Talking yourself into the friend zone.

[UltimateSource]

So no one is actually gonna list things that put people into the friend zone? My situation is just what made me come up with the thread.

After you fukk a couple times then shes friendzoneded.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I didn't know any woman personally who would give their SM out before their number.

There's no way I would give a man I barely know that much access to my personal life. If he asks for SM before my number I couldn't take him seriously TBH.

What is SM?

 

[BigMan]

Two door black on black whip @ISO

 

[Arithmetic]

So I'm on tinder (yes again ) chit chatting with a guy that seems cool. We are having a good conversation and at this point I'm cool with exchanging numbers if he's cool. So instead of him asking me for my number he ask me if I have a fb, IG and snapchat


Really nikka

What grown ass man sits there and ask for that before asking for a phone number? I can't take him seriously anymore.


Anyways what are somethings that you think gets men or even women pushed into the friend zone.

He wants to see if you're a catfish

 

[Diondon]

I will say that young nikkas have an advantage in this day and age where they can peep how a chick is living or fronting before making a serious claim to her.

 

[Scuti]

I will say that young nikkas have an advantage in this day and age where they can peep how a chick is living or fronting before making a serious claim to her.

yeah...me, and 100k other nikkas
a blessing at times but also got the sexual market all kinds of fukked up

 

[PhonZhi]

Older, mature men who didn't grow up on social media aren't afraid to call a woman and engage in a convo. That's probably what turned OP off. You younger guys are afraid to actually call women. Y'all are afraid to approach women in real life. That's why y'all would rather use text and get a broads on social media.

Why don't you approach men in person brehette?

Women aren't wired to be hunters and approach men. Males are the ones who are born to be aggressive and hunt. No man should EVER expect women to approach.

 

[KinksandCoils]

you right that shyt is wack. the nikka should be doing everything he can to take the conversation off the app and into real life asap. no social media profile will ever be able to tell you what you want to know about a person better than actually meeting up for a hour or 2.

but lemme ask you this, you not one of those chicks who only post 2 or 3 headshots from 5 years ago with no view of the body or post them weird ass angle shots to hide your body are you?
that might be the reason he's asking.

My tinder photos are all current. And I have a body shot

Nah its cool I understand, I had tinder for a bit awhile ago and its terrible to chat through from what I remember. Its really is for hooking up purposes


And if I enjoyed "chatting" it up with someone it doesn't mean I want them to have my phone number or have them calling me just yet.


So let me get your facebook or IG or whatever else the kids use nowadays.

It just makes more sense to me.


idk


Like if I met someone out and we hit off talking to each other I'd want to follow through with more conversation since that what I lead with. So i'd ask for the number at that point, but I wouldn't be shocked or upset if they gave me an IG or FB or whatever.

You're to modern for me lol

Or maybe you just don't want buddy to see all the other simps you got on your roster

Women will keep a secret, give several other reasons why they keep secrets, and completely avoid acknowledging the true secret

Cuz I can guarantee you have a few other nikkas you smashed as your fb friend already

Just admit that you wasn't really interested in buddy to begin with and save the schpeel about protecting your family and internet comfort

Act like you can't turn off location on FB brehs

I'm single even if that was the case it would be none of their business but it's not

He wants to see if you're a catfish

true

 

[Arithmetic]

I'm not even going to try to read that font.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

He trying to make sure you aint catfish

 

[BrothaZay]

Alotta nikkas ask for social media instead because females stopped giving their number out so easy online, so it was more easy to get her social media since she was less likely to say no

 

[L&HH]

Just be like have my number fukk wrong withchu?

Pretty much the women I fukked with the most on dating sites were the ones who offered their number first. As a matter of fact I don't remember often asking for a chicks number. If the convo went past 5 or so messages I'd typically get a message saying "I'm not on here often can we text instead ___" But yeah I'm never asking a chick for her social media. If we gotta do all that then it's just on to the next one.

 

[VFib]

What is SM?

Social media

 

[VFib]

So no one is actually gonna list things that put people into the friend zone? My situation is just what made me come up with the thread.

Talking about or complaining about an ex has gotten men firmly placed in the "friend zone"

 

[Gold]

I didn't know any woman personally who would give their SM out before their number.

There's no way I would give a man I barely know that much access to my personal life. If he asks for SM before my number I couldn't take him seriously TBH.

You don't know any woman who would give out their SM before their number?


I have women i'm not even talking to/interested in try to exchange SM with me all the time. Women still give out their phone numbers pretty easily, but I'm just saying its not like you have to work to get a girl's IG.