#TeamUgly Reality Check: Guide/FAQ for Success

[MikelArteta]

Didn't we end this when that worlds ugliest man in Africa had a wife and kids

 

[VFib]

Question

Are you really ugly or do you think you're ugly?

OP isn't ugly. He just thinks he is.

To be honest, I think he compares himself and his sucess with women, to his cousin who has also been posted here.

I might be wrong, though.

 

[ViShawn]

I think most of y'all at worse are average and may get overshadowed by others due to personality, natural timidness, etc.

I'm 6'1" work out and consider myself good looking but I know that there are some very good looking men out there. I get complimented on my voice. Not every woman is into me.

My uncle has told me that I don't have to be arrogant but I should pump my chest out more. I'm humble and I've seen women been attracted to me but I fukk it up with my game. I'm sure if I was a Tyson Beckford it wouldn't matter because that's on the lines of insanely attractive.

I do echo the part on improving yourself and maximizing what you have though and you success may not be the same as others for a variety of reasons.

 

[Shadow King]

Late bloomers make the prettiest flowers. If you're young, and ugg, there's a good chance that you just need to grow into your looks. Solid character plays a big role in attraction.

What is young though? I feel like if you're over 21 you're not growing into anything, and it's time to move accordingly.

Y'all sound like some redpillers.

Not every woman is going to find you attractive for sure. I think working on yourself and not being shaken by others is another key. JMO.

That's basically what's being said but it has a self-deprecating tone because brehs who are or feel unattractive are talking amongst them(our)selves.

Dark humor/tough love.

 

[Worthless Loser]

Question

Are you really ugly or do you think you're ugly?

Both. In all honesty I go days without looking at myself in the mirror. Normally keep my head down instead of looking at the mirror in the bathroom. Longest I went was 5 days.

 

[Stir Fry]

What is young though? I feel like if you're over 21 you're not growing into anything, and it's time to move accordingly.

That's basically what's being said but it has a self-deprecating tone because brehs who are or feel unattractive are talking amongst them(our)selves.

Dark humor/tough love.

I'm thinking 24-27. There's still a chance of blossoming and turning yourself around in the thirties if you don't let the 20's defeat you. Early 20's are an especially hard time in life for most everybody. It's when we our support systems start pulling back and we begin to realize how big the world is. Of course it's going to be harder the longer you wait, but i don't think it's unheard of.

 

[ViShawn]

Both. In all honesty I go days without looking at myself in the mirror. Normally keep my head down instead of looking at the mirror in the bathroom. Longest I went was 5 days.

I honestly got more looks when I went from 160 to 190+. Complimenting on how I'm in shape and stuff

 

[Drip Bayless]

This irony is op saying don't listen to women who say looks don't matter just for this to get posted

Nah she told no one lies, if you a powerful dude or you got paper you can still get chose by a baddie. Most ugly women on the other hand are dikked down and discarded despite their status, by men more attractive then them (no homo).

 

[Reality]

Bone structure is all that matters. A chiseled face is more important than height, and height is more important than muscle. The only exception is if you're famous.

You can't be mad at women for lying about it though, because men lie about it. If women expressed their true desire to share good looking partners, a lot of men would become violent. The lies only persist because most men live in a state of delusion, where they're free to believe that confidence is the basis of sexual attraction.

I've learned to cope with these uncomfortable truths by accepting that life is supposed to be empty, disappointing, anxiety inducing and lonely. The only thing I have to look forward to is work and being alone. I know I'll never have a wife or any kids, and I'm content with that shyt. I'm just focused on saving money and leaving something behind for my nephew when I'm gone.

Breh...find a psychologist.

I'm deadass serious. This ain't healthy.

 

[Raava]

Half the people who think they are ugly aren't even ugly. You may not a dime but there is middle ground between 10 and 0.

One of the worst things to do is compare your looks to other people's interactions with women/men. Especially extremely attractive people. Too many times people think if women/men aren't falling over them, approaching them, or interacting with them they way they do someone else it's means they are ugly. That's not the case there are a lot of different factors.

I thought I was hideous for a long time one of the main reasons was being rarely approached. I found out guys had crushes on me all through school, thought I would never give them a chance etc... Even now guys assuming I am stuck up or only talked to certain types of men or any other thing a person tells themselves to not approach someone.

You should be working on yourself period ugly or not and not comparing yourself to others. That's just asking for disappointment and depression.

 

[Drip Bayless]

nikkas gotta stop this self loathing breh. If you ugly you prolly won't get an attractive woman to like you off the strength of your face but looks don't define men. As much as y'all wanna deny it charisma and confidence are big factors. shyt, lowkey men get drawn to and like other men because of their charisma and confidence. Get a skill you can be confident of yourself and/or get swole

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Just because you say I'm not ugly doesn't mean you find me attractive it's just something nice to say like oh you have such a cute daughter even though you know that baby ugly as sin, and I can't verify if you cute or not so I don't know why you threw that in there
Its cool if you don't relate to my problems in life but don't get on your moral highhorse and try to carry nikkas like we don't have any semblance of self esteem must of these posts are jokes but that doesn't take from the fact that its real shyt at the end of the day you got a much better chance at finding "love" nikkas like me get our heads gassed up with lies and never end up with what we really want

I threw cute in their to show you that what you described above about caring and loving people is not an "ugly" thing.
Sometimes people just don't fukkin like you get over it.

I'm on a moral high horse because I refuse to act like other people are better than me because they look better than me lol ok sir.

O so you know the nikkas who tried to get at me personally and you know their lying right. Go to sleep, you tired.

stay in your feelings about getting laid tho...

 

[DjBhaled]

Nah she told no one lies, if you a powerful dude or you got paper you can still get chose by a baddie. Most ugly women on the other hand are dikked down and discarded despite their status, by men more attractive then them (no homo).

But that same unattractive man will get discarded eventually as well money isn't a permanent solution it's a bandaid

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Agree with everything except this:

What should you do if you feel lonely? Become best friends with Palmela. If you haven't already.

#TeamNoFap

 

[ViShawn]

Breh...find a psychologist.

I'm deadass serious. This ain't healthy.

Y'all thought I was joking when I said people on here and the misc have a lot in common.