Talking yourself into the friend zone.

AquaCityBoy

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Keep on thinking you are going to find quality men on tinder brehettes.

Quality men aren't going to use apps like Tinder. And if a man is about his and really likes you, he's going to want your number not your social media accounts.

Why don't you approach men in person brehette?

Eh, no. Once you get past, say, 25, meeting people gets increasingly harder. Nothing wrong with using Tinder or any other online dating apps.
 

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So I'm on tinder (yes again :skip:) chit chatting with a guy that seems cool. We are having a good conversation and at this point I'm cool with exchanging numbers if he's cool. So instead of him asking me for my number he ask me if I have a fb, IG and snapchat


Really nikka:why:

What grown ass man sits there and ask for that before asking for a phone number? I can't take him seriously anymore.


Anyways what are somethings that you think gets men or even women pushed into the friend zone.

How much do you weigh? :mjpls:
 

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yall are getting to know each other while yall are fukking. if all goes well, you become friends as time goes along and then get into an exclusive relationship. all that "let's be friends" shyt in the beginning is fake because you don't genuinely want to be her friend in the beginning. you want to fukk her. keep it 100 with these women breh. they hate that shyt when they have to guess your actual intentions

I hear you..but caution also has to be exercised incase you end up adopting a witch.
 

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Asking for my social media before getting my number is lil boy shyt to me.:manny:
Lol like I said, old. I'm not hating on you. But dating has changed dramatically. It's super casual. I'm old school too. I want to marry a woman, in a church, and raise kids with her until death do us part.

My young hitter had his girl ask to marry him. shyts done changed mama.

Btw, tinder is just for hook ups. You seem like a catch. You just have to relax a little and maybe wear some low cut tops. Guys like titties. A lot. I assure you somebody would ask your number before they knew your name.


I have plenty of times. Stay off online dating sites. You're better than that. All those girls are looked at as jump offs. I don't even know you. I have no reason to lie you.
 

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I was with you till u said that nonsense about the low cut tops
Lol like I said, old. I'm not hating on you. But dating has changed dramatically. It's super casual. I'm old school too. I want to marry a woman, in a church, and raise kids with her until death do us part.

My young hitter had his girl ask to marry him. shyts done changed mama.

Btw, tinder is just for hook ups. You seem like a catch. You just have to relax a little and maybe wear some low cut tops. Guys like titties. A lot. I assure you somebody would ask your number before they knew your name.


I have plenty of times. Stay off online dating sites. You're better than that. All those girls are looked at as jump offs. I don't even know you. I have no reason to lie you.
 

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I was with you till u said that nonsense about the low cut tops
Hey man, you gotta cast a wide net. You need bait. I've noticed girls who dress like they go to church have less options than girls who wear leggings everyday. Just saying, you gotta promote your sexuality too. Even I unbutton my shirts so it's barely on.

I got two girls' numbers today off my chest. I have no muscle on my body, I will never own a beard, and I ain't no hype beast.
 

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Hey man, you gotta cast a wide net. You need bait. I've noticed girls who dress like they go to church have less options than girls who wear leggings everyday. Just saying, you gotta promote your sexuality too. Even I unbutton my shirts so it's barely on.

I got two girls' numbers today off my chest. I have no muscle on my body, I will never own a beard, and I ain't no hype beast.
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So I'm on tinder (yes again :skip:) chit chatting with a guy that seems cool. We are having a good conversation and at this point I'm cool with exchanging numbers if he's cool. So instead of him asking me for my number he ask me if I have a fb, IG and snapchat


Really nikka:why:

What grown ass man sits there and ask for that before asking for a phone number? I can't take him seriously anymore.


Anyways what are somethings that you think gets men or even women pushed into the friend zone.
He could actually just get all that information with a phone number.

Or maybe he's just not into you.
 

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Not giving up anymore pics via fb, IG and snapchat leads to doubts. In the age of catfishing, he doesn't want to waste his time talking to someone using someone else's pics. Being defensive about your weight, I assume he made the right call.
 

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So you get her IG or FB? Then what? You like her statuses and pics? Message each other through DM/PM? Then what? When and how does it progress?
Find out whether to pursue further

Get that snapchat IG and number tho >>>>>
 
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