That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

[Darealtwo1]

nikka you were saved under "Dinner #28" in her contacts.

 

[flea]

Move on

 

[Goonba]

This is why it's important for every man to have a bit of abundance and have a couple different women in the background you're talking to. It's so you don't feel like a clown in case the chick you're feening for goes ghost. If Sally isn't feeling you like that you can just be like 'eh okay ' and hit up kayla to come hang out instead.

Women are already the masters of doing this.

 

[I'm Blackman]

nikka you were saved under "Dinner #28" in her contacts.

oh shyt.

Move on

this, keep it pushing

 

[No..Money..Mo..Problems]

This nikka really took a bytch on a date and shocked why he not getting a reply no mo. She got what she wanted 2 free meals and your validation

 

[Cat piss martini]

the to go plate you paid for was
so fire that the main dikk fell asleep in that p*ssy.
she took it as he cared.
he woke up asking where that food came
from and now she had a job to do.
get more food for the main dikk from a lame.

know i'm talmbout?

 

[Neuromancer]

Cancel her.

 

[No..Money..Mo..Problems]

She asked me the same thing after the first date. But you are right

She wanted another free meal

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Make sure you’re talking to more than one girl at a time to avoid the dwelling.

You’re suffering from a classic case of one-itis

 

[SheWantTheD]

You put shorty on a pedestal asking her when you gon see her again.

Waiting for a reply from her

if she’s half way decent you ain’t the only nikka she’s talking to. Play that shyt cool, talk to and date other women.

the nikka that she wants ain’t tryna Cuff her or asking her when he can see her next cause he got options on options.

 

[SheWantTheD]

She asked me the same thing after the first date. But you are right

And what did you say?

 

[TEH]

2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss . You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! "

And then the next day you barely hear anything

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing

The tone is much different, more sanitized

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up Even though you swore it went great . And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back Date was Friday night.

It's over

How are you all adult males and can’t tell when a woman likes you wtf?

Maybe is just me but unless she shows the same level of interest …

 

[SheWantTheD]

This is why you take women where you want to go since you are paying and sex isn’t guaranteed. And if she doesn’t want to go where you wanna go tell her have a nice life and find someone that will.

At least you’ll enjoy yourself even if it leads to nowhere.

 

[MrRDU]

Y’all ain’t aligned, you coming on too strong and she got something else lined up

Loosen up your belt a little breh, this ain’t a movie. nobody wants to be asked “so where do we go from here” on a second date after a little bit of friction.

fukk where she wanna go and go have some fun.

When I used to date, it helped me by hollering at more than one at the same time. Kept me from doing something silly like placing all my attention on just one.

Real ones know

 

[Koli_Kat]

Haha explain?

By saying that, she allowed you to reveal your hand and you did