telling women they're gonna be single for life or won't have a family just doesn't hit like it used

[Spence]

True.

As they age..i think older single women are more happier than older single males

Definitely, because they know they can be 87 years old and still pull in dikk whenever they want it, but as an old man in his 80’s you’re just a fkn creepy old man trying to rock cradles

 

[Jone2three45]

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[Yinny]

Even if they have money. I know a few that took a trip to Jamaica and found themselves a Winston with 3 baby mamas overnight.

Interesting as I’ve traveled since I was a child and every time I take a trip now males insist I’m “getting my groove back”- ick, the way we stereotype only Black women esp of a certain age is alarming. Guess we all troving for tricks/dikk

 

[Lord Bison]

Do I think older single women are more happier than old single men? No. It’s not a good looking site to see for any gender.

What I am seeing a lot more everyday is that women no matter the age enjoy being around other women, and will fake a front being happy.

Ive heard this myself. But it's rare that women admit this to me straight up. They're really good at putting up a front.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

look at their role models :

rihanna
madonna
SATC stars like carrie bradshaw and samantha
kardashians
etc

all their role models are whoring and single with no cares for stable life. when their role models are getting married and are proud to be stable then that will become cool to women again and its all about being cool.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

look at their role models :

rihanna
madonna
SATC stars like carrie bradshaw and samantha
kardashians
etc

all their role models are whoring and single with no cares for stable life. when their role models are getting married and are proud to be stable then that will become cool to women again and its all about being cool.

Whilst I can’t stand her music, I give credit to Beyoncé. Once she went solo and got married, she dropped that chicken head nonsense and promoted a healthy black married family. No one can fault her for that.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

Whilst I can’t stand her music, I give credit to Beyoncé. Once she went solo and got married, she dropped that chicken head nonsense and promoted a healthy black married family. No one can fault her for that.

facts only!

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

thats how it always end with women relationships or even as friends. Women end thing horrendously, that why they never have any friends and they all alone. All emotion no logic. If it was me and you we would no talk then put it aside, shoots some hoops, watch the game over beers and that will be it. Women not so much.

Women are led by EMOTION, whereas men are led by logic. Men are wired not to hold grudges, for the most part. Unless it's some street shyt, which is a whole other discussion. I have had disagreements with nikkas over the years, and you're right. 9 out of 10, we'll talk it out or scrap it out, be on the court or trying to round up some hoes a couple of hours later. Cause we understand. That shyt ain't about nothing.

Men are not hardwired to hold on to petty shyt. Women, on the other hand, are petty and vindictive AF. Will fall out with their longterm girlfriends, their mama, etc., over some shyt me and my nikkas wouldn't let the sun set on, as far as not getting that shyt ironed out and reaching a level of understanding on. Women bro. Will never understand them. They don't understand themselves. I stopped trying to please and understand Women about 15 years ago. I'm 42 now. These past 15 years have been the most peaceful of my life, the most clarity I've ever had in my adult life. No exaggeration.

And it's because I stopped trying to satisfy some ungrateful, irrational bytches who are never gonna be satisfied. It's like trying to empty the ocean with a tablespoon. If you wanna get technical and literal about it, yes. You're making progress. You're taking water out of the ocean. So yes. It's progress. But you literally can never do it and only a fool thinks you could. That's what it's like trying to make a woman perpetually happy. They are hardwired and predisposed to be fukking miserable. They like it, regardless of what they say...this is my favorite Chris Rock bit. He sums that shyt up perfectly..

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

At this point
If they die, they die
Nobody got time for bytches who are mentally unstable
Or still spitting dumb white feminist talking points
When those same white women are married and still enjoying perks of the patriarchy
While leaving women of color, specifically black women to rot in emotional and financial hell

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

They say that in their 20s

just to post relationship quotes all over their social media once they hit 30.

shyt always be about what a man gotta do to be a part of her life

which is really a julezing co-word for I’m lonely and it’s not my fault because . . .

but to be fair I feel like guys do this to in a different form.. dudes always try to be edgy with the I don’t need friends/ people don’t care for me but I don’t give a fukk tough guy shyt..


Like I believe only a small percentage truly enjoys being alone.


You find out the amazing feeling of being with someone when you like them for them and they enjoy your company..


Like we all say something like this and we know none of us mean it… more of an insecure issue

 

[Piff Perkins]

Why should they care. They’re more successful than you, black man. Making more money, graduating at a higher rate, starting more businesses, acquiring more passports, traveling more, buying more homes. At some point brehs need to sit down and reevaluate the scoreboard because it’s not pretty, and “but you’ll be single forever” is a meaningless insult coming from someone who is single too.

Real question is what are YOU doing to better your situation or maintain your success.

 

[Rawtid]

Do I think older single women are more happier than old single men? No. It’s not a good looking site to see for any gender.

What I am seeing a lot more everyday is that women no matter the age enjoy being around other women, and will fake a front being happy.

Why is being single at any age not a good look, but dealing with toxic relationships until you find “the one” is fine?

A good number of people are NOT in healthy, functioning relationships, and probably should be single. Normalize something new and better.

 

[Jone2three45]

Why is being single at any age not a good look, but dealing with toxic relationships until you find “the one” is fine?

A good number of people are NOT in healthy, functioning relationships, and probably should be single. Normalize something new and better.

I’m talking about old folks, people over 50.

I agree, with everything else you said.

 

[Rawtid]

I’m talking about old folks, people over 50.

I agree, with everything else you said.

Lol I know you’re talking to me. But why the age limit? Single is always a better option than a trash relationship.

People should stop looking for love and find themselves. Arguing daily is wrong. Cheating is wrong.

 

[NobodyReally]

Whilst I can’t stand her music, I give credit to Beyoncé. Once she went solo and got married, she dropped that chicken head nonsense and promoted a healthy black married family. No one can fault her for that.

Beyonce also got cheated on multiple times by the same dude for years. Is she happy? Who knows. But she bent over backwards to please that dude and he still stepped out.

Why should they care. They’re more successful than you, black man. Making more money, graduating at a higher rate, starting more businesses, acquiring more passports, traveling more, buying more homes. At some point brehs need to sit down and reevaluate the scoreboard because it’s not pretty, and “but you’ll be single forever” is a meaningless insult coming from someone who is single too.

Real question is what are YOU doing to better your situation or maintain your success.

Yes! Single people critiquing other single people is weird AF. It's also bizarre how obsessed these single men are with a group of women they claim they don't care about. I've seen this topic posted every week now for months. It's kinda pathetic. If you don't care, then...don't care.

Why is being single at any age not a good look, but dealing with toxic relationships until you find “the one” is fine?

A good number of people are NOT in healthy, functioning relationships, and probably should be single. Normalize something new and better.

!!!!!!