, while refusing to confront their own weirdness, entitlement and inadequacy. A lot of men have all the dumb advice for women in the world. All the shaming tactics in the world to fearmonger women into relationships. Shame them into relationships. All the “you gon be an old cat lady” bullshyt don’t hit the same with women b/c many would rather die alone than deal with modern man. Instead of blaming simps, internet options, whores or whatever, men refuse to see how unacceptable a lot of their behavior is when it comes to having a normal relationship.

No normal woman with a good head on her shoulders wants to deal with a man still living with his mom, bytching about locks and keys, submission, and female inferiority after she has worked 9-5, taking care of kids, elders, and all other shyt.
They can complain about women all day long and that’s fine but then they can’t be surprised when the tainted, slutty, unruly, evil, whoring bytches decide not to deal with them at all….and that’s what’s happening worldwide. And has been happening for a loooong time now.
 

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Oh I had entire threads of users arguing me down denying that there were more men than women on dating apps. But no I’m not talking about dating apps. I’m talking about this general trend where incels get online to talk shyt about women, hyperfocus on women problems, while refusing to confront their own weirdness, entitlement and inadequacy. A lot of men have all the dumb advice for women in the world. All the shaming tactics in the world to fearmonger women into relationships. Shame them into relationships. All the “you gon be an old cat lady” bullshyt don’t hit the same with women b/c many would rather die alone than deal with modern man. Instead of blaming simps, internet options, whores or whatever, men refuse to see how unacceptable a lot of their behavior is when it comes to having a normal relationship.

No normal woman with a good head on her shoulders wants to deal with a man still living with his mom, bytching about locks and keys, submission, and female inferiority after she has worked 9-5, taking care of kids, elders, and all other shyt.
They can complain about women all day long and that’s fine but then they can’t be surprised when the tainted, slutty, unruly, evil, whoring bytches decide not to deal with them at all….and that’s what’s happening worldwide. And has been happening for a loooong time now.
Do you remember that first year of Kevin Samuels where Brehs just swore he was going to change the dating landscape… that he was going to get women to be more accountable, to see that men were the prize.

:mjlol::francis: We tried to tell them then, all that dating guru shyt from YouTube ain’t translating well in real dating situations. As long as men thirst for p*ssy and seek it out the way they do, they are always going to be the group dominating online dating, approaching and pursuing women in person, paying for thots and only fans to jack off to. And telling women they’ll die alone as cat ladies as part of their projection about their own lives.

Women aren’t motivated by the same things as men. Women do want relationships, but not just with anyone. They aren’t going to tolerate certain shyt or from just anyone or get with any male as long as he’s available. Many women do have higher expectations and they’re more willing to just be single and date around or not date at all(and just get dikk occasionally) until they find the right guy.



but single doesn’t always translate to loneliness. I can’t speak for all men but I’ve noticed that even with my boyfriend he doesn’t really go out with his friends or have the same support network that I do. I don’t believe single men have those networks.

A lot of single women have networks— friends, family, kids, pets and hobbies that fill up their time and give their lives more meaning. So they fill their time up with those things. Doesn’t mean they dont get lonely but just that overall I do think a lot of single women try to make a lot of social connections which can minimize the loneliness when you don’t have a companion.
 
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Oh I had entire threads of users arguing me down denying that there were more men than women on dating apps. But no I’m not talking about dating apps. I’m talking about this general trend where incels get online to talk shyt about women, hyperfocus on women problems, while refusing to confront their own weirdness, entitlement and inadequacy. A lot of men have all the dumb advice for women in the world. All the shaming tactics in the world to fearmonger women into relationships. Shame them into relationships. All the “you gon be an old cat lady” bullshyt don’t hit the same with women b/c many would rather die alone than deal with modern man. Instead of blaming simps, internet options, whores or whatever, men refuse to see how unacceptable a lot of their behavior is when it comes to having a normal relationship.

No normal woman with a good head on her shoulders wants to deal with a man still living with his mom, bytching about locks and keys, submission, and female inferiority after she has worked 9-5, taking care of kids, elders, and all other shyt.
They can complain about women all day long and that’s fine but then they can’t be surprised when the tainted, slutty, unruly, evil, whoring bytches decide not to deal with them at all….and that’s what’s happening worldwide. And has been happening for a loooong time now.




Most dudes giving relationship advice aren't incels they like Kevin samuels who been with a lot of women.

Or men who been in bad situations with women. Incels aren't around women ever so they dont Kno anything about them

I agree tho they hyper focus on women and don't speak on they own flaws tho.

But reality is the same small percentage of men have always had the most sucess with women and that will never change

Great personality. Good job. Handsome gang, married men athletes entertainers hood dudes

The game always been like that books it wasn't made for avg men people just don't want to accept this
 

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Most dudes giving relationship advice aren't incels they like Kevin samuels who been with a lot of women.

Or men who been in bad situations with women. Incels aren't around women ever so they dont Kno anything about them

I agree tho they hyper focus on women and don't speak on they own flaws tho.

But reality is the same small percentage of men have always had the most sucess with women and that will never change

Great personality. Good job. Handsome gang, married men athletes entertainers hood dudes

The game always been like that books it wasn't made for avg men people just don't want to accept this
Really breh? I get athletes, entertainers.. people in the spotlight or those who stand out physically (muscular, tall, eye or skin conditions)

but good job? Good personality? Hood dudes? Are y’all fukking serious

Why do we over inflate women’s options, actions, and standards but have this sad ass outlook on ourselves collectively? shyt is weak.. there is no secret co-hort of 100 men plowing through every woman on earth ion know why y’all talk like this and even if they were, why does it matter?
 
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Do you remember that first year of Kevin Samuels where Brehs just swore he was going to change the dating landscape… that he was going to get women to be more accountable, to see that men were the prize.

:mjlol::francis: We tried to tell them then, all that dating guru shyt from YouTube ain’t translating well in real dating situations. As long as men thirst for p*ssy and seek it out the way they do, they are always going to be the group dominating online dating, approaching and pursuing women in person, paying for thots and only fans to jack off to. And telling women they’ll die alone as cat ladies as part of their projection about their own lives.

Women aren’t motivated by the same things as men. Women do want relationships, but not just with anyone. They aren’t going to tolerate certain shyt or from just anyone or get with any male as long as he’s available. Many women do have higher expectations and they’re more willing to just be single and date around or not date at all(and just get dikk occasionally) until they find the right guy.



but single doesn’t always translate to loneliness. I can’t speak for all men but I’ve noticed that even with my boyfriend he doesn’t really go out with his friends or have the same support network that I do. I don’t believe single men have those networks.

A lot of single women have networks— friends, family, kids, pets and hobbies that fill up their time and give their lives more meaning. So they fill their time up with those things. Doesn’t mean they dont get lonely but just that overall I do think a lot of single women try to make a lot of social connections which can minimize the loneliness when you don’t have a companion.




Kev had a huge impact on speaking on where dating was going.

He was only mainstream for 2 years and folks was scared

The rest of what u said true

Only certain men got options

And women get in relationships for diff reasons
 
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Really breh? I get athletes, entertainers.. people in the spotlight or those who stand out physically (muscular, tall, eye or skin conditions)

but good job? Good personality? Hood dudes? Are y’all fukking serious

Why do we over inflate women’s options, actions, and standards but have this sad ass outlook on ourselves collectively? shyt is weak.. there is no secret co-hort of 100 men plowing through every woman on earth ion know why y’all talk like this and even if they were, why does it matter?



U taking it wrong

Good job= income which helps stability with a woman


Great personality knocks the door open with women


Hood dudes play law of average and not scared of rejection. That a successful way to get a woman
 

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What it all boils down to is, some brothers got to have a girl in their life, and they will tolerate any bs that come with it. That can get risky sometimes. And not all, but a lot of these type men be a$$holes. And the women they deal with know it. And these men get off on trying to make brothers who are alone, feel lonely.

Then other men can handle being alone, and are content with it. Again, that's not being lonely. But if a man is really lonely, he's going to find somebody, unless he has some type of handicap. And even handicapped men can still get a woman.

Everything I said here about men, can pretty much apply to women.
 
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Oh I had entire threads of users arguing me down denying that there were more men than women on dating apps. But no I’m not talking about dating apps. I’m talking about this general trend where incels get online to talk shyt about women, hyperfocus on women problems, while refusing to confront their own weirdness, entitlement and inadequacy. A lot of men have all the dumb advice for women in the world. All the shaming tactics in the world to fearmonger women into relationships. Shame them into relationships. All the “you gon be an old cat lady” bullshyt don’t hit the same with women b/c many would rather die alone than deal with modern man. Instead of blaming simps, internet options, whores or whatever, men refuse to see how unacceptable a lot of their behavior is when it comes to having a normal relationship.

No normal woman with a good head on her shoulders wants to deal with a man still living with his mom, bytching about locks and keys, submission, and female inferiority after she has worked 9-5, taking care of kids, elders, and all other shyt.
They can complain about women all day long and that’s fine but then they can’t be surprised when the tainted, slutty, unruly, evil, whoring bytches decide not to deal with them at all….and that’s what’s happening worldwide. And has been happening for a loooong time now.

Ok.

But what does this have to do with the topic of thread which is about men on dating apps being lonely ?

And if has nothing to do with it then why even bring it up? :mjlol:
 
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