“Tbh I have gotten to a point where I just straight-out ask, ‘Have you ever dated a black woman?

[JackRoss]

One of the black women the cac author spoke to is named Bim Adewunmi

 

[old boy]

Nichole: I would tell men to stop holding on to the fantasy woman that they formed when they were 12. Whatever fantasy idea that they have, whether it’s a willowy redhead, whether it is this bodacious blonde, whether it is a very fair-skinned black woman. Whatever fantasy that they had that they’re like, “This is what I deserve, because I’m a dude, and I want the best of the best.” The best of the best comes in all different shapes and sizes and colors and job professions and all this kind of stuff.



this was the most interesting part of the entire article for me. this incessant need to be the fantasy and/or dictate what men can find the most attractive. i understand fully there's a racial component that deserves closer inspection. but at what point does this become simply an ugly girl argument? funny how broads call other sistas whose views align with black men's "pick-me's".. to me this is the very definition of what should be called a pick-me lol. good god that's pathetic, ole beggin ass bytch

 

[ThaEruditious]

One of the black women the cac author spoke to is named Bim Adewunmi

She looks like she lets cacs touch her hair when asked.

 

[saturn7]

#swirlerproblems

 

[Jean Jacket]

As expected I'm pretty sure this woman was all but ignored by the dudes around her coming up.

Instead of making herself presentable and working on her mental and social preservation, she retreats into form of self deprecation to mute her Blackness and appear acceptable to her bully.

All of this shyt is a reaction to trauma.

 

[Vilify]

" you are not entitled to white bodies"


Embarrassing but I'm not even mad at cacs for speaking out against this shyt.

There's some white person behind the scenes that greenlit that bulshyt article because they knew it would generate clicks.

 

[Clay Puppington]

where do you start?

RobinHood
Depression / sadness is big business
Balee dat

 

[Barnett114]

" you are not entitled to white bodies"


Embarrassing but I'm not even mad at cacs for speaking out against this shyt.

There's some white person behind the scenes that greenlit that bulshyt article because they knew it would generate clicks.

The author is a white male.

 

[ThaEruditious]

Nichole: I would tell men to stop holding on to the fantasy woman that they formed when they were 12. Whatever fantasy idea that they have, whether it’s a willowy redhead, whether it is this bodacious blonde, whether it is a very fair-skinned black woman. Whatever fantasy that they had that they’re like, “This is what I deserve, because I’m a dude, and I want the best of the best.” The best of the best comes in all different shapes and sizes and colors and job professions and all this kind of stuff.



this was the most interesting part of the entire article for me. this incessant need to be the fantasy and/or dictate what men can find the most attractive. i understand fully there's a racial component that deserves closer inspection. but at what point does this become simply an ugly girl argument? funny how broads call other sistas whose views align with black men's "pick-me's".. to me this is the very definition of what should be called a pick-me lol. good god that's pathetic, ole beggin ass bytch

That was the part I zeroed in on as well, hence my previous post above. Classic case of beggars not only trying to choose, but also trying to shame those she desires into completely ignoring conventional beauty. She's basically Meg Griffin.

 

[Sbp]

Nichole: I would tell men to stop holding on to the fantasy woman that they formed when they were 12. Whatever fantasy idea that they have, whether it’s a willowy redhead, whether it is this bodacious blonde, whether it is a very fair-skinned black woman. Whatever fantasy that they had that they’re like, “This is what I deserve, because I’m a dude, and I want the best of the best.” The best of the best comes in all different shapes and sizes and colors and job professions and all this kind of stuff.



this was the most interesting part of the entire article for me. this incessant need to be the fantasy and/or dictate what men can find the most attractive. i understand fully there's a racial component that deserves closer inspection. but at what point does this become simply an ugly girl argument? funny how broads call other sistas whose views align with black men's "pick-me's".. to me this is the very definition of what should be called a pick-me lol. good god that's pathetic, ole beggin ass bytch

That's some twisted narcissistic shyt. Guilt trip the guy into not finding the woman he truly wants instead be with someone he's gotta either pretend to or force himself to like. Fukked up man.

 

[ThaEruditious]

" you are not entitled to white bodies"


Embarrassing but I'm not even mad at cacs for speaking out against this shyt.

There's some white person behind the scenes that greenlit that bulshyt article because they knew it would generate clicks.

It was written by a cac, bruh...

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I don’t know, but I bet fukked up weaves, or fat, and not very attractive.

 

[Vilify]

The author is a white male.

It was written by a cac, bruh...

 

[Taadow]

I think so many of my wonderful nonblack friends will say, “I can’t believe you’re single. How can it be? You’re amazing.” And I’m like, “This is not news to me. I am great.” And I say, “Hey, when you say that, do you understand there is a whole system that I cannot overcome, however wonderful I am?”

Mm-hmm...but not "thank you", doe.
Heaven forbid you say that.

 

[ThaEruditious]

Mm-hmm...but not "thank you", doe.
Heaven forbid you say that.

Bish is a straight up narcissist which makes her ugly if her looks didn't before (the latter being for individual interpretation)