That beyond black white site

[Gravity]

they are NOT equals and they may as well be treated like children, because you cant hold them accountable by nature. women will always revert back to male responsibility when they fukk up. even if you could hold them accountable, then what? they take responsibility for their share in the mess, but everythings still screwed up. women arent going to go out and do any of the grunt work in the community, so what good will it do us?

like i said, this is the problem with BM believing in female equality. you got a bunch of black men that think they're perfectly capable of dealing with society and white supremacy. they've pit themselves between a rock and hard place trying to boast their independence and strength; but what do you honestly expect of these women that are desperately seeking a community that DOES NOT exist in black neighborhoods? i'm not saying coddle the damn bendwenches or feminist, cus none of you dudes go harder on them than i do. i'm saying EXPECT this type of behavior when you've got white men in their ear, and entire neighborhoods of black men thats on some complete BULLshyt.

you can call them enemies, traitors, whatever, but their #'s will only grow until black men replace the white mans spiked kool-aid with our own kool-aid. ironic part is nikkas been sipping the kool-aid a lot longer but yall call them bitter when they get mad at all the images of black men with white women that's pushed in their faces

Again man, you haven't thought your shyt through. Your male chauvinist shyt just isn't going to work because we(black men+women) are going to have to work together to make our own "kool-aid". Black men aren't going to be able to get shyt done by ourselves while a good amount of black women are working against us. We need black women on the team and telling them that they're inferior just isn't conducive to that. This is how the white man got in their ear in the 1st place kicking that feminism bullshyt.

You're lost dude. You're the type of black man that pushes black women away. Look at how little you think of them. They should be treated like children? Black women(black men too) being coddled, not held accountable, and being treated like children(to some degree) is a huge part of the problem. We as black men and women aren't children and we shouldn't be treated as such. We aren't the same and we naturally have different roles to play, but one isn't inferior to the other. Men and women are a unit and must work together to build a strong community. Black women are more than can capable and should be expected to be out here putting in work to strengthen the community while not allowing themselves to be manipulated against the community. The shyt you're talking is counterproductive. It's actually anti-black.

 

[FemiO]

holy fukking shyt i can't breathe

 

[marcuz]

Again man, you haven't thought your shyt through. Your male chauvinist shyt just isn't going to work because we(black men+women) are going to have to work together to make our own "kool-aid". Black men aren't going to be able to get shyt done by ourselves while a good amount of black women are working against us. We need black women on the team and telling them that they're inferior just isn't conducive to that. This is how the white man got in their ear in the 1st place kicking that feminism bullshyt.

why cant black men go off and get things built independent of women? if that's the case, how do BM have the gull to try to demand women submit when we're equalizing ourselves to them? why dont nikkas submit to women instead?

its a team effort. men go out and build and maintain the physical infrastructure, and women maintain the culture. but y'all believe women are overly capable, when all the evidence shows BW are just like every other race of women; they need to be protected an shielded.

You're lost dude. You're the type of black man that pushes black women away. Look at how little you think of them. They should be treated like children? Black women(black men too) being coddled, not held accountable, and being treated like children(to some degree) is a huge part of the problem.

my lady aint complaining, as she's not on that strong and independent crap. hell, every woman i've had long term relationships w/appreciated the fact that i'm not on that "50/50, we go dutch, i aint simping" shyt. i pay the bills, i provide, and i make sure she doesn't have to struggle for anything.

We as black men and women aren't children and we shouldn't be treated as such. We aren't the same and we naturally have different roles to play, but one isn't inferior to the other. Men and women are a unit and must work together to build a strong community. Black women are more than can capable and should be expected to be out here putting in work to strengthen the community while not allowing themselves to be manipulated against the community. The shyt you're talking is counterproductive. It's actually anti-black.

yeah, i agree, only problem is BM want the women to do OUR roles as men; while they simultaneously continue their duties as women. then nikkas got the nerve to get mad at the bedwenches thats trying to receive womanly treatment from other groups of patriarchal men. shyt makes no sense what a lot of you dudes are on. want the women to be equalized to men but got the audacity to complain when they act masculine or attitudinal.

 

[Yup]

Its not that I care about any one women in particular, but I've noticed this "swirl" shyt becoming more and more mainstream and it is nothing but a poison to our community. Its a downward spiral...black women resent black men? Fine, lets resent them back even more! and vice versa over and over again...
Now while I doubt it will ever have a LARGE dent in our numbers, I do believe that the hostility can become rooted, as so many other negative things in our community. Also interesting to note that this shyt was not so mainstream until the feminist movement began to make inroads on the internet...



That is one of the most hateful and poisonous articles I have ever read. Much worse than any shyt sourced from st0rmfr0nt or the like...

I have seen posts with equal vitriol on social media and fforums made by black men.

Just ignore it...that's the advice im given on the coli every day.

 

[The_Truth]

If this was a thread about a man putting such harmful views out there dudes would be going in, all I'm seeing from the females who decided to post in here are deflections.

Exxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxactly. Black men are FAR better at calling out the c00ns among us.

Black women? They will make excuses to death for the c00ns among them. "Oh, they're just hurt" or "Black men don't protect us" or some other bullshyt.

 

[The_Truth]

"you think we care that you bm are powerless cretins who are ruled over by white men, shot in the street like animals and have nothing going for you except your penis size? No, we don't because its one less bm that will make us a baby mama. now exit the blog. "[/QUOTE

Believe it or not, this is a common sentiment you'll find on most black female blogs.

 

[Yup]

@el_oh_el I meant by black men

 

[el_oh_el]

@el_oh_el I meant by black men

Yeah I kinda figured that

 

[Pdiddy]

Who started this site?

 

[Gravity]

why cant black men go off and get things built independent of women?

How? Who's going to raise these men? What are you talking about? How in the world can you build a community independent of women?

if that's the case, how do BM have the gull to try to demand women submit when we're equalizing ourselves to them? why dont nikkas submit to women instead?

You sound like someone who's never been a quality lasting relationship. Give and take/compromise are fundamental to any quality relationship. If "submit" is the word that you want to use then fine. There are times when a woman should "submit" to a man and other times when a man may need to "submit" to a woman. You're tryin to be obtuse but the point is that your mentality isn't conducive to black unity. I could see why black women wouldn't want to unite with cats like you.

its a team effort. men go out and build and maintain the physical infrastructure, and women maintain the culture. but y'all believe women are overly capable, when all the evidence shows BW are just like every other race of women; they need to be protected an shielded.

Now you're moonwalking. First you were saying that black women are inferior and should be treated like children, now you're admitting that it's a team effort. I'm the one who said that it's a team effort that that we have different roles to play so obviously I understand that. Saying that black women should be held accountable for their role in black dysfunction instead of being treated like children who shouldn't be expected to know/do any better isn't believing that they're "overly capable". Black women are certainly capable of being held responsible for what they do.

my lady aint complaining, as she's not on that strong and independent crap. hell, every woman i've had long term relationships w/appreciated the fact that i'm not on that "50/50, we go dutch, i aint simping" shyt. i pay the bills, i provide, and i make sure she doesn't have to struggle for anything.

You're arguing against a straw man here. Again, I've already said that men and women have different roles.

How does your lady feel about your belief that she's inferior to men? I assume she's ok with being looked at and treated like a child and if so, that would say a lot about your lady bruh. She should be complaining(at the least). My lady wouldn't go for that. Neither will my daughter.

yeah, i agree, only problem is BM want the women to do OUR roles as men; while they simultaneously continue their duties as women.

Tjis is another straw man bruh. I didn't say any of this. Being held accountable and expected not be manipulated against your own community is not just for men. Women are capable of living up to that standard too. You shouldn't think so little of women. That's a flaw in your mentality.

then nikkas got the nerve to get mad at the bedwenches thats trying to receive womanly treatment from other groups of patriarchal men. shyt makes no sense what a lot of you dudes are on. want the women to be equalized to men but got the audacity to complain when they act masculine or attitudinal.

What you're saying makes no sense. These "bed wenches" are being called out for perpetuating white supremacy ad ultimately working against the community, not just for being with white dudes. The truth is that most of these black feminist bed wench types aren't with white dudes. They're mostly either lesbians or single chics dreaming of being with a white dude. If these women were actually finding the grass greener on the other side I could at least half way understand the shyt. Other groups of men aren't lining up to save disgruntled black women on some knight in shining armor type shyt tho. These women are basically cutting off their nose to spite their face. I just try to get them to see that. You're acting as if they're too dumb and shouldn't be expected to see it.

 

[CriticalThought]

Believe it or not, this is a common sentiment you'll find on most black female blogs.

It absolutely is. I've seen those types of responses. So there's no way it's only trolls, or racists solely talking that talk. They think it's a game that will turn the cold war in the black community hot. How you have men believing women are inferior is beyond me. Never have I believed in the inferiority of the black women, nor will I in the future. Only a fool would believe that she's lesser than him because she was born a woman. But keep thinking because they're born with breasts, they can't do damage...join the long list of men taken down by them throughout history. When they're cops, hiring managers, loan officers, prosecutors, teachers and etc., you'll see how realer it gets in the future. Sadly the average black woman goes harder theses days than the average black man. Look at the "b.a.m. are cowards thread". A lot of "nobody taught us, hold our hand" ass nikkas arguing hypotheticals because they didn't have an ounce of experience to back half their statements up with. If that same thread were by black women they been would have laid that shyt out, formulated a plan and got shyt moving. I bet you LSA could get some shyt moving to benefit the black community faster than the Coli ever could.

But sites like theirs mean nothing if you don't respect black women's power. People keep trying to warn y'all but keep living that pipe dream. The worst enemy the black man could/will ever have is the black woman. If you can't understand why then I feel for you.

 

[The_Truth]

Here's another comment from that blog:

After the past 2-3 days, I think another a part of my life's mission is encouraging BW who are pregnant for a BM to consider terminating the pregnancy if they know said child is MALE.

Now, I know there are a lot of black male c00ns out there. But have you ever heard anything even remotely as vile as this in regards to Black women???

 

[marcuz]

How? Who's going to raise these men? What are you talking about? How in the world can you build a community independent of women?

when talking community building, we're talking businesses and keeping wealth within the community. why are women required for men to go off and network with eachother to build the community?

You sound like someone who's never been a quality lasting relationship. Give and take/compromise are fundamental to any quality relationship. If "submit" is the word that you want to use then fine. There are times when a woman should "submit" to a man and other times when a man may need to "submit" to a woman. You're tryin to be obtuse but the point is that your mentality isn't conducive to black unity. I could see why black women wouldn't want to unite with cats like you.

i've been in enough to know i'll never equalize my responsibilities and duties w/my partners. of course, relationships are about compromise, but its also about putting yourself in a position to protect & provide for your wife and kids. this is the their main complaint, BM NOT being in the position to control the economic landscape to protect & PROVIDE.

if broken down to women properly, guarantee more are on my side than yours. especially when it comes time for them to get treated like the women they are.

Now you're moonwalking. First you were saying that black women are inferior and should be treated like children, now you're admitting that it's a team effort. I'm the one who said that it's a team effort that that we have different roles to play so obviously I understand that. Saying that black women should be held accountable for their role in black dysfunction instead of being treated like children who shouldn't be expected to know/do any better isn't believing that they're "overly capable". Black women are certainly capable of being held responsible for what they do.

show me where i called women inferior? when it comes to accountability and mens duties, they should be treated like children. i never said it wasn't a team effort, but our societal duties are NOT 50/50. like i asked the other guy, DEFINE holding them accountable. how would you hold all these women contributing to the dysfunction accountable? eplain

You're arguing against a straw man here. Again, I've already said that men and women have different roles.

How does your lady feel about your belief that she's inferior to men? I assume she's ok with being looked at and treated like a child and if so, that would say a lot about your lady bruh. She should be complaining(at the least). My lady wouldn't go for that. Neither will my daughter.

you're the one strawmanning by saying i called women inferior when they i did not. regardless of what feminism has railroaded into your matriarchal nikkas, women cannot replace men. they are not going to go out and do any of the work that men should be doing in the community. if women could have done it by now, they would have.

i'm sure your daughter will love the entire dating pools of nikkas thats NOT in the proper financial position to protect and provide for her. im sure you'll LOVEEE all the these nikkas thats gonna be trying to get HER to pay for the date because its ALL EQUAL now.

Tjis is another straw man bruh. I didn't say any of this. Being held accountable and expected not be manipulated against your own community is not just for men. Women are capable of living up to that standard too. You shouldn't think so little of women. That's a flaw in your mentality.

its not a strawman, its what you dudes are on. women are still women and they're susceptible to all the negative images they've received since 4 yrs old. third time, HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE, HOW? what does that mean. you hold them accountable, now what? men still have to go off and do the building.

What you're saying makes no sense. These "bed wenches" are being called out for perpetuating white supremacy ad ultimately working against the community, not just for being with white dudes. The truth is that most of these black feminist bed wench types aren't with white dudes. They're mostly either lesbians or single chics dreaming of being with a white dude. If these women were actually finding the grass greener on the other side I could at least half way understand the shyt. Other groups of men aren't lining up to save disgruntled black women on some knight in shining armor type shyt tho. These women are basically cutting off their nose to spite their face. I just try to get them to see that. You're acting as if they're too dumb and shouldn't be expected to see it.

call them out all you want, how is that going to stop them? cacs are offering them more table scraps than black men, so they're still going to keep at it either way; even at the expense of the black community.

 

[CriticalThought]

Here's another comment from that blog:

Now, I know there are a lot of black male c00ns out there. But have you ever heard anything even remotely as vile as this in regards to Black women???

www.thecoli.com/threads/feminist-i-aborted-my-baby-because-he-was-male.292560/page-4#post-12178719

 

[Nomadum]

couldn't care less about a Kim K, a Kanye or an Amber Rose.

got other important shyt going on to care for the back and forth between some celebs and then the defense teams doing battle in comment sections. fukk em all.