Taking Advice From Women About Other Women?
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King P
Legends Never Die
Women are the worst at giving out dating advice for men on other women
That's not an attack on women. They mean very well. And they have a strong understanding of social dynamics. But when it comes to helping men achieve their objectives with women, women themselves tend to give some rather boneheaded advice that's better tailored to artificial social expectations of men, women, and dating than what actually works right now in the real world.
Its not their fault the advice they give to men on dating often ends up making men worse at succeeding with women. They are honestly trying to help in the best way they can. But because of the nature of the differences between the men and women, there are some pretty big gulfs in understanding what either gender wants and needs to accomplish in order to win in the dating world. And because of this women often end up giving men destructive advice.
Ultimately though, here's the reason why women's advice doesn't work. Women are emotional caretakers. They wanna to make sure everyone feels okay, and nobody rocks the boat. The girl giving you advice really doesn't want you to get hurt. She doesn't want you to face the pain of rejection. And because she doesn't want you to get hurt and have to face the pain of rejection, she'll give you advice that's going to maximize your chances of not losing.
Not losing means you play it safe. Not losing means you keep the kid gloves on and skirt the friend zone and maybe even wade into it because you want to make sure you don't do anything too edgy that might lose you a girl or cause her to become too attracted.
Dating advice from women doesn't tell you how to win, it tells you how not to lose. But you don't play not to lose though, you want play to win. Go all out. Scared money don't make no money.
That's not an attack on women. They mean very well. And they have a strong understanding of social dynamics. But when it comes to helping men achieve their objectives with women, women themselves tend to give some rather boneheaded advice that's better tailored to artificial social expectations of men, women, and dating than what actually works right now in the real world.
Its not their fault the advice they give to men on dating often ends up making men worse at succeeding with women. They are honestly trying to help in the best way they can. But because of the nature of the differences between the men and women, there are some pretty big gulfs in understanding what either gender wants and needs to accomplish in order to win in the dating world. And because of this women often end up giving men destructive advice.
Ultimately though, here's the reason why women's advice doesn't work. Women are emotional caretakers. They wanna to make sure everyone feels okay, and nobody rocks the boat. The girl giving you advice really doesn't want you to get hurt. She doesn't want you to face the pain of rejection. And because she doesn't want you to get hurt and have to face the pain of rejection, she'll give you advice that's going to maximize your chances of not losing.
Not losing means you play it safe. Not losing means you keep the kid gloves on and skirt the friend zone and maybe even wade into it because you want to make sure you don't do anything too edgy that might lose you a girl or cause her to become too attracted.
Dating advice from women doesn't tell you how to win, it tells you how not to lose. But you don't play not to lose though, you want play to win. Go all out. Scared money don't make no money.
Never take advice from a woman. Just watch her and how she handles her relationships.
That says more than words can ever say, simply because women say they want one thing, and do the complete opposite
They're confused and emotionally unstable and make decisions based on their feelings and beliefs rather than the facts presented to them.
That says more than words can ever say, simply because women say they want one thing, and do the complete opposite
They're confused and emotionally unstable and make decisions based on their feelings and beliefs rather than the facts presented to them.
Ain't That Something
Superstar
Kilgore Trout
Banned
A lot of women are pretty clueless when it comes to relationships and kind of expect too much without giving anything in return. Dont ask for advice but women do occasionally let their guard down and drop gems on how they really think.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
It's always the same shyt it seems like. Tell her how you feel... Really? That super moist, sensitive garbage.
can you elaborate on this?
Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam
All Star
A lot of women are going to take offense to this thread,,,dont give a shyt though
real talk...women do not give good advice
NEVER listen to a woman's advice on dating..their brains operate on some other type of shyt
she will encourage you to be nice, accommodating, buying gifts etc....you will be friendzoned my friend if you ever take a woman's advice
what works on a woman is actually the opposite to what comes out of her mouth
real talk...women do not give good advice
NEVER listen to a woman's advice on dating..their brains operate on some other type of shyt
she will encourage you to be nice, accommodating, buying gifts etc....you will be friendzoned my friend if you ever take a woman's advice
what works on a woman is actually the opposite to what comes out of her mouth
When it comes to seeing what works with women, look at the kind of men she actually deals with and what actions they are doing with her. If you ever notice, the men with the most women are NEVER like the man many women will tell you they want. You might here things like, "Just understand her needs. Be there for her. Show her you love her in a special way every day. Wait on her. Take her to dinner and buy her roses to make her feel special. She just needs to go through her phase and she will come back to you because you are the perfect husband. Just tell her how you feel." You'll hear a lot of that kind of stuff when asking for advice about women from women... and you get to following that and you will be a suckafied victim who will be strung along and pushed into the background while she gives priority to a man that is the complete opposite of all that.
Scotty Piffin'
killyoself
From my experiences women give terrible advice, they either give you bad advice to sabotage your shyt if you're dumb enough to apply it, or just say some dumb shyt that sounds smart.
electric_fur
Pro
Is that what you told all ya past boyfriends
he lives in canada, so it's not like we're hanging out or anything. We just talk on and off.... and yes we both wanna fukk haha, we had oral once in that 15 years. ha
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
i never give anybody advice , cuz i know im fukked up, so i just give lil anecdotes from my lifes experience, but it can be seen as advice i guess, but it would be of what not to do.
