Dang, I’m feeling weird about this thread now. Because I’ve never had a problem with a bf waking me up for sex, or taking it, if he wanted some and vice versus. There was not a need to ask, because we already understood that it’s ours for the taking, since that’s just the type of relationships i would be involved in.
But seeing posts on here calling people sick and rapists and what not for having a similar POV—means that it isn’t the norm like I thought it was. Which tbh is fine, because after thinking about it, I completely understand why some people are not at all okay with it.
In any case, this is one of those things that must be discussed, and should not be assumed at all. If a woman isn’t okay with it, then to do so anyway, is definitely assault/rape. And this guy is sick asf, he was fukking her while she was still sleep—she never woke up. And he was using objects, drugging her, secretly taping her and probably getting off on sleep fukking vids. Lock him up.