Successful Women Are Unhappy That They Have To Date Down

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

In one thread you guys said you want a woman who offers more than just her looks and brings something to the table but in this thread you guys are saying you don't are about what she brings to the table and only care about her looks.

Men and women are more alike than some of you think.

You should name names because they dont speak for me. All I want is someone that is nice, respectable and have a open mind.

 

[Deuterion]

As a woman in her 40’s and last kid about to leave home and I’m at the six figure mark..... what actually do those of us in the same category need men for? This goes both ways. The difference comes for both genesis when you distinguish the priority of the needs and wants. We’ll take a less attractive, husky man and treat him like a King in spite of his faults and still try to build him up. But men aren’t willing to do the same.... but then complain about the woman being a gold digger and tramp.

We’ve always done this but we called it “building a family”, you guys called it dating down.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

A lot of women think by just having a college degree or being heavily obsessed (to the point of annoyance) career orientated that it automatically makes them top notch women to marry. Yeah okay you look great but many have a shytty self-centered attitude; no offense but hey somebody gotta say it.

Some of these women have terrible personalities and it shows in the way they operate and it's costing them. It is what it is.

 

[seabreeze80]

You should name names because they dont speak for me. All I was is someone that is nice, respectable and have a open mind.

Nothing wrong with that.

I'll pull the threads and post them. Threads about IG models specifically are usually filled with posters saying she has to bring more to the table than just a pretty face (and rightfully so).

 

[Thegospel]

Being educated, having a good job doesn’t equal that you are a quality woman

That’s why many of these women don’t have rings on their finger, because men look beyond being educated and having a good job

just another bullshyt media push

Alot of times on here I enter a thread and I have to skim through a bunch of goofy posts before somebody speaks the truth. You made it easy on me sir. Nothing else to see here for me. All facts

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

So many women are flat out stupid when it comes to analyzing their flaws. If a woman has money but has a toxic and unattractive personality then that's going to hinder your ability to be successful with men.

Just like women don't want a nice guy that's boring to be around there are men that don't want a woman who is successful but is a chore to spend time with. Well rounded people are the most successful with the opposite sex. All these ugly nerdy nice guys and these successful women with trash personalities need to work on their flaws and accept that the world doesn't owe them something because they can succeed in one area of life.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Personally, a person that works at Dunkin’ Donuts and has not shown any effort at doing better for themselves is not someone I would want raising my children.

But that’s me.

 

[threattonature]

Women have the right mindset. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being proud of your accomplishments and wanting someone who makes comparable to you in a relationship.

Chicks that simp dudes that make less than them end up allowing grown ass men become children, borrowing their cars and fukking ransoms while she at work. If you have female family members and you care about them, u don’t want them to be prey for sorry dudes.

As women we have a lotta pitfalls to avoid. The insecure idiots who need you to be a broke dunce to feel good about themselves. The fukkbois who wanna waste years of ur life with no commitment. The commiters who are insufferable when u do get in a relationship with them. The DL dudes. The conservatives who wanna control what u wear while simultaneously fukking half the neighborhood behind ur back. The hypocrites. Seething womanhaters. Weirdos and then the dudes who just make ur clit shrivel. And the legit sociopaths and psychos.

The path to good companionship isn’t easy. But I will say more and more women are waking up to the nonsense, holding off on jumping to get with a man just to say they got one...AND making moves for themselves, while being critical of what they see in front of them.

That’s a good thing. Some are still learning but people learn at their own pace and I wish em luck b/c navigating relationships ain’t easy..
Edit: They’ll be okay.

Why does it all have to be money based though? What's wrong with a good man who may not make major bank but enough to take care of themselves that would treat a woman right?

For a man making 100K most of us wouldn't turn away a woman making 50K or look down on her but it seems women would look down on that man if the situation is reversed. I make a high salary but realize it doesn't mean shyt or make me better than the next man. Women use that salary to put themselves on a pedestal that a lot of men (outside of users) just won't put them on.

 

[Deuterion]

A lot of women think by just having a college degree or being heavily obsessed (to the point of annoyance) career orientated that it automatically makes them top notch women to marry. Yeah okay you look great but many have a shytty self-centered attitude; no offense but hey somebody gotta say it.

Some of these women have terrible personalities and it shows in the way they operate and it's costing them. It is what it is.

Im dating one of these right now. She is beautiful and has money but she don’t know when to turn off the “I’m a boss” shyt. I’m like “you can get away with that shyt with bum ass nikkas but not me.” She’s used to being catered to because of her looks and her money makes her financially independent so she feels like she can dictate and I should obey but on the flip side she doesn’t have to listen cuz she a boss.

I told her about herself the other day and she erupted into tears, definitely the first time she had a strong Black man put her bullshyt into perspective.

 

[JT-Money]

I’m trying to figure out why it’s wrong for a successful woman to want a successful man?

So any guy that's a Millionaire refuses to date any women who makes less than him. You wouldn't have a problem with that?

That's all the male news anchors and guys in the video are saying. Men have notoriously dated down for Centuries. Yet now that women are capable of making more money they won't do the same.

Did you even watch the video?

 

[Grand Eeezus Maxwell]

We’ll take a less attractive, husky man and treat him like a King in spite of his faults and still try to build him up. But men aren’t willing to do the same....

Life ain’t fair.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

So any guy that's a Millionaire refuses to date any women who makes less than him. You wouldn't have a problem with that?

That's all the male news anchors and guys in the video are saying. Men have notoriously dated down for Centuries. Yet now that women are capable of making more money they won't do the same.

Did you even watch the video?

No I didn’t watch it lol. I’m running errands. I’ll watch when I get home, but if that’s what he wants to do then that’s fine. Why would I object to that? It’s better than marrying a former porn star just because she looks good.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Being educated, having a good job doesn’t equal that you are a quality woman

That’s why many of these women don’t have rings on their finger, because men look beyond being educated and having a good job

just another bullshyt media push

But y'all expect a woman to pay for half Not to mention if divorce happens you lose less valuables

I agree, education and money doesn't make you the be all

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I'm paraphrasing but someone said the six figured lawyer woman is on a level playing field with the cute girl who works at Foot Locker when it comes to competing for the same man.

Historically, women have married up whilst men have married down. With this new dynamic with more women earning higher salaries, they now realize that men in their tax bracket are few and far in between.

As for men in that tax bracket? Nothing has changed. They're happy to play the field and have a housewife who doesn't boast the same resume. That's why I see so many miserable married women who married down out of desperation.

Women DO NOT want to be leaders. It's not in the nature to want that. They want the man to lead. No woman is respecting a house husband or a man who earns ways less than them.

Trust me when I tell you this. I've seen and heard it all.

Women want a winner.
Men want a trophy.

Well tough luck, should've stayed they ass in the kitchen.

How much are these Women making anyway? The average household income is $65,000 for whites, $40000 for blacks

 

[seabreeze80]

So any guy that's a Millionaire refuses to date any women who makes less than him. You wouldn't have a problem with that?

That's all the male news anchors and guys in the video are saying. Men have notoriously dated down for Centuries. Yet now that women are capable of making more money they won't do the same.

Did you even watch the video?

I know you didn't quote me but this reminds me of an interview I watched with Michael Jackson. He said he preferred a woman on his level that would not use him because of his status. I see nothing wrong with that. He went on to mention Madonna and Whitney Houston and how things didn't work out.