That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss . You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! "

And then the next day you barely hear anything

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing

The tone is much different, more sanitized

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up Even though you swore it went great . And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back Date was Friday night.

It's over

Edit: She reached out . Here is the text.

Hi[Thatrogueassdiaz]!
I hope you're day is off to a good start! I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I've had a good time getting to know you. But if I'm honest, I have been very overwhelmed lately with work and projects around my home. That said, I'm having a hard time figuring out if I really like you or just your attention. it's very hard for me to come out to say that, but I did say I would be honest with you. I don't want to mislead you or waste your time if you are in search of a relationship. My hope would be that we could remain friends and maybe even dancing buddies and then let things take their natural course. However I will respect your decision either way and for my part there are no hurt feelings either way.
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Now I have not talked to this girl since last Sunday. And really it has been like 4 texts since the night of the date, so really since Friday. Today is Thursday. I probably should not even respond. I ignored her and now she comes back crawling from under a rock for attention. Btw with dancing she is referring to salsa, which I used to do.

 

[jdubnyce]

2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss . You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! "

And then the next day you barely hear anything

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing

The tone is much different, more sanitized

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up Even though you swore it went great . And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back Date was Friday night.

It's over

If she was really feeling you, you would've got some sort of weekend contact

Another nikka was up in the guts Sat and Sun

Sorry it had to be you

Move on to the next one

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

If she was really feeling you, you would've got some sort of weekend contact

Another nikka was up in the guts Sat and Sun

Sorry it had to be you

Move on to the next one

I know...I know . I know the game pretty well and I can always feel when the energy has changed and what that means.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

I don’t mean to sound like a jerk, but it seems her priority is elsewhere. It’s okay breh, it happens to the best of us. Chalk it to the game & keep it pushing.

 

[Henri Christophe]

Probably got an ex-nikka in the background still smashing that


Just relax in the cut.....she might hit you up in the future when he bushes her.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I don’t mean to sound like a jerk, but it seems her priority is elsewhere. It’s okay breh, it happens to the best of us. Chalk it to the game & keep it pushing.

No I agree. The part that hurts is that this chick was BAD. Probably one of the finest girls I've gone out with in a long long time, if not ever. Not the baddest I've pulled but definitely top 3.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

No I agree. The part that hurts is that this chick was BAD. Probably one of the finest girls I've gone out with in a long long time, if not ever. Not the baddest I've pulled but definitely top 3.

Don’t dwell on it breh.

 

[Swirv]

I know...I know . I know the game pretty well and I can always feel when the energy has changed and what that means.

If she ain’t on your nuts now, she never will be. If I was you, I wouldn’t hit her up anymore. Find someone new and Kim.

 

[ROFL_GUY]

Need a boat

Pull up the anchor 'cause we're leaving dry land
Get below deck with a d**k in your hand
Anchors away and shiver me timbers like to f**k ladies with 8-inch members​

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss . You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! "

And then the next day you barely hear anything

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing

The tone is much different, more sanitized

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up Even though you swore it went great . And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back Date was Friday night.

It's over

did you atleast attempt to bring her back to your place after the date?

 

[old pig]

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here…

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up…

 

[Vodun]

No I agree. The part that hurts is that this chick was BAD. Probably one of the finest girls I've gone out with in a long long time, if not ever. Not the baddest I've pulled but definitely top 3.

Remember this rejection is protection. All things happend for a reason playa. You might of avoided a seriously crazy chick that could of fukked up your life in the long run

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

Y’all ain’t aligned, you coming on too strong and she got something else lined up

Loosen up your belt a little breh, this ain’t a movie. nobody wants to be asked “so where do we go from here” on a second date after a little bit of friction.

fukk where she wanna go and go have some fun.

When I used to date, it helped me by hollering at more than one at the same time. Kept me from doing something silly like placing all my attention on just one.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Y’all ain’t aligned, you coming on too strong and she got something else lined up

Loosen up your belt a little breh, this ain’t a movie. nobody wants to be asked “so where do we go from here” on a second date after a little bit of friction.

fukk where she wanna go and go have some fun.

When I used to date, it helped me by hollering at more than one at the same time. Kept me from doing something silly like placing all my attention on just one.

I feel you. My thought was just asking to get that shyt out the way. Was hoping she would just be honest, so I could move on. And yeah in retrospect maybe I was coming on strong, but so was she honestly. The stuff she was saying etc. But I shouldn't have played along. It's all a game. All girls say the hate the game and yet play it too. Lesson learned.

 

[RareHunter]

2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss . You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! "

And then the next day you barely hear anything

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing

The tone is much different, more sanitized

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up Even though you swore it went great . And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back Date was Friday night.

It's over

U in high school still? All women in 2021 are fkcin casually until proven otherwise. Why out so much thought into it?