Surgeon who makes $280K asks if she should marry her struggling actor boyfriend who made $23K last year.

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Women are fairly new to these high paying roles that put them in the position of being the provider. They need to realize that when you make enough to hold down the finances you can decide what you want out of your partner and it doesn’t need to be money like it does for most other women. fukk what everyone else has to say, decide what you want and stay convicted with that.

She’s on the fence cuz she went after the boy toy with no ambition and now she’s feeling embarrassed talking about and bringing him around her peers. High earning men don’t care about the opinions of others so they wife up the model who can’t earn as long as she checks other boxes. She needs to decide what boxes she wants her man to check, not what others think he should check.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

It's amazing how people can be geniuses in one area of life but completely clueless in another.



I wish we could see what they look like. I have a feeling he's probably really good looking and she's afraid he'll eventually blow up as an actor after she leaves him.



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Her accent....she sounds Asian-American.

Almost like a Filipina that's fluent in Tagalog and English. Maybe Korean or some shyt.

Asian broad with a 6'0"+, good looking white boy.

She's probably reasonably attractive but not a dime. May have better options but they're short Asian men or ugly white boys. She has zero interest in the 6'2" Nigerian American doctor because

 

[Fillerguy]

This would be perfectly acceptable id the sexes were reversed.

Why the fukk is she with him?

 

[Da Jungles]

He made 23k not 3k

She’s bringing in 500k her second year

Why do y’all run from information?

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Women are fairly new to these high paying roles that put them in the position of being the provider. They need to realize that when you make enough to hold down the finances you can decide what you want out of your partner and it doesn’t need to be money like it does for most other women. fukk what everyone else has to say, decide what you want and stay convicted with that.

She’s on the fence cuz she went after the boy toy with no ambition and now she’s feeling embarrassed talking about and bringing him around her peers. High earning men don’t care about the opinions of others so they wife up the model who can’t earn as long as she checks other boxes. She needs to decide what boxes she wants her man to check, not what others think he should check.

Women enjoy financial freedom but they don't want bums long term.

They're happy with it at first because dude is attractive, pipes her down well, takes care of the home etc, but women ARE NOT providers. They're earners....big difference.

Men are naturally inclined to share their money. Women will share everything else EXCEPT money. They get resentful of a dude laying up on them, no matter how good he is at taking care of the home.

They want the guy that makes their toes curl but also takes care of the $$$. Sometimes you can get both....problem is that as women make more money, the likelihood of getting a man that makes enough $$$ and has sex appeal goes down. It's easy to find peak Morris Chestnut making $80k/year with no debt. It's hard to find that same dude making $300k, 400k, 500k etc.

If they want Mr. Right who checks all the boxes, they gotta get him early and pick the right horse. If you wanna Hot Girl Summer it up until you're 30....well.....you will have to compromise

 

[FaTaL]

He got that pipe game

 

[FTBS]

Women are fairly new to these high paying roles that put them in the position of being the provider. They need to realize that when you make enough to hold down the finances you can decide what you want out of your partner and it doesn’t need to be money like it does for most other women. fukk what everyone else has to say, decide what you want and stay convicted with that.

She’s on the fence cuz she went after the boy toy with no ambition and now she’s feeling embarrassed talking about and bringing him around her peers. High earning men don’t care about the opinions of others so they wife up the model who can’t earn as long as she checks other boxes. She needs to decide what boxes she wants her man to check, not what others think he should check.

I agree. But in fairness the high earning man is gonna get props for pulling the model.

 

[Yaboysix]

Aye, man ..who we kidding?...

You gotta be HANDSOME gang if you wanna make it as a big time actor...

Either that, or you can be Ugly and be a GOAT villain...

 

[Ahadi]

He backstrokin in that p*ssy...diving off the high diving board in that thang.


People overrate intelligence in certain areas and think it applies everywhere. She can retain info and understanding how to attack illness and has excellent hand eye coordination. That has nothing to do with people/relationship stuff. And she has spent her life in school and training so she is probably sheltered and detached and probably even awkward socially.

Where is her father? He is supposed to be telling her what that guy is telling her.

A lot of these doctors, lawyers are socially inept lol.

 

[Ahadi]

Her accent....she sounds Asian-American.

Almost like a Filipina that's fluent in Tagalog and English. Maybe Korean or some shyt.

Asian broad with a 6'0"+, good looking white boy.

She's probably reasonably attractive but not a dime. May have better options but they're short Asian men or ugly white boys. She has zero interest in the 6'2" Nigerian American doctor because

Thats exactly what i thought.

Hes probably the best shes ever had (in terms of looks) which is why shes also asking this question because growing up she was stuck in the books and all of those guys looked past her lol. Shes probably on the "mid" to lower scale. Tbh she probably doesnt have a problem paying for him because of the "perks" but he's dipping once he gets a WME contract lol.

This also isn't someone she can bring around to medical awards, galas or foundations.



yes he is white.

 

[Gloxina]

He backstrokin in that p*ssy...diving off the high diving board in that thang.


People overrate intelligence in certain areas and think it applies everywhere. She can retain info and understanding how to attack illness and has excellent hand eye coordination. That has nothing to do with people/relationship stuff. And she has spent her life in school and training so she is probably sheltered and detached and probably even awkward socially.

Where is her father? He is supposed to be telling her what that guy is telling her.

Yeeeeeeep!



This is why “street smarts” are as important as education. They both help you navigate the world.


Imagine a father, uncle or brother sitting back watching this shyt play out


The men in my family would laugh me out of the room if this was even a thought.

 

[Rekkapryde]

He made 23k not 3k

She’s bringing in 500k her second year

Why do y’all run from information?

doesn't fit the agenda

 

[Gloxina]

Her accent....she sounds Asian-American.

Almost like a Filipina that's fluent in Tagalog and English. Maybe Korean or some shyt.

Asian broad with a 6'0"+, good looking white boy.

She's probably reasonably attractive but not a dime. May have better options but they're short Asian men or ugly white boys. She has zero interest in the 6'2" Nigerian American doctor because

Maybe the 6’2 Nigerian doctor is more concerned with Nigerian or other educated women of African descent.


Let the goofy Asian broad learn to appreciate and pick one of her own men. Who cares what she might think of brehs

 

[Gizmo_Duck]

Ain’t this similar to Jesse Williams where his wife was the breadwinner before he got on greys?

 

[Gloxina]

How u a surgeon making 280. I dont believe it...

Is this a joke?


I mean, I honestly hope this is a joke.