#TeamUgly Reality Check: Guide/FAQ for Success

[Weaver31]

Yall gotta stop listening to these "it's just confidence" ass nikkas you already got an advantage if you good looking that don't apply to ugly nikkas just be real enough to say I don't understand your struggle and keep it pushing stop feeding people altruistic lies just to make yourself feel better

True....in order for bruhs to have supreme confidence...they have to have success...and that mainly comes from other people especially women. How they gonna tell someone to up their confidence if they been in negative situations and didn't have the success with women as other better looking men did?

 

[Trapperman Dave]

-What should you do if you feel lonely? Become best friends with Palmela. If you haven't already.

Working her sister thumbalina

 

[The Burger King]

Working her sister thumbalina

What do you do with Thumbalina? :dameking:

 

[Weaver31]

Some truth in the thread but also a lot of bytching. ' I'm ugly poor me ' fukk up and get some thick skin. That's life man.

Its hard for some to get thick skin and confidence when they been belittled and rejected most of their lives.

 

[Palm Tree's & Blunts]

Its hard for some to get thick skin and confidence when they been belittled and rejected most of their lives.

I dealt with all that. You either do nothing about it or find a way to prove people wrong. That's it.

 

[Weaver31]

How about just accept that your ugly, and date on YOUR level!?


If you're ugly why are you approaching or feel entitled to beautiful women?


What's wrong with men?

U make a point but u forgetting that its different with men. Ever heard of the 80/20 rule. Just because a woman is unattractive, obese or bad built doesn't mean she want a man with similar attributes. Then unattractive women can get dyck easier than an unattractive male getting pusse.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

What do you do with Thumbalina? :dameking:

Discussing that ain't harlem approved

 

[Weaver31]

Jesus Christ some of you dudes are depressing.

Yes its depressing but they are being real. Sometimes its better to be real, figure out the root of the problem, and try to work from there instead of sugarcoating shyt and telling folks to just up their confidence and go to gym. I understand the gym part and that's actually helpful advice but upping confidence isn't something that's easily done.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

This thread is depressing as fukkk

 

[iBrowse]

Bone structure is all that matters. A chiseled face is more important than height, and height is more important than muscle. The only exception is if you're famous.

You can't be mad at women for lying about it though, because men lie about it. If women expressed their true desire to share good looking partners, a lot of men would become violent. The lies only persist because most men live in a state of delusion, where they're free to believe that confidence is the basis of sexual attraction.

I've learned to cope with these uncomfortable truths by accepting that life is supposed to be empty, disappointing, anxiety inducing and lonely. The only thing I have to look forward to is work and being alone. I know I'll never have a wife or any kids, and I'm content with that shyt. I'm just focused on saving money and leaving something behind for my nephew when I'm gone.

Wow this is actually sad

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

Wow this is actually sad

How?

 

[Bubba T]

How?

I don't know about the other user but I think it's sad you have such a defeatist attitude.

 

[SheWantTheD]

smh

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

I don't know about the other user but I think it's sad you have such a defeatist attitude.

My attitude is based in reality, not what feels good. The majority of men who ever lived never reproduced, and there's DNA evidence to prove it. shyt, at one point in history, only one man reproduced for every 17 women.

That type of phenomenon is not unique to humans either. You'll see the same pattern in every species, with females only wanting to reproduce with the very best males. It's simply nature taking its course

But it's not all doom and gloom for ugly guys like me. Like I said, I'm gonna leave some money behind for my nephew. I also have a hobby. Why isn't that enough? Not everybody is supposed to have a family, or even an active social life. It's kind of liberating because I don't feel any obligation to "build" for the so called black community. Not my kids, not my responsibility.

 

[Palm Tree's & Blunts]

Yes its depressing but they are being real. Sometimes its better to be real, figure out the root of the problem, and try to work from there instead of sugarcoating shyt and telling folks to just up their confidence and go to gym. I understand the gym part and that's actually helpful advice but upping confidence isn't something that's easily done.

Listen to what you're saying ..brehs ready to give up on life because of looks? The crazy shyt is I bet none of the people in here are that bad looking.

Being happy and confident is like going to the gym though. Somebody in the gym doesn't immediately start lifting heavy it takes time. Just like it does being confident it's not something you gain overnight. It starts by taking little steps.

You don't know until you try.