Surgeon who makes $280K asks if she should marry her struggling actor boyfriend who made $23K last year.

[Gloxina]

She can make all the bread, but I LEAD THE RELATIONSHIP.

When these heifers start making some coin, suddenly I gotta be on my best behavior?

No. The only thing that's changed is her change.

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I don’t know if you’re joking, but the fact that pimping is being used as a reference point for a committed relationship is the EXACT reason why women are supposed to avoid this dynamic.

Instead of being gainfully employed and being respected for your ability to go out and conquer your piece of the world, you’d rather play mind games and essentially pimp your breadwinner wife?

I understand why dudes say fathers need to be involved in the selection process because no decent family would want to see their hardworking daughter fall into this type of dynamic

 

[Gloxina]

The difference is, the man still wants to wear the pants, and be in control in the household. You can’t wear the pants while a woman is supporting you. And I’m sure we’ve all seen or heard about women holding a man down during the come up, then when he makes it, he leaves her for another woman, since now he has access to women he didn’t have before he made it. To act like every man will be forever loyal to the woman who held him down is ridiculous.

THANKYOU


Listen, if dudes find a sucker, what can we say? But to pretend we aren’t speaking about what generally happens in these dynamics is crazy.

That’s exactly right. You aren’t really wearing the pants or running the show when your woman is bringing in the $. And yes she may defer to you, but the energy is different when you’re the one making shyt happen, making things possible in that household.


And if that money suddenly comes, you’re going to ignore all the women you feel as though you have access to with your increased income/wealth? They want a chick to be a sucka and wish for the best in that situation.

Naw, ol girl needs to drop this guy and improve whatever she needs to improve to attract a better caliber of man.

 

[OVER]

Yes she should marry him. Together they're bringing in over 300k

 

[etrofllenrod504]

Crazy how people just don’t live there lives for themselves. She makes 500k a year, if she happy with getting dikked down and his looks so be it. People always want to project what they would/wouldn’t want on other people as it’s the standard. Do what works for you, who gives a fukk how others think.

 

[WIA20XX]

Instead of being gainfully employed and being respected for your ability to go out and conquer your piece of the world, you’d rather play mind games and essentially pimp your breadwinner wife?

See this is where you squares and youngbloods need some education.

If you go down to the job site, The White Man got you digging ditches and typing out code for him. Be happy to make 100k. But he turn around and sell your efforts to some other man for 300K. He's making twice the bread for management.

We not pimps, we're capitalists.

She finna make 500k in year two? I'ma get her to make 1M in year three!

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[Diyhai]

The difference is, the man still wants to wear the pants, and be in control in the household. You can’t wear the pants while a woman is supporting you. And I’m sure we’ve all seen or heard about women holding a man down during the come up, then when he makes it, he leaves her for another woman, since now he has access to women he didn’t have before he made it. To act like every man will be forever loyal to the woman who held him down is ridiculous.

you literally just made all that stuff up
From what’s in the video, how did you come up with he wants to wear the pants and will leave?
The imagination of people is strong

 

[Sterling Archer]

He must be bringing something to the table that she's not mentioning. He's probably out of her league looks wise.

Then she gotta pay to play.

 

[KillerPups]

THANKYOU


Listen, if dudes find a sucker, what can we say? But to pretend we aren’t speaking about what generally happens in these dynamics is crazy.

That’s exactly right. You aren’t really wearing the pants or running the show when your woman is bringing in the $. And yes she may defer to you, but the energy is different when you’re the one making shyt happen, making things possible in that household.


And if that money suddenly comes, you’re going to ignore all the women you feel as though you have access to with your increased income/wealth? They want a chick to be a sucka and wish for the best in that situation.

Naw, ol girl needs to drop this guy and improve whatever she needs to improve to attract a better caliber of maman.

I seen so many dudes from my hood knocking down attorneys and drs. it ain't all about income. it's plenty of nerds making 300k who don't have no masculine energy to run a household. getting cheated on left n right by the guys they women really want.

income matters. but if yall for chemistry she likes your swag (which it sounds like shorty in this video does) and you masculine or handsome gang and u beating it up u gonna run the household regardless of income gap.

gotta realize in this dynamic u a trophy. so stay in the gym can't get soft in any way shape or form

 

[Trav]

He brings other things to the table

 

[Devilinurear]

If you got to ask

 

[Rekkapryde]

I know them guts are always tender when he’s finished

 

[Gloxina]

See this is where you squares and youngbloods need some education.

If you go down to the job site, The White Man got you digging ditches and typing out code for him. Be happy to make 100k. But he turn around and sell your efforts to some other man for 300K. He's making twice the bread for management.

We not pimps, we're capitalists.

She finna make 500k in year two? I'ma get her to make 1M in year three!

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So why can’t you get yourself to 1mil by year 3?


And I don’t mean YOU specifically. I’m just saying, her individual pursuits got her to $280 yr one, and $500 yr two; SHE DOESN’T NEED YOU TO REACH $1mill by year 3– she put herself on that trajectory without you by attending medical school and choosing that specialty.

 

[Gloxina]

I seen so many dudes from my hood knocking down attorneys and drs. it ain't all about income. it's plenty of nerds making 300k who don't have no masculine energy to run a household. getting cheated on left n right by the guys they women really want.

income matters. but if yall for chemistry she likes your swag (which it sounds like shorty in this video does) and you masculine or handsome gang and u beating it up u gonna run the household regardless of income gap.

gotta realize in this dynamic u a trophy. so stay in the gym can't get soft in any way shape or form

He IS the trophy. And that’s fine. The point is SHE hasn’t accepted that, or she wouldn’t be asking Dave Ramsey for advice

 

[WIA20XX]

So why can’t you get yourself to 1mil by year 3?


And I don’t mean YOU specifically. I’m just saying, her individual pursuits got her to $280 yr one, and $500 yr two; SHE DOESN’T NEED YOU TO REACH $1mill by year 3– she put herself on that trajectory without you by attending medical school and choosing that specialty.

I can't get that 1m myself, the same way that your boss can't.

We have different skill sets.

That's why I'm management, and she's on the line producing.

If it works for Tim Cook, it works for me.

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[KillerPups]

He IS the trophy. And that’s fine. The point is SHE hasn’t accepted that, or she wouldn’t be asking Dave Ramsey for advice

i think she has. he's just doing absolute bare bare minimum earning under 23k. he just need to just get a job working construction or something to keep her juices flowing. can't be at home playing ps5 when she get home from work that the killer.