Terry Crews Recounts His Mother’s ‘Heinous’ Act of Checking to See If He’d Entered Puberty
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Personally, at that age, it would have made more sense for a father to be checking on his son like that, not the mother, just like I would think a mother might be teaching a girl about her changing body - not her father. I can see why he was bothered; if I had sons, I would let this be something my husband checked up on with our boys, not me.
Your right,but thats still mama. I just dont see the traumatic factor behind it. Fathers perving daughters is alot more common. So no father would say "let me seem them titis to see if you hit puberty". Becsuse he would know how that would come off. I could understand the mother not thinking anything of it. This was basically a medical procedure in her mind im guessing.
My mother did me the same way in 4th grade lol.
No. Just no. Period. Helicopter parenting is not okay and in fact does traumatize kids. Her being his "mother" doesnt make it right. The shyt is toxic as fukk and is an invasion of privacy.
No. Just no. Period. Helicopter parenting is not okay and in fact does traumatize kids. Her being his "mother" doesnt make it right. The shyt is toxic as fukk and is an invasion of privacy.
Got damn
keep shyt in house
Hollywood got this buck exposing everything
keep shyt in house
Hollywood got this buck exposing everything
Elle Seven
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So, we seem to live in a society where the sexual abuse of little boys/young men (save at the hands of other males) is not taken seriously or even considered valid, right? We've seen many stories on TLR alone where posters here have recounted experiences they had in their youth. I can't recall if any men here have ever used the word "traumatic" to describe these experiences, but it is evident they aren't recounting these experiences fondly. It is always apparent, at least to me, they were made wholly uncomfortable by what happened to them, yet they didn't vocalize it to the people around them. Even in a situation as benign as this with his mama, a young man felt off about his mama looking at this penis...I get it.
I'd posit the social climate just doesn't make it so a young man could say that's how he feels about this stuff. Your mama pulling your pants down and you are at puberty age...come on, now. When you are going thru puberty, you already become awkward and embarrassed by so much going in with your body. And, I would agree a mama pulling down her toddler's pants is not the same an doing it to an adolescent. I don't mean she had ill intent; I mean the young man himself is different and mama needs to be very adamant about asking consent.
I think it is part of a generational mindset though. I don't know that adults then ever felt they needed to ask a child for consent to "look" at them or touch them. They seemed to just expect compliance. For the record, I think mama needs to show just as much respect as we would expect daddy to in such a situation.
Joe Budden
Banned
You guys didn’t have penis inspection day at school?
CodeKansas
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First it was his abusive father, not it's his creepy mother? 
This undercover dikk riding fakkit loves the attention.
He must be trying to get on a new show since Brooklyn 99 ended.
This undercover dikk riding fakkit loves the attention.
He must be trying to get on a new show since Brooklyn 99 ended.
bigdaddy88
The King Of Power
this nikka got so many abuse or misbehavior stories its sad really smh
bigdaddy88
The King Of Power
i mean at certain age should ur mom really be checking on u like that??? that just seems weird..i know some moms can be overboard, specially if ur the only child but idk as long as it did not go further than that no harm done(or maybe their was harm lol)
as long as it did not go further than that no harm done(or maybe their was harm lol)
AsTheWorldBurns
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I’m not understanding how this is abusive or invasive at all. That’s your mother. She changed your damn diaper. It’s really her job to make sure you’re healthy and hitting developmental milestones. I could understand it being creepy if she was checking all the time. But this sounds like a one time thing.
When I hit puberty I actually asked my mama to check me out down there because things felt different and I wanted to make sure it was normal.
When I hit puberty I actually asked my mama to check me out down there because things felt different and I wanted to make sure it was normal.
datnigDASTARDLY
catching pigeons
this nikka got so many abuse or misbehavior stories its sad really smh
After that abuse thread on this board nothing surprises me anymore. Brehs be going through it, it's sad
The only way it makes what the mother did ok is if he asked her to look at his peachfuzz. If not, then yeah that's a problem
Bc it keeps him relevant. Nobody cares about him anymore bc of his c00nish ways. It's sad to see anybody go so low as to embarrass themselves and their family just to be in the limelight.
On the flipside we live in a society where men have been programmed to find victimhood where there is none for attention. The same way as women have. So now people retroactively go back and find things that were weird or akward in the past. To make themselves victims in an entirely different climate.
And yes black boy abuse should be taken seriously. But the fact is we are stronger mentally than women by nature. Or maybe because we were programmed to be stronger mentally. But we are simply different biologically from women. So our reaction to whats described as abuse or molestation from women isnt the same.
My issue is finding victimhood in retrospect based on the climate. A climate where you can bargain victimhood for attention,empathy and clout.
What did he hope to gain from saying this about his mama,who even you say probably had no ill intent? If im his sibling im pulling up and whupping his ass.