Suicidal people are so selfish it’s disgusting

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Sure, but everyone is selfish, no different then anyone else.

I just think unless your in mortal danger or being physically or mentally toured to the point of server pain suicide is for cowards.

If a spy commits suicide cause he is captured and knows they will torture him until death for information, suicide is an honorable way to go.
 
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Even at my darkest moments, I never considered suicide. When I was broke and penniless, suffering from a shattered heart, or at a loss for my purpose in this world, not once did the possibility of ending my life cross my thoughts.

I’ll never understand the mindset that drives a person to kill themselves, and I hope I never do.

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Why would Regina King feel embarrassed, OP? I'd imagine that's low down on her list of emotions right now.

Also, how would you prevent a suicidal person from feeling suicidal? I don't think glibly admonishing them with "yOu bEtTeR gEt oFf tHaT fukk shyt" would work.
The vast majority of us didn’t know about her son and her name isn’t exactly in the news for winning an Oscar.

I can’t give an answer on how to “prevent” feeling suicidal but I’m saying, if you are, damn talk your people. I mean REALLY talk to them. So often when stuff like this happens you hear “He/She seemed just fine” cause they bottled it all up and let it build in solitude.

And when you do talk, be open to trusting in them. Believing in them and what they say. I’ve never been suicidal but I had a bout with depression and it’s kinda why I think this way. People that genuinely cared about me would tell me things and I’d let it go in one ear and out the other cause I was so set on what I was feeling at the time.
 

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some people cant take life anymore mang.

Even then there are cases of suicide that I believe are fukked up. Like that young woman recently who drove into oncoming traffic and almost killed someone esle because she couldn't take being a single mother.

All these other single mothers were in the comment section cosigning and im over here like :mjtf:
A lot of men are simps and a lot of women are cowards :yeshrug:
 

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I see I’m getting “negged” by people that haven’t even participated in the convo. We gon talk about this :unimpressed:

Some of y’all must be feeling that way and surely have people that care for you but you can’t hear them. That’s the thread. I don’t know you and Imma tell you the real :ufdup:
 

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It's their choice, as long as they don't have kids or a wife/husband there's nothing selfish about it.

None of us chose to be here but we can choose if we want to stay or commit that :manny:

What's selfish is projecting your values onto others and expecting everyone to do what YOU would do
 

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Until your mental health has derided to the point where it’s physically painful to keep living you won’t understand. I’m glad I got out of that position but for a lot of people they just lose the battle. It’s not something any sane person would do and there are definitely selfish suicides where people involve others in their act. Most people aren’t like this though most people just can’t take it anymore.
 

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It's their choice, as long as they don't have kids or a wife/husband there's nothing selfish about it.

None of us chose to be here but we can choose if we want to stay or commit that :manny:

What's selfish is projecting your values onto others and expecting everyone to do what YOU would do
More justification. As long as they don’t have kids or a wife/husband… So parents, siblings, cousins, friends… fukk all them right? :comeon: There’s an immeasurable amount of possibilities by living on, finding yourself, etc. Things you’re way too deep in a slump to even imagine. There’s only outcome with suicide. That shyt is final.
 

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I see I’m getting “negged” by people that haven’t even participated in the convo. We gon talk about this :unimpressed:

Some of y’all must be feeling that way and surely have people that care for you but you can’t hear them. That’s the thread. I don’t know you and Imma tell you the real :ufdup:
Well if that was the point of the thread you should have worded it better. If we're to believe the statistics there's a good chance some people here have either experienced suicidal ideation or known someone who has. Another thing that blows me is how people act like suicide is always some singular act. There are people drinking themselves to death or engaging in all sorts of prolonged acts of self-harm. We don't talk about that though. I agree with your sentiment that we should not normalize or just accept it as a solution but how the hell is villainizing people going to help?
 
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Well if that was the point of the thread you should have worded it better. If we're to believe the statistics there's a good chance some people here have either experienced suicidal ideation or known someone who has. Another thing that blows me is how people act like suicide is always some singular act. There are people drinking themselves to death or engaging in all sorts of self-harm. We don't talk about that though. I agree with your sentiment that we should not normalize or just accept it as a solution but how the hell is villainizing people going to help?
I’m not villainizing people, I’m villainizing the act.
 

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Just thinking about that Atlanta CEO thread and Regina King’s son. I haven’t posted in the latter but I keep seeing posts about it and it’s like damn: You know who your mom is and you just put her on a world stage of hurt and embarrassment. Wtf is she or your pops supposed to do with that? He literally had access to the best resources this world could offer but it’s really not about him. I just feel an anger rising when I see something like that. All you’re doing is transferring your hurt onto people that are more than likely already trying, or willing to do whatever it takes to help you. I’ve seen some questionable posts on here and I’m sure there’s been a ton more so Imma just say it: If you’re thinking that way, you better get off that fukk shyt :pacspit: for real.
nikka are you retarded?

To think someone committing suicide is selfish is a selfish act within itself. You're not considering their pain or mental state.
 
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