Tell us things that give you 2nd hand embarrassment

[WesCrook]

• Bald chicks with sparse edges doing people’s hair/braids.If you feel ur heartbeat in ur head after somebody goes ur hair, that ain’t it.

• Illiteracy. Waiting on people to sound out them words during read alouds in school.

• Watching somebody act thirsty with someone else who OBVIOUSLY don’t fukk with them like that.
• Drawn on eyebrows.
• Watching somebody who can’t cook fumble around in the kitchen.
• Researchers getting grilled at those research conferences with questions they don’t know shyt about.

A few years ago, this health care provider I worked for had organized a program to promote healthy lives and eating habits, particularly for low-income members. Every month, they'd invite members to come in for a progress check and serve them food. After each session there was always leftovers, so some us would go into the conference room where it was set up and make a plate.

Anyway, I went into the room and there where a few members still there, and one of them kept saying: "this is so brutiful, this is so brutiful". Of course there were 4 or 5 white nurses present.




In high school, this dude didn't know the difference between "intimidated" and "frustrated"

*in the cafeteria* "What's taking so long to serve the food? I'm starting to get intimidated."

 

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Those Sasha Baron Cohen movies where he plays a character. I've never watched any of them because I find them awkward and cringe.

nikkas losing fights to white people.

Knowing people in abusive and unfaithful relationships.

Posters using cacs and c00ns in every topic and all sections as a pretense of being pro black.

The daily paranoia and fear that the site has been infiltrated by cacs,incels,Russians,feds,agents.

Bedwench theads.

The over simping in most appreciation threads.

 

[semicko82]

The use of the N word is bad enough, but to use it around other races so freely

 

[Malik1time]

A comedian bombing hurts my soul. I can't watch it. Or someone insecure making a fool of himself. Seeing them hurt makes me hurt.

i cant go to stand ups
i cant see a comedian joke falling flat

 

[Street Knowledge]

Dudes trying to approach and the girl clearly not being interested

 

[DonRe]

Children getting belitted/cursed at/hit.

drives me mad for real. Even worse when they look around or at you for some help.


fukk ya shytty as parents.

 

[I'm Blackman]

Black people loudly using the N word in public...

This right here.

 

[Nobu]

my black peoples and their ******dom in front of cacs
used to park my whip and take MARTA for work, anybody from the A know the traffic is crazy during rush hour. I'd take MARTA and watch the ******dom unfold on the MARTA trains.... pants saggin, dirty underwear showing, cursing, playing loud music containing curses and misogyny, arguing, fighting, parents on the phone while children running around being reckless

we just gonna pretend like we didnt see this post?

 

[Hawaiian Punch]

The slam dunk contest when they keep missing the dunk. You could see that sinking feeling in them when they attempt again and miss again.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

I have bushed two girls for this.

** pulls into the drive thru

Me - Yeah I want a number 2 with a ...

Gf - ( in the passenger seat leaning over me to yell into the speaker ) HEY WE WANT FRESH FRIES! DROP THE FRIES FRESH! LAST TIME I GOT OLD FRIES.

Me -

GF - GIVE ME A MCCHIKEN WITH EXTRA PICKLES LIGHT LIGHT MAYO AND TOMATOES!!



Then when we are a mile down the road.


GF - No turn around. Look at all of this mayo on my Mcchicken.

Me - It’s a dollar mcchicken. I’m not turning around


Gf - naw they need to get my food right!!

Me - I don’t think this is going to work out

 

[Mʀ2ᴋDᴇᴇᴢ]

This fight that just happened

 

[LunaticVillage415]

Someone with obvious artificial enhanced features. Seen a dude at the bus stop with a bigen shoe polish fade and mustache and beard combo. Literally all of the hair in his head and face was sharpie marker. He looked so self conscious and embarrassed and was staring at everybody like "stop looking at me!"

Chicks was obviously fake asses. You can tell their bodies are bought because they usually are wearing the most expensive tackiest designer clothes too. Which brings us to the next cringe... Regular people trying too hard to stunt in the most expensive head to toe designer gear while doing boring regular mundane things. Damn, even millionaires and celebrities don't try to stunt that hard. Like you really have wear a gaudy Gucci sweatsuit that costs more than the current value of your car and your monthly rent to look like Rakim in 1988 to go get some baby carrots at Whole Foods and return some movies to Redbox?
White hypebeasts trying to look fresh. Do you own an item of clothing that doesn't chart on StockX? Is it possible for you to not dress like a big ass spoiled suburban first grader in the early 90's?


Seeing geeky swagless white men with black women or non-white women out of their league in general.

 

[Panther]

Catching people taking selfies in public.

 

[Rollie Forbes]

Deontay Wilder getting mollywhopped during Black History Month.

 

[thashiek]

Every kind of embarrassment I feel is second hand. I no longer am able to experience first hand embarrassment, I just don't care enough about what people think of me. But somehow the second hand embarrassment runs rampant and I feel that way damn near daily for people.

It's like I upgraded from giving no fukks about what people think about me to caring waaaaay to much about what others think about others..........? The fukk?

Anyway, answer to this question is... i suffer from second hand embarrassment damn near daily.