The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

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Congrats to your friends but their relationships(if they even exist) are not representative of the typical interactions between black women and black men who do not exemplify the stereotypical "thuggish" black male. You may have life experiences I'm not saying you don't but you come across as delusional and willing to say anything in order to plead a case as to why a non-thuggish black man who doesn't do well when pursuing his own race of women is solely at fault. I say this because it seems you lack clear insight or you are totally non observant to the interactions of the black youth. This doesn't have anything to do with looking for pity at least not on my part but rather addressing issues that are evidently hindering progression amongst blacks as a race. One issue that was brought up in this thread is the fact that about half of young bm live like or attempt to copy the persona of a thug player or just an I Don't Give A fukk type of guy. The reason I listed those other two examples after a thug is because their are levels to this shyt. I'm not saying all these guys out here are "bang bang shoot em up rob the grocery store" some are just guys with bad attitudes and nothing going for them or players however the one thing they all have in common is a lack of regard for the opposite sex or anyone else besides themselves for that matter. Some how we ended up talking about geeks and comic books and shyt lol. But this all has a deeper meaning media as a whole needs to change what kind of black man is perceived as "the man" before reliable black males become acceptable with not only the MAJORITY of black women but other black men as well lol.

Breh... you sound like someone who is in high school.

You may think that i'm oblivious and delusional but in reality... i'm probably just older than you.

When you get older and talk to older women, you will see that they will rarely extol the virtues of dating a thug. In fact, they will more often than not look for a stable square.

But hey... maybe i'm just full of shyt breh... who knows
 

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Breh... you sound like someone who is in high school.

You may think that i'm oblivious and delusional but in reality... i'm probably just older than you.

When you get older and talk to older women, you will see that they will rarely extol the virtues of dating a thug. In fact, they will more often than not look for a stable square.

But hey... maybe i'm just full of shyt breh... who knows
Of course a woman past 30 won't be into that shyt lol.
 

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everyone has their faults. You just won't admit your own.
If I was unable to get women then Id agree with you but I am able to get women so I rather not fix what isnt broken.

The woman in the OP fixed what was broken so now she can heal. Its about time more women did this.
 

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Of course a woman past 30 won't be into that shyt lol.

So maybe someone should make a thread about "The Charismatic, Aint shyt Thug Breh, and why He Deserves a Chance with Women Over 30" :dead:


So what age is the struggle? Are we talking about 17 year old brehs? Cuz idgaf about highschoolers to be honest.

I'm 28 now and I've been eating for years...

I need to know what age range you are. Are you a high schooler?
 

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So maybe someone should make a thread about "The Charismatic, Aint shyt Thug Breh, and why He Deserves a Chance with Women Over 30" :dead:


So what age is the struggle? Are we talking about 17 year old brehs? Cuz idgaf about highschoolers to be honest.

I'm 28 now and I've been eating for years...

I need to know what age range you are. Are you a high schooler?
Lol I'm around your age and married.
 
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