Don't misunderstand me. I'm saying I'm not gonna be with a woman who isn't as sexually aggressive or as high a sex drive as me. If my girl wants dikk in a Macy's dressing room, she's getting it. If I'm sleep and she wakes me up for sex, then I'm waking up for sex. Likewise, if I want to fukk in the car on the way to dinner because she killing that dress, she gotta be with it and if I wake up at 3am and need her, then she has to wake up and give me what I need. If I'm with a woman that isn't with that, I will lose interest or I will think that she isn't attracted to me or fukking someone else and I will act accordingly to that.
So when I say it shouldn't have to be established, I mean you shouldn't even be involved with someone that you'd have to. Because I'm not going to be. It won't work. The problem is people don't have options and fukk who they can regardless of compatibility. If you have options, you can afford to find someone on your wavelength. And if you marry someone I would hope that you don't have to ask them for sex every time. That's ridiculous. if you do, then you shouldnt be married to them.
THIS GUY IN OP is a deviant though. I'm speaking in general, not this situation.