Talking yourself into the friend zone.

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Women have tried to hit me with the friendzone twice. First time was my fault though, I was on that we should become friends first, get to know each other and see if it will build up to that point. Second, there was another nikka.

I said no thanks to both of them though.
 

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So I'm on tinder (yes again :skip:) chit chatting with a guy that seems cool. We are having a good conversation and at this point I'm cool with exchanging numbers if he's cool. So instead of him asking me for my number he ask me if I have a fb, IG and snapchat


Really nikka:why:

What grown ass man sits there and ask for that before asking for a phone number? I can't take him seriously anymore.


Anyways what are somethings that you think gets men or even women pushed into the friend zone.
Lmao that nikka don't want u texting and calling his phone. You the side hoe
 

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http://www.thecoli.com/threads/so-when-did-social-media-become-better-than-a-phone-number.345599/

When you got women who'll give you the social media before they give you a phone number lines start blurring for everyone :sas2:
Older, mature men who didn't grow up on social media aren't afraid to call a woman and engage in a convo. That's probably what turned OP off. You younger guys are afraid to actually call women. Y'all are afraid to approach women in real life. That's why y'all would rather use text and get a broads on social media.



Women aren't wired to be hunters and approach men. Males are the ones who are born to be aggressive and hunt. No man should EVER expect women to approach.
I've had women indirectly me approach me a lot of times in public. Accidentally bumping into me, standing or sitting right beside me etc. I don't go to the clu or anything like that, but dude say women approach them there.

If a woman sees something she likes why not go ahead and approach? A good dude is not gonna dog a woman out just because she approached him.
 

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http://www.thecoli.com/threads/so-when-did-social-media-become-better-than-a-phone-number.345599/

When you got women who'll give you the social media before they give you a phone number lines start blurring for everyone :sas2:
I think what you are saying isn't that accurate. Everyone's on social media. And not everyone up there is scumbags
tinder is only one part of social media. Tinder has the perception of being an app to find casual sex partners. Men who aren't about that aren't going to use Tinder because they know it will taint their image, even if there is the possibility that they can find love off of it.

If I find out a woman I'm dating uses tinder, it's automatic bushes.
 

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http://www.thecoli.com/threads/so-when-did-social-media-become-better-than-a-phone-number.345599/

When you got women who'll give you the social media before they give you a phone number lines start blurring for everyone :sas2:
:mjlol:nikkas always kill me when they say dumb shyt like this. "quality men/women aren't going to the bar/club/using tinder/whatever platform" shyt sounds so corny. like people can't go out to have fun or it's not 2016 and literally EVERY fukking body is online now.

the same bytch you saw walking down the aisle in the grocery store is the same bytch on tinder, okcupid, etc. :why:
How is it stupid? If you go to the club to try and find a wife you are retarded. You gon tell me women who frequently go clubbing and shyt ain't fukking random nikkas they don't know? Having one night stands? Of course they fukking are. Tinder ain't no difference. She's either on there for attention, for random dikk, or naive enough to find a good dude on there.
 

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:dead:women are vastly underestimating the power that a phone number has, you're opening yourself up to a potential series of abuse, threats, and real life scamming that you would just dismiss if it was online. Lots of psychopaths out there :mjpls:
 

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Yea but u could still explain what y'all do to get friend zoned for the purpose of the thread
Not being sexually aggressive enough. Doing too much too early for her without any reciprocity. Basically if she sees you as a punk she can use without having to have sex with you she gon hit you with that friendzone and use you for attention, favors, money etc.
 

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Man my older brother is a world class simp. I dont fukkin get it breh, it pisses me clean off sometimes.:fire:

He's very tall, extremely intelligent (got into Harvard, went to Vandy for scholarships), women find him attractive, and he's one the of kindest human beings I know (talking about my older brother, not my oldest brother).

And he has ZERO confidence when it comes to being direct with women. He is so worried about coming off too strong that he comes off weak as fukk. Trust me, I've seen him work, shyt is hard to watch.

Some of the super sayain simp shyt he does
-He will give money to any woman who asks, regardless of the reasoning
-He will go and visit any woman who is going through an issue, regardless if he has shyt to do
-He hates animals, but if you ask him to take care of your dog he will
-He will open every door, carry every bag
-But he wont just be direct and let them know he's feeling them.

So naturally with all of these positives, he becomes a best friend to all these women.
And he gets invited to the wedding when they marry the breh who was direct with them and didn't do half the shyt that he did.

This has happened maybe 5 times in the past 3 years.


I don't know why he's so different from me :snoop:
How tall is he? Nigerian men are good with women, don't understand how african nikkas getting friendzoningand simping ;mjlol: unless they busted in the face.
 
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So I'm on tinder (yes again :skip:) chit chatting with a guy that seems cool. We are having a good conversation and at this point I'm cool with exchanging numbers if he's cool. So instead of him asking me for my number he ask me if I have a fb, IG and snapchat


Really nikka:why:

What grown ass man sits there and ask for that before asking for a phone number? I can't take him seriously anymore.


Anyways what are somethings that you think gets men or even women pushed into the friend zone.
he needed your profiles to run your car fax make sure you aint smash one of the hommies
 

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How tall is he? Nigerian men are good with women, don't understand how african nikkas getting friendzoningand simping ;mjlol: unless they busted in the face.

He's 6'5, exact same height as me. He's way slimmer than I am. He's about 205, i'm 250.
He isn't ugly.

He's just a super nice super nerd with 0 #HOH tendencies
 

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He's 6'5, exact same height as me. He's way slimmer than I am. He's about 205, i'm 250.
He isn't ugly.

He's just a super nice super nerd with 0 #HOH tendencies
teach him breh

i wish i had an older brother to show me the way
 

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How is it stupid? If you go to the club to try and find a wife you are retarded. You gon tell me women who frequently go clubbing and shyt ain't fukking random nikkas they don't know? Having one night stands? Of course they fukking are. Tinder ain't no difference. She's either on there for attention, for random dikk, or naive enough to find a good dude on there.
You can find a potential wife anywhere because it's about the woman not the place. you act like golddiggers and loose sluts don't go to barnes n noble or the gym. you think she's wife material just because you met her in a church? you do realize some of the biggest hos are in front of the altar every sunday asking for forgiveness right?:pachaha: you make way too many negative assumptions breh. Just because you met a woman in a club/bar does not mean she frequently goes or is fukking random nikkas. lol how the fukk do you deduce the sexual history of a woman you don't even know just off the fact that she's in a club? :what:

You don't know shyt about her other than the fact that you met her in a club. A woman who's in a club/bar could be there for a dozen reasons. yes there are the every weekend club-rats but for anyone with experience these are easy to spot, she came out to celebrate for her girlfriends birthday party, celebrate a graduation, going away party for a friend, her girls wanted to go out on friday night and they dragged her out the house, just finished final exams and came out for a drink, there's a million reasons. do you not have a social life?

No wonder you nikkas struggle with women. your mindset is so fukking negative before you even meet the bytch :scust:
 
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