You’ve failed as a father if you have all that money and your son is a wannabe gangster. Of course kids make mistakes but
You was supposed to have control over your house and keep him busy with productive activities. Private school , sports and hobbies , tutoring, internships, clubs and programs opportunities that other children might not have access to . Not running around trying to act hard
Lot of these guys get thrown into money young, they didn't come from a background that instills the importance of the things you mention, so kids get thrown on them early and the expectation for them to have already mapped out their child's life, like those that come from money, isn't really reasonable. Yes, the money suggests a specific outcome, but with that money, you have to know how to work it into the development of your child.
I'm a bit of an authoritarian on this issue, or at least will be classified as such, because of the moral importance from my perspective, but I would lean towards a federally regulated and compulsory classes related to rearing children for any expecting children, and the information would be tracking with what is backed in high correlations with success, and of course this would be held in an ideal environment where we aren't dealing with the host of issues that we currently run into with America. It's my perspective within an ideal environment where our goal is to produce citizens that simply have the option to excel where they choose to go in life.
I have that thought a bit flushed out than my meager summary here, but I'm keeping this post short.