Studies Say Men Are Their ‘Loneliest,’ Representing 62% Of Dating App Users

Tetris v2.0

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Ah idk bout that

Female friends indirectly put you on game and actually make you see women from a regular point of view.

I think it helps guys not come off as creepy over time. Most guys with female friends usually were more likely to view women as normal human beings instead of something to smash or earn or ignore or impress etc.
Yep, genuine female friends are key. Maybe you are secretly lusting them but you can curtail the emotion to have them trust you and not think you're a creep. If you're not a simp/creep and are fun to be around, they WILL try to set you up with one of their single friends or even plant a seed to a friend that's getting out of a relationship (you know how some girls are NEVER single? This is why). Women love playing matchmaker.

Being in the "friend zone" is not a bad thing if you are not coming off as a simp and are a fun time. Sure you may not smash that one girl, but if you keep a good rapport you'll get invited to a house party or club night and they might literally set the whole thing up for you with one of their friends... It's worth it IMO

Also I grew up with a sister 5 years older than me. We stayed close so I knew how to talk to adult women when I was a teenager. Even messed around with one of her besties, which did not end well lol but it was a learning for me!
 
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Real friends are hard to come by. Fake friends are easy to come by.
Well if you want real friends you have to be one. Im here in Medellin watching my boys backs i didnt want to come and i assumed they would chasing girls but they didnt they just hit the clubs. So much for Passport bros being all about trickin.

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I remember when I lived in Sacramento (which is not the greatest city, but it's cool) simply walking around presented a TON of opportunities to meet women. You have to live in a real city. A lot of guys that have always lived in a real city take it for granted. Dudes in the suburbs don't get the same opportunities. Most American cities are designed for cars, not people.
 
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Gym is a terrible place to meet people unless you are playing a group activity.
Yall be tryna talk during workouts???

Yea bruh. Especially gyms with hoops. Can’t help but chop it up with the regulars that you see 5 days a week for the past 3 years. We ain’t having full blown convos between sets tho.
 
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