The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Around the world this concept is mostly known and followed. In this country it's different. The idea that a will marry you after your 30's isn't something to hang your hat upon especially if you lack the qualities of a wife.

As far as the article goes I cannot blame women for their tastes in men. It's well known a woman respects a man with a spine who they feel protected by.

Alot of nerds I knew growing up didnt stand up for themselves when they were ridiculed. Instead they retreated into their shell. That lead to isolation and honestly it stagnated their growth into manhood. It's know wonder women pass over them.

Both men and women end up taking a loss in these nerd/woman scenarios. Many women waste time on guys who could care less about them if they weren't giving up ass and cash. By the time they realize their value to such men it's too late usually because the nerd doesn't forgive, gives up on women totally or he rather get with a youngin.

Or someone of a different race.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I mean, do we get mad at dudes for fukking a bunch of Instathots and then settling down with a "wifey" type?

What's the difference?

The difference is men dont have biological clocks when it comes to being able to produce children. Dont blame men, blame science.

 

[Blackout]

Nah, I date foreign black women that are not a part of that. If you not in the top 10% of dudes and not on that super mack tip, you a nerd, even if you can hold your own socially. Nerd = non attractive or non-ignorant dude that doesn't conform to the limited perception of a man.

I still just get with black women that ain't on the spotlight and KIM.

Im looking into that as well.

The murican way has poisoned a lot of our people.

 

[Mr. Negative]

So we must self improve but how? That's what the brotherhood is about.

I really just stopped caring what people thought about my likes and dislikes.

A lot of unconscious shyness and awkwardness comes from our fear of lack of acceptance.

We get all nervous and stuff because of desperation to be accepted.

It's not even about throwing on this faux-persona of being "so cool" or whatever, trying to be Stephan and not Urkel. lol

Just clean yourself up and be yourself. Plenty of folks like stuff for the same reason we like comics and anime (not video games, because theyre more mainstream now). It's like giving someone Scalped or Black Lagoon. Why wouldn't they like it?

I mean... unless you're a Brony or something.

It's more Self-Assurance.

 

[Sam Davison]

^This

This black nerd entitlement shyt is getting out of hand

No, I don't think it's about black nerd entitlement, it's more about if I wasn't shyt then, I shouldn't be shyt now. It's more to the point of someone who's been burned out with baggage (female or male) who want's someone with they're life together (be they male or female). It's about people wanting to live like it's party time and then coming after the person who worked to get where they are.

Like I said previously, no one is obligated to date anyone they don't want. However, once they have three or four kids with different people (and this goes for men and women), the nerd isn't obligated to save them. You got people actually trying to guilt trip nerds into accepting this.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Black nerds are not sincere when they bash black women, when they would struggle with a Spanish chick or a European chick just the same.

And this chick is a solid 6, and she is shallow and superficial. Now she trying to breakdown and share her thoughts about this dynamic with cliches like she is a modern day Plato. She will find a black nerd, but it will be for the same reason all washed up women do, he is their safety net fall back plan.

Lol pretty much. These dudes act like attractive non black women are running into their arms when that is not the case. As a matter they may just have more confidence with them than black chicks.

It comes down to attraction, you wouldn't pull baddies of any race if you dont develop conversation skills, learn to dress well or dont put in work at the gym to look well. This is based on my own observation and personal experience lol.

Yeah, the other is just a bird. Typical let me have my fun then settle for a simp in marriage of convenience b.s.

 

[Draje]

The difference is men dont have biological clocks when it comes to being able to produce children. Dont blame men, blame science.

Who cares?

What's the difference from a regular dude running around and fukking girls he doesn't wanna marry till he finds a nice wholesome wifey type and a chick running around, getting fukked by guys that aren't marriage material, until she finds a nice, wholesome nerdy type?

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

#G.M.O.B. Get married old brehettas.

 

[Mr. Negative]

Geeks are looked down soon as well but the difference is a geek can be an unemployed and unreliable dating prospect while more times than not nerds are more responsible , into education, and are intelligent and wise enough to start planning for the future early on.

I mean.... Im not talking about that sub-level dude who plays Advanced Dungeons and Dragons 4 nights a week and hasn't had a bath in 6 days.

That's why the next post I said "clean yourself up and be yourself"

 

[miranda]

That's not the issue the issue is that she's choosing black nerds after being pumped and dumped.

but these men are adults, they should recognize what she's doing and reject her

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

but these men are adults, they should recognize what she's doing and reject her

Why not ether her as well?

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

I mean.... Im not talking about that sub-level dude who plays Advanced Dungeons and Dragons 4 nights a week and hasn't had a bath in 6 days.

That's why the next post I said "clean yourself up and be yourself"

Again that's a geek lol. There is a difference.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Lol Non Thug = Nerd basically you can say you are socially inept as well. Unless you're Tyrone your interactions with 95 percent of black women will be deemed as awkward to those you approach.

No, that's the way you see it. I didn't read that big wall of THOT literature in the OP, I went by the name of the thread

And notice I said "regular brothas" and nothing about Thug Vs. Nerds. I know a variety of black men that don't fit into either catergory.


The only people that have a hard time approaching black women are the people who don't come correct. You have to have some type of swag about yourself






And I wish people would stop using Tyrone to symbolize the black thug archetype, it's corny

 

[Blackout]

If regular brothas have to put in work for women then those cake ass socially inept fakkits have to also

They ain't special. Being a "nerd" isn't a handicapped

They gotta put in more work than regular brothas cuz of their nerdy interests. So yes it is a handicap.

Basically they gotta have more "game" than regular brothas to get women.

 

[Versa]

There's plenty of black nerds. That reasoning has always been an excuse for a lack of effort