Of course! But if I’m not physically attracted to him I can’t do it.
That primal physical thing is still a thing I need. But I’ll admit all women aren’t like that.
That’s literally “wooing” a woman.
Men fall in love with their eyes, women- our ears. That’s why a man who doesn’t have shyt going for himself can still luck up on an attractive woman who doesn’t understand life and what a man needs to bring to the table.
I just know the difference between being with someone I’m literally drawn to and a man who has all the right attributes but…I can’t see myself in bed with him. I admittedly focus more on looks than I should.
Which is why ppl end up in sexless marriages. Marrying someone who is sensible & good on paper that they aren’t attracted to.
But it’s not so much about age, per se, but just the fact that some men don’t understand where the appeal of the older man comes from. It’s not sex appeal unless you’re like a 35YO Michael B Jordan LOL
Same way if a man can choose between a pretty 32 YO who can cook and clean and a pretty 25YO offering the same thing- the difference is you want the youth. That’s the biggest thing. A woman choosing between a fine 25YO with no $ and a fine 32YO who can make her a stay at home wife, she’s going to pick the cute guy who might be little older but has more $.
If the choice was between a fine, advanced 25YO who can make you a stay at home Vs a fine 32 year old who is offering the same, why would she choose the older guy when the younger man is bringing the same thing? Whatever age difference there is didn’t give the older guy any leverage in life compared to the 25YO.
Now, that’s rarely the case. The case usually is that the older guy IS better off than the younger guy, so we do what makes more sense if we want a successful husband and comfortable life. That’s the usual appeal of the older guy.
And that wasn’t any shade to you. If you looked bad a woman damn near 20yrs younger than you wouldn’t be considering you lol I’m just saying in general the same way attraction to younger women boils down to sexual attraction for all men is the same way, ultimately, the appeal of the older man is $/provision for women.
Younger women AND men are the most attractive simply because of nature. They’re YOUNG lol Me standing in front of a man2 years older than me and a man 15yrs older than me isn’t the same.
You standing in front of a woman 2 yrs your junior and 15yrs your junior isn’t the same. That primal shyt is true for both sexes.