Successful Women Are Unhappy That They Have To Date Down

#1 pick

The Smart Negroes
Supporter
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
78,322
Reputation
11,707
Daps
202,044
Reppin
Lamb of God
When you say she has nothing to offer, can you be specific? What is she not offering.
That usually means she has zero qualities that a man looks for in a spouse unless he really ain't looking and just jumps at the chance to offer marriage with no idea how to make it work. It's basically the female equivalent to I don't know any women that would fukk that man. He got so many unattractive qualities, no game, no assets, no future, no anything, plus bad looks. That's a massive turnoff. For men, when we say she got nothing to offer and no man will marry someone like you or you offer zero qualities to a man, she's worthless. Just a fukk. She's not really worth anything to men.

It's actually one of the things you never want to hear a man say because it's rarely used and usually when it is, it's a sentiment carried by a lot of men, not just that particular one. It's like being a hoe, mad nikkas know. Your name gets brought up, nikkas just look at each other and laugh. White dudes joke about how she's a good time girl. You end up looking stupid.
 

seabreeze80

All Star
Joined
Feb 21, 2017
Messages
3,625
Reputation
575
Daps
11,240
That usually means she has zero qualities that a man looks for in a spouse unless he really ain't looking and just jumps at the chance to offer marriage with no idea how to make it work. It's basically the female equivalent to I don't know any women that would fukk that man. He got so many unattractive qualities, no game, no assets, no future, no anything, plus bad looks. That's a massive turnoff. For men, when we say she got nothing to offer and no man will marry someone like you or you offer zero qualities to a man, she's worthless. Just a fukk. She's not really worth anything to men.

It's actually one of the things you never want to hear a man say because it's rarely used and usually when it is, it's a sentiment carried by a lot of men, not just that particular one. It's like being a hoe, mad nikkas know. Your name gets brought up, nikkas just look at each other and laugh. White dudes joke about how she's a good time girl. You end up looking stupid.
What do men generally look for in a spouse besides looks? That seems to be all men (generally) care about.
 

JT-Money

Superstar
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
13,582
Reputation
4,665
Daps
57,374
Reppin
NULL
What do men generally look for in a spouse besides looks? That seems to be all men (generally) care about.
giphy.gif

You're better than this.
 

seabreeze80

All Star
Joined
Feb 21, 2017
Messages
3,625
Reputation
575
Daps
11,240

giphy.gif

You're better than this.
Men around my age seem to only care about how good I look to them and when we can have sex. That's why I am so thankful for my bf. He challenges me to achieve more, to be better and we work as a team. Its hard to find that in my opinion.

The polite, peaceful nature that another poster was talking about, I do not believe most men want that. A pretty face and a fat ass will trump all the red flags you should have seen before you got with her. At least this is what I am used to seeing.
 

Chrishaune

Veteran
Joined
Jun 28, 2012
Messages
38,902
Reputation
2,677
Daps
94,352
Reppin
Huntsville
Men around my age seem to only care about how good I look to them and when we can have sex. That's why I am so thankful for my bf. He challenges me to achieve more, to be better and we work as a team. Its hard to find that in my opinion.

The polite, peaceful nature that another poster was talking about, I do not believe most men want that. A pretty face and a fat ass will trump all the red flags you should have seen before you got with her. At least this is what I am used to seeing.


How old are you?
 

Rhyse

Pro
Joined
Aug 23, 2019
Messages
563
Reputation
-100
Daps
1,622
This is the sad truth even if the woman is a leader professionally but money shouldn't make a man or woman a leader in my opinion. I remember when I was dating and my girlfriend made way more than me. It didn't make her the leader.
Now I agree with this. I feel like in the household the role of a husband is to make the final decision. We are to discuss it together. I want my view point valued and respected. I’m no shrinking violet. But if we lay out all the pros and cons and he says we’re moving to Timbuktu, then pack this shyt up we’re moving. But the key is women we have to stop picking men that aren’t capable of making or owning the responsibility of making that decision. Because once we get to Timbuktu he better know what that hell he’s doing and have shyt in place once we get there.
 
Joined
Mar 23, 2013
Messages
12,988
Reputation
2,398
Daps
31,360
Men around my age seem to only care about how good I look to them and when we can have sex. That's why I am so thankful for my bf. He challenges me to achieve more, to be better and we work as a team. Its hard to find that in my opinion.

The polite, peaceful nature that another poster was talking about, I do not believe most men want that. A pretty face and a fat ass will trump all the red flags you should have seen before you got with her. At least this is what I am used to seeing.


This anit it :francis:
 

#1 pick

The Smart Negroes
Supporter
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
78,322
Reputation
11,707
Daps
202,044
Reppin
Lamb of God
Now I agree with this. I feel like in the household the role of a husband is to make the final decision. We are to discuss it together. I want my view point valued and respected. I’m no shrinking violet. But if we lay out all the pros and cons and he says we’re moving to Timbuktu, then pack this shyt up we’re moving. But the key is women we have to stop picking men that aren’t capable of making or owning the responsibility of making that decision. Because once we get to Timbuktu he better know what that hell he’s doing and have shyt in place once we get there.
It's tough for some women but honestly, if the man has the tools to be ample provider, the money will come in time. It's a process for everything. I think where I agree with women on is dating man who are lost and have no clue where they are going.
 

#1 pick

The Smart Negroes
Supporter
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
78,322
Reputation
11,707
Daps
202,044
Reppin
Lamb of God
What do men generally look for in a spouse besides looks? That seems to be all men (generally) care about.
I can say looks had 20% of it and that was mainly at the beginning. 80% had ZERO to do with looks but yes, I want my spouse to be attractive to me.
 
Joined
Mar 23, 2013
Messages
12,988
Reputation
2,398
Daps
31,360
I hate blanket statements like these based on "studies" involving mostly white women.

We as people have to stop co-opting cac talking points to wage war against each other.


You know how many times CNN and Fox News make it a point to say that black women are laping black men when it comes to getting a college degree ....???
 

Doctor Wily

CapcomSwag
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
11,802
Reputation
1,688
Daps
25,514
But yet they quick to cheat when they gotta date someone on thier financial level or above :manny:.
 
Top