Its stupid people buying into this notion gender is binary and that sexuality is determined in essence about how you "feel" under the auspices of personal identification. When in reality it makes no sense, but those going through that phenomenon want to belong and be accepted so they latch onto a ideological position that doesnt make sense logically.
Would you call a cat a dog or a dog a cat if it started emulating traits of opposite species due to environmental and societal cues? Or would you say that dog or cat, is responding to what it "knows".
At the end of the day two men and two women = no procreation of life, which = death of your bloodline, If your truly lesbian/gay. Its dysfunctional from a biological standpoint at the very least.