Talking yourself into the friend zone.

[3rdWorld]

Fried zoning is a way for women to extract money and gifts from a man possibly in love with her she cares nothing about. The longer you keep him around the more attached he becomes. It is cruel and when she scores a man she does like and respect with more money only the most will she drop her simp.

A man will always try get in a woman's pants but he wants her to be equally looking to screw rather than stringing her along. We're not that cruel and simply don't have the time and patience for that.

 

[VFib]

You don't know any woman who would give out their SM before their number?


I have women i'm not even talking to/interested in try to exchange SM with me all the time. Women still give out their phone numbers pretty easily, but I'm just saying its not like you have to work to get a girl's IG.

No. But I'm also in my 30s, so.... .

This is a big turn off in my social groups, (Most of my closest friends are married or in LTR, though. Dated back when people talked on the phone and SM wasn't hot stuff)

I only see this happening if her SM is public anyway and she wants more followers.

 

[Lord_nikon]

seems like a 21 -24 year old dude.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Ok and what's wrong with red?

It wasn't red at first. I changed it.

 

[morris]

personally i dont want the phone number yet if i cant make a decision based off her tinder profile/pics

asking for IG/FB in person is scary/kiddie shyt though

Agreed. And if she wanna play games with burner numbers and no pics...Treat her like spam

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Exactly, I know his game. But something about it reads child like. I like mature men. Either way this particular thread ain't really even about me.

WTF IS THIS LIGHT BLUE?????

 

[Gold]

Yea but u could still explain what y'all do to get friend zoned for the purpose of the thread

Not responding to txt. I don't like txting. Some women love txting.
This isn't a knock against them, I just don't stay on my phone like that.

My phone communication is pretty shyt, even if its someone i'm really into

 

[Rozay Oro]

My older brother talks himself into the friendzone all the time. I keep tell him he needs to be direct and stop worrying about offending women's sensibilities. He'll learn one day.

Btw OP that teal font is hard as hell to read

That's sad. He only has convo and never flirts?

 

[Worthless Loser]

Men should be separating themselves from situations ahead of time instead allowing women to tell them their value and where they stand on the totem pole. Idiots.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Most likely he don't like u enough and want to see how fat u are

So he don't want ya #

 

[Voice of Reason]

Fb and IG is way more personally than a phone number. Think about how fb and IG shows your locations if you got that setting on. Think about all of those pics they can do anything with. Think about all your family that is connected to it. I got an iPhone. So if I don't like him he can be blocked instantly. On social media he could be collecting so much information... my social media is not passed out like that.

That font

 

[semtex]

That was actually very smart of him to make sure you ain't some skeet rag

 

[Gold]

That's sad. He only has convo and never flirts?

Man my older brother is a world class simp. I dont fukkin get it breh, it pisses me clean off sometimes.

He's very tall, extremely intelligent (got into Harvard, went to Vandy for scholarships), women find him attractive, and he's one the of kindest human beings I know (talking about my older brother, not my oldest brother).

And he has ZERO confidence when it comes to being direct with women. He is so worried about coming off too strong that he comes off weak as fukk. Trust me, I've seen him work, shyt is hard to watch.

Some of the super sayain simp shyt he does
-He will give money to any woman who asks, regardless of the reasoning
-He will go and visit any woman who is going through an issue, regardless if he has shyt to do
-He hates animals, but if you ask him to take care of your dog he will
-He will open every door, carry every bag
-But he wont just be direct and let them know he's feeling them.

So naturally with all of these positives, he becomes a best friend to all these women.
And he gets invited to the wedding when they marry the breh who was direct with them and didn't do half the shyt that he did.

This has happened maybe 5 times in the past 3 years.


I don't know why he's so different from me

 

[Rozay Oro]

Man my older brother is a world class simp. I dont fukkin get it breh, it pisses me clean off sometimes.

He's very tall, extremely intelligent (got into Harvard, went to Vandy for scholarships), women find him attractive, and he's one the of kindest human beings I know (talking about my older brother, not my oldest brother).

And he has ZERO confidence when it comes to being direct with women. He is so worried about coming off too strong that he comes off weak as fukk. Trust me, I've seen him work, shyt is hard to watch.

Some of the super sayain simp shyt he does
-He will give money to any woman who asks, regardless of the reasoning
-He will go and visit any woman who is going through an issue, regardless if he has shyt to do
-He hates animals, but if you ask him to take care of your dog he will
-He will open every door, carry every bag
-But he wont just be direct and let them know he's feeling them.

So naturally with all of these positives, he becomes a best friend to all these women.
And he gets invited to the wedding when they marry the breh who was direct with them and didn't do half the shyt that he did.

This has happened maybe 5 times in the past 3 years.


I don't know why he's so different from me

No offense but this is typical of booksmart brehs. Keep letting him know where he fukking up and why it leads to those results. Don't matter if he gets mad, he need to learn. If he says why he does it explain his fears and that he needs to take risks.

 

[Gold]

No offense but this is typical of booksmart brehs. Keep letting him know where he fukking up and why it leads to those results. Don't matter if he gets mad, he need to learn. If he says why he does it explain his fears and that he needs to take risks.

Oh believe me, my sister and I are savages when we talk to him about this subject. We don't hold back.
I'm not trying to hurt his feelings. He's my brother and I love him. I'm tired of seeing him emotionally upset when the girl of his dreams sends him a wedding invitation.