telling women they're gonna be single for life or won't have a family just doesn't hit like it used

[Swahili P'Bitek]

Marriage and Men's Health - Harvard Health Publishing - Harvard Health

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sou...MQFnoECC0QAQ&usg=AOvVaw3XIfhkpzDSZ-ZT05vbO0_T

A compelling counter argument. The thing you have to understand with such studies is that there can never be a big enough sample size to make a concrete conclusion, hence when talking about such issues it's just better to look at the MAIN factors affecting the life expectancy of a population, of which marriage is damn near negligible. Africans are some of the most family oriented individuals, what's our life expectancy, in comparison to Western men? What lowers the life expectancy of men in general, whether married or not? These are the real underlying issues, not marriage. One might even argue then that having children increases life expectancy if that was the case.

 

[1LurkerChick9]

Because most of them are single mothers with no man in the household.

Keep telling yourself that Breh

RELEASE: Nearly Two-Thirds of Mothers Continue To Be Family Breadwinners, Black Mothers Are Far More Likely To Be Breadwinners

“
Furthermore, a substantial 84.4 percent of black mothers were primary, sole, or co-breadwinners in 2017, compared with 60.3 percent of Latina mothers and 62.4 percent of white mothers.”

 

[Phitz]

True.

As they age..i think older single women are more happier than older single males

I think it's case by case. A bunch of old single cac pops and grandpops on my street happy as hell. They're always in their pickups or on bikes off somewhere on the road. Come back telling me about their trips to the beach, fishing, etc.

 

[Brolic]

Keep telling yourself that Breh

RELEASE: Nearly Two-Thirds of Mothers Continue To Be Family Breadwinners, Black Mothers Are Far More Likely To Be Breadwinners

“
Furthermore, a substantial 84.4 percent of black mothers were primary, sole, or co-breadwinners in 2017, compared with 60.3 percent of Latina mothers and 62.4 percent of white mothers.”

How does that go against what I said or prove anything?
It doesn’t break down the percentage of primary, sole, and co-breadwinners.

 

[Art Barr]

Single men die faster than married men.


Single women live longer they married women.

Take that for what you will

We are not hired in the same volume as black women and there are more of them in volume.
who are successful by standard as well.

nikka ain't never been no top drawing nuffin in a whole industry.
Yet speaking like there was another brother in their department.
or even the building.
Let alone the corporate structure.
When i know it was not in general.
Plus i worked in a major city and toured grassroots to see for myself.

Man if y'all do not stop.

The nikkaz on this site who be talking is some computer nerds and college grads.
I ain't never heard of these nikkaz saying they built up in grade like that from the janitor to the board room like that. Nor have i seen these nikkaz talk about being the lead on products that make it so we are where we are now. So i know not to listen to the bullsjit from nikkaz on here off top. shyt is cap and a headfake.

These nikkaz be tslkqing about lollygagging on thr clock. I never seen none of y'a talk about leading shyt in no realm of y'all life.
Let alone actually for no reason we here. You nikkaz do not even post on having a real life on here.
I know to take mostly all y'all post as never gon do or did cap.
In no pillar or yo real life on no day.
Let alone a skill in a pillar.
To knowledge of self.
That i know.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Ol simp trick john money.
Tell ol boi to move his old no game having ass around.


Art Barr

 

[Lord Bison]

Just because you gave up fully.
on having knowledge of self.
Plus the dialogue and ability to excell. Does not mean everyone in general.
has to take upon your defeatist mind set and attitude tho.

You choose to walk around with two proverbial fingers in your ears. Fine. Yet you keep that to yourself publically.
when we discussing profound black issues. Period.

Art Barr



Art Barr


Gon the fukk on with that udc shyt suh.

Don't know why you arguing with that dude breh. He a clown. You wasting your energy listening to that Harlem cat's nonsense

 

[Jone2three45]

I think this nuance gets lost when men try to use singleness as an insult. I’ve noticed that’s it’s mostly the older single men that want to threaten women with prospect of “dying alone”. A lot of the men here that are reveling in womens hypothetical unhappiness about their relationship status have also discussed their own misfortune when it comes to long term relationships. All while preaching GMB for damn near a decade.


It’s interesting

At this point
If they die, they die
Nobody got time for bytches who are mentally unstable
Or still spitting dumb white feminist talking points
When those same white women are married and still enjoying perks of the patriarchy
While leaving women of color, specifically black women to rot in emotional and financial hell

Why should they care. They’re more successful than you, black man. Making more money, graduating at a higher rate, starting more businesses, acquiring more passports, traveling more, buying more homes. At some point brehs need to sit down and reevaluate the scoreboard because it’s not pretty, and “but you’ll be single forever” is a meaningless insult coming from someone who is single too.

Real question is what are YOU doing to better your situation or maintain your success.

Black men don’t need to figure out shyt. They should do whatever they want to do with their life. I’m tired of people telling black men what they need to do. fukk that. Black men can’t be the problem and the solution.

Also the women Willingly excepted what they were giving.

Brehs, you can’t be GMB and at the same time try to shyt on unmarried women

Who cares focus on yourself kings

Its not that easy for the average guy to get consistent p*ssy hence the obsession with getting a girlfriend.

Single men are stereotyped as sexless losers,unproductive and immature.Especially if he has no kids and 30+ or close to it.

Some of the most common insults guys get is related to his inability to 'pull' chicks or employment status.This website is proof.

Single women are shamed heavily and seen as incomplete and worthless especially if she isn't married and making babies.

Most people are sheep and society successfully brainwashes people into thinking being single means you're a loser.

There's a reason people won't leave toxic relationships and get into a relationship with anyone just to avoid being lonely.

Humans are social creatures and hardwired to reproduce but not everyone needs someone to validate them 24/7.

Single men die faster than married men.


Single women live longer they married women.

Take that for what you will

Black women are still the breadwinners in most black households soooo

most households dont have men in it...

This was a fun read. Men think they are sooo important.

And women don't think long term? Interesting.

They're just good at putting up a front

The 'rich single auntie' they be trying to get off still wants some reliable company at night

These are all great posts and not one smelled of shyt, dope thread.

Especially hearing a woman’s perspective. Dope.

I think that everyone should just strive to be a great person before they share themselves with someone.

There can be peace in solitude if you know how to be patient and find your magic.

 

[Yinny]

Companionship is important and humans are social, we need people- some accomplish this by using, some of us don’t have that “character trait” or work on it.
And choose singleness over other dynamics. Can be happy or fulfilled or miserable at varying points, none is guaranteed in either setting. Women and men have lots of spheres where they can have companionship. Hookers for sex, late night creeps, partners whatever- do you and mind your business about someone who’s minding theirs.

 

[Jone2three45]

Also your experience is your experience. Don’t let anyone try to tell you different.

 

[Bossino]

they don’t exist to us after 25. Let’s the suffer with thinning hair and aging hands. They done. Gonna be a lot of gen Z women crying over social media next 10 years

Really after 26-27, the amount of emotional and mental baggage, plus physical mileage makes 95% a pending L tbh, some dudes just don't have standards

 

[HARLEM AL]

Don't know why you arguing with that dude breh. He a clown. You wasting your energy listening to that Harlem cat's nonsense

Yeah he wasting his energy talking. You tell him you bytch ass nikka.

 

[HARLEM AL]

How does that go against what I said or prove anything?
It doesn’t break down the percentage of primary, sole, and co-breadwinners.

The way they finegaled those numbers in that article is hilarious. They tried to combine numbers or sole custody with shared Co breadwinners. all by throwing another 49% number in there without no breakdown anything.

 

[Art Barr]

But if a single man knows how to keep his diet in check and gets medical check ups, he's alright. Both those things are very basic.

Divorce is at an all time high, you taking a lot of risk to supposedly stay healthy when that's something you can do on your own

You talking about exceptions to the rule.
Which is some prison industrial meets project mentality madame moiselle matriarch shyt.
this country thrust on us.
to send us off into poverty on purpose.

Do not fall for that auntie with a bag talk.
All that exception to the rule shyt is counter productive.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

I'm looking at real-life and numbers. Women aren't 'short-sighted'. They have different priorities than men. If I weren't married, I'd think otherwise.​

you took to laisez faire i think it is spelled.
to the thought of ten percent.
you can never take that attitude to any nUmber dealing with people and we are black.

as that lack of empathy showcased in text deaf print.
is the same lack of real life empathy.
Shown to us in real life as black people.



art barr