Taking a poll, Seriously, who here believes in courting a woman? Let's talk about courting

[daemonova]

i have finish the season which is why i haven't responded in my own thread, but on Masters of Sex the chick said, it wasn't a courtship, it was a negotiation, while another dude was "courting" her, I don't have time for that

 

[Action Mike]

Myself, pure, untouched, untainted isn't that something amazing in itself? this begs the question then,

Don't you want a woman , knowing , you were her first, she hasn;t been passed around the block. somebody you could be proud to take home to meet your parents. No other guy can talk shyt about the girl

I guess todays society is so brainwashed that having a pure girl doesn't count for shyt

That it? Nothing else?

An amazing man isn't marrying a woman solely because of that, it's because she adds tangible things to his life. Not p*ssy.

Being a virgin ain't the ace of spades that tops everything. Not even smart, good with money, would make a great mother, funny, fills a knowledge gap, ambitious, mean cook, attentive, loyal, contributes, etc etc etc....

A girl can be 'pure' and be vile, even case in point some vicious brehettes here who think that's a trophy(not you darling). Who wants to marry someone like that places their p*ssy above everything and still gives you high blood pressure....but she's a virgin though...

So again, what else ma?

 

[the bossman]

Courtship is mandatory for me. I don't even take dudes seriously who want sex immediately.

I've never been with a guy who didn't do sweet things for me to show that he cares. Courtship for a woman is a huge part of the vetting process any smart woman should go thru when choosing a guy.

Also courtship isn't just a one-way street. There are ways women should court men as well...

what are some ways that a woman courts a man?

 

[The Mad Titan]

I was always the hopeless romantic. Had to be a 'good girl' because then no man would respect me,right? Many girls I knew who slept around and sucked their way through HS and college found men willing to 'wife' them.

I know one who would use men for money and gifts with the promise of sex. Another one cheated on her husband and lied about the paternity of one of the kids. Both lead great (seemingly) lives to this day. Sometimes I think I might as well have slept around, too, since sexual past didn't seem to make the difference I thought it would.

Oh well. I have a really great gentleman in my life right now. No sense in being bitter.

I FEEL that very much. Like fukk...if it wasn't going to matter anyway, why didn't I just fukk as much as possible? People might find my
stance on this sort of thing unreasonable, but I LIVE that self-control life, but it doesn't seem like it gives rewards. Really, it meant more nights of being alone
and sexually frustratedI know its great to have a code to live by, but I do wonder "Whats the point?" Especially since im 28 soon, my dating options
are likely to be women who have tasted the rainbow, yet my romantic ass stayed very willingly dry dikked for so long

I know what yall mean to a certain extent, but I think the real benefit comes from avoiding the BS and potential drama involved in those acts. For everyone of the thot's that do luck up and get through and settle down some what happy there are a dozen that aren't so lucky and are scarred either mentally, physically, financially, health wise or just tired and run down.

 

[the bossman]

A lot of guys have pointed out that women have shown to not be committed to the idea of "courtship" or whatever variant bootleg version of "courting" they are looking for.

Guys are not going to respect it, if it's "I say I want guys to court me, but if I really want to f**k a guy, he doesn't have to court me". A lot of chicks be playing that game, and it's something that men can see through.

If women stick to their principles then some man will come around and "court" them. But if their behavior is not consistent with their words, dudes are going pay her no mind on that.

I'm not saying this from a bitter viewpoint because I actually am at the point that I will date and pursue a woman in a more traditional sense. But I've been in the field for a minute and I've seen what actually goes on. If I was 25, I'd be like the rest of these dudes, but after a while you find your spot and you become much better at vetting these chicks.

thats the thing. dudes can see through the bullshyt. it's like when broads label a dude as being 'creepy'. When really he's only 'creepy' because they're not attracted to him. let a dude they're not really feelin approach them on the street and he's 'harassing' or being 'creepy'. Let idris elba or some dude they find physically attractive do the exact same thing and he's 'flattering' or just 'going after what he wants'.

 

[the bossman]

I've met a few guys who i thought are amazing boyfriend material, sadly, when i told them i am chaste and saving myself for marriage, i immediately get a knee jerk reaction , is it really just about puffing and passing thesedays? Let's get to know each other, lets go on picnics, blindfold me and surprise me with something sweet for the love of bellybuttons!!

or maybe they're just men whom are sexually attracted to you? maybe they'd like to do all those things you're talking about and fukk you? it's a natural thing. it doesn't mean they want to just hit and run. I don't understand why women try to separate sex from 'getting to know you' as if it's not a part of getting to know you.

 

[the bossman]

Myself, pure, untouched, untainted isn't that something amazing in itself? this begs the question then,

Don't you want a woman , knowing , you were her first, she hasn;t been passed around the block. somebody you could be proud to take home to meet your parents. No other guy can talk shyt about the girl

I guess todays society is so brainwashed that having a pure girl doesn't count for shyt

if sex was all I cared about in a relationship/marriage then maybe that'd be nice that you're a virgin. but since I care about more than just the sex. not saying I'd want some community cumbucket, but being a virgin really isn't doing much for me.. is that really all you'd be bringing to the table? that you're a virgin?

 

[Rue]

That it? Nothing else?

An amazing man isn't marrying a woman solely because of that, it's because she adds tangible things to his life. Not p*ssy.

Being a virgin ain't the ace of spades that tops everything. Not even smart, good with money, would make a great mother, funny, fills a knowledge gap, ambitious, mean cook, attentive, loyal, contributes, etc etc etc....

A girl can be 'pure' and be vile, even case in point some vicious brehettes here who think that's a trophy(not you darling). Who wants to marry someone like that places their p*ssy above everything and still gives you high blood pressure....but she's a virgin though...

So again, what else ma?

I honestly don't know what makes me so special then, i am naive to think that actually having some sort of respect for myself will make a guy go like wow , im the only one that will ever experience her in such a way and so much more

 

[Rue]

or maybe they're just men whom are sexually attracted to you? maybe they'd like to do all those things you're talking about and fukk you? it's a natural thing. it doesn't mean they want to just hit and run. I don't understand why women try to separate sex from 'getting to know you' as if it's not a part of getting to know you.

if sex was all I cared about in a relationship/marriage then maybe that'd be nice that you're a virgin. but since I care about more than just the sex. not saying I'd want some community cumbucket, but being a virgin really isn't doing much for me.. is that really all you'd be bringing to the table? that you're a virgin?

Staaaaahp my head hurts!!!!

 

[MrTibbs]

and what is this obsession with getting to know a chick or doing something nice for her yet being fearful someone else getting the butt???

This why I skip this BS all together....I can pay for my own dinner and save a nikka from the anxiety that I'm fukking someone else since some nikkas think that $30 salmon and mash and the weeks worth of dates and phone calls is around the average price for exclusive rights to p*ssy these days

That's all I need to hear

 

[Action Mike]

I honestly don't know what makes me so special then, i am naive to think that actually having some sort of respect for myself will make a guy go like wow , im the only one that will ever experience her in such a way and so much more

To be blunt, your vagina isn't the holy trail.

Any man that is in a relationship simply just off the fact his girl is a virgin is a fool.

You don't want sex yet sex is the central thing you have to offer, how in the world does that make sense after I run through hoops while your .

that ain't real life.

I'm just looking out for you ma.

 

[Yinny]

Since when is courting jumping through hoops?

I'm not asking you to team up with four of your closest homies, buy matching suits and sing me doo wop songs as I walk down the street.

 

[LEEeveryday]

Some women confuse courting with playing hard to get, but not reciprocating interest

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Bottom line is....us guys want a girlfriend but we scared to do traditional things like romantic dates even though we WANT to we can't, for fear of being played by ain't shyt bytches who say they want one thing, but do the total opposite so we are left with a huge clusterfukk in the brain wondering wtf happened. One of my biggest fears in dating is taking a woman out spending MY money on her when she has other dudes doing the same for her...where does that leave me? I've been that guy going on multiple dates with a girl who liked another dude just waiting on him to come around and all I could think about was that she was probably going straight to his place after our dates smh

 

[Action Mike]

Some women confuse courting with playing hard to get, but not reciprocating interest

Those are little girls, not women.