Surgeon who makes $280K asks if she should marry her struggling actor boyfriend who made $23K last year.

[LauderdaleBoss]

Shorty is getting exactly what she's paying for.

The thing about breadwinner women holding you down is, will they bytch and moan every time you fail an audition or the gigs slow up during certain seasons or times? Will they brow beat you into submission and hold their career over your head during every argument? If a nikka has to put up with all of that, you best believe he leaving after he comes up.

Now if shorty is holding it down without doing all the above extra shyt, then yeah dude might stick around when he gets where he going, but usually most women can't accept that scenario and will complain the whole time. It's still a case by case basis cuz some women will hold it down and the dude will leave anyway, but that's usually because that's an ain't shyt nikka with other red flags.

I've seen all this shyt play out with different ppl in my life. As a dude you shouldn't want to just do nothing, regardless if you have a big dream or goal you're working toward. Its really a character issue with nikkas like that.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Do you though? Even in the clip they mentioned that successful people tend to be around each other and date/marry each other. Lawyers marry doctors, engineers marry COOs, etc. There's a misconception on this forum that rich men are out here marrying peasant girls and librarians like it's 1860. The majority are marrying equally or similarly successful women (financially). Or marrying women from rich families. Sure some rich men marry lower/middle/etc income women but that's not the majority.

I hate that perception too.

I don’t know a single person in my friend group dating or married to someone who isn’t successful in their own right. It would be embarrassing for them.

There’s no point dating someone seriously who isn’t additive to my life.

 

[lib123]

I seen so many dudes from my hood knocking down attorneys and drs. it ain't all about income. it's plenty of nerds making 300k who don't have no masculine energy to run a household. getting cheated on left n right by the guys they women really want.

income matters. but if yall for chemistry she likes your swag (which it sounds like shorty in this video does) and you masculine or handsome gang and u beating it up u gonna run the household regardless of income gap.

gotta realize in this dynamic u a trophy. so stay in the gym can't get soft in any way shape or form

For a limited amount of time yeah but usually that dynamic don't last long-term. Even in the pimp game macks usually only kept most women in their stable for about 1 year before they left. Unless she's an heiress and never had to work for her money and most of her viable options have much less money than her, she's eventually gonna resent the fact that dude is unsuccessful regardless of how good he looks. Most women care a lot about what other people think of them and they know they'll be getting clowned and judged behind their backs.

 

[lib123]

In all seriousness

He told you he doesn’t want to work!!!

Right there Ms Surgeon thats a red flag!!

Secondly, he told u that you should pay for the mortgage because you got it

Right there Ms Surgeon thats a red flag!

It’s not what u imagine

Snap out of imaginary tales and open your eyes to reality

These women can have all the education and degrees in the world but when it comes to losers they can’t figure out what is wrong

This is woman number 1.2 million who can’t figure out the man u fukking isn’t shyt and won’t be shyt

This sounds like the dynamic you were talking about in the other thread.

Tracee ellis ross told everyone

She be getting fukked by random young nikkas

and im pretty sure all these chicks u see solo on the red carpet is the same way

They not going to bring a random dude up there who u know they making way more money as and have the media and social media talk shyt..

these rich bytches/ or lets say celebrity bytches are no different than hood/9-5 sisters who have a decent career and be fukking ex cons on the low but will never bring them to a job event

Why Are Many Attractive Black Female Celebrities/Personalities Alone at Red Carpet Events?

they date white men on the low Why would they date them on the low? Unless it’s not really dating and just casual hook ups.

www.thecoli.com

 

[Gloxina]

I can't get that 1m myself, the same way that your boss can't.

We have different skill sets.

That's why I'm management, and she's on the line producing.

If it works for Tim Cook, it works for me.

I'm thinking of opening a school. CA$H APP WIA
Might open it in Delaware. CA$H APP WIA

Bishop Magic Don Juan & Mr. White Folks Academy.

You got it, breh.


Good luck to the lucky lady you pimp out lol

 

[Gloxina]

In all seriousness

He told you he doesn’t want to work!!!

Right there Ms Surgeon thats a red flag!!

Secondly, he told u that you should pay for the mortgage because you got it

Right there Ms Surgeon thats a red flag!

It’s not what u imagine

Snap out of imaginary tales and open your eyes to reality

These women can have all the education and degrees in the world but when it comes to losers they can’t figure out what is wrong

This is woman number 1.2 million who can’t figure out the man u fukking isn’t shyt and won’t be shyt

/thread

 

[Legend27]

I slander him because he was a fraud piece of shyt who sowed ignorance and division in the black community. Valuing beauty does not have anything to do with my argument. What men value from an attraction perspective varies widely, as we all know having seen married couples. There are attractive women in high income brackets, just as there are attractive women in lower income brackets. The point is that by and large a doctor isn't dating or marrying the local barista. He's more than likely dating or marrying someone from med school, or a similar high income profession. Or if he doesn't date down financially it's someone in the same field -a nurse, for instance.

Also to add in there was a thread where I vividly remember someone exposed him for saying women and the slaves didn't fight for shyt and advocates for domestic abuse calling it “domestic discipline“ and believe it rarely happens and said this dumbass shyt he was a piece of shyt point blank period

https://x.com/negraesoterica/status/1512284548964315139?s=46

https://x.com/thepsywren/status/1514506691341074432?s=46

nikkas need to stop bringing that nikkas name up

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

Drain her purse to the hearse.

 

[lib123]

Do you though? Even in the clip they mentioned that successful people tend to be around each other and date/marry each other. Lawyers marry doctors, engineers marry COOs, etc. There's a misconception on this forum that rich men are out here marrying peasant girls and librarians like it's 1860. The majority are marrying equally or similarly successful women (financially). Or marrying women from rich families. Sure some rich men marry lower/middle/etc income women but that's not the majority.

I think this is a misconception primarily in the Black community in America because of the visible number of brehettes from lower to middle income who can get with athletes and entertainers and fast money dudes (eg drug dealers) if they look good enough. Even tho they rarely get married, they still have access to young high earning brehs. This isn't really a thing in other groups since the young high earners overwhelmingly come from wealthy families and only date other wealthy people.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

They clowning the fukk out her

Dude is an idiot, he should've been working some bs part time gig while he hunts for acting gigs but clearly he's dipping when he gets on his feet

Fuk acting, he has the opportunity to retire early. If he actually had a career and built with her they wouldn't have to work past 45.

He's just a lazy slob taking her for granted. She'll leave soon and he'll have nothing but the clothes on his back.

 

[Piff Perkins]

I think this is a misconception primarily in the Black community in America because of the visible number of brehettes from lower to middle income who can get with athletes and entertainers and fast money dudes (eg drug dealers) if they look good enough. Even tho they rarely get married, they still have access to young high earning brehs. This isn't really a thing in other groups since the young high earners overwhelmingly come from wealthy families and only date other wealthy people.

To be fair we've got 50+ years of white rock stars and multiple white fast money dudes (mafia, bikers, etc) dating/fukking lower/middle income white women so I wouldn't say that's exclusive to black culture. They also have all the reality TV thots that we have, just in a different realm (country music, rock, Real Housewives of whatever, The Bachelor etc).

There are more doctors, accountants, etc in the country than rich professional athletes too.

 

[lib123]

To be fair we've got 50+ years of white rock stars and multiple white fast money dudes (mafia, bikers, etc) dating/fukking lower/middle income white women so I wouldn't say that's exclusive to black culture. They also have all the reality TV thots that we have, just in a different realm (country music, rock, Real Housewives of whatever, The Bachelor etc).

There are more doctors, accountants, etc in the country than rich professional athletes too.

Understood but based on young women I know personally, attractive brehettes are more likely to hook up with athletes, entertainers or drug dealers than attractive white women hooking up with rock stars or mafia so it has less of an influence. And when rock stars or mafia dudes hook up with lower class WW, it’s usually a one off drunken encounter or paying for sex. You don’t have this entire situationship tricking culture equivalent with Black athletes buying women expensive handbags, buying them cars, paying their rents, etc. That’s a big reason why those dudes are less likely to go broke and why some brehettes have a distorted view of the type of man they think they can get for a long term relationship.