The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Queen]

Basic confidence is a given. Being humble has its advantages.

Basic confidence is not a given, because that is all women are asking for yet it is being turned into something completely different.

Who said that it wasn't important to be humble? Humbleness was not the topic. The topic was equating having a basic level of self confidence with wanting a womanizing Superhero. One can be humble and still manage not to practice the art of self deprecation.

This is the problem with black women. It's always no sympathy for you but whoa is me with all this criticism guys...

no.

I also like your cop out by saying any black woman "in your peer group" and not just "any black woman". Because you know that wouldn't be true. A lot of these after-thot minded females with exaggerated beliefs come from their after-thot minded mothers who remain thot minded because nobody wants to claim responsibility for how they treat the opposite sex during youth. But the truth is it starts with the females in your peer group.

That is not called a cop out. It is called logic - get some. Your issue is that you don't like how I left little room to criticize black women as a whole when it comes to how an individual may or may not have been raised.

If I just said blame your parents, then how on earth would I also say it is the fault of no black woman on this earth?

Yes, if you are a man whose parents did not properly raise him, blame your mother and father for failing at the task. Black women in your peer group have nothing to do with your careless upbringing.

Furthermore, I am not really here for this black women vs. black men divide so save that for someone who supports your agenda. Black men and women will either rise together or fall together so I don't have time for the nonsense.

 

[ZoeGod]

Why you nikkas mad lol.

 

[Sam Davison]

I can understand a woman curving a dude with kids. I don't blame them. For me, with no kids. I don't have to take on anyone's burden.

I can understand women saying no to a dude with a bunch of kids cause I'm going to do the same. I've seen folks (male or female) actually get 'tudes when someone doesn't want to deal with that.

I don't have any kids so I have the right to say "no kids". I've heard folks who did the party thing (and now with kids) say things like, "It's a blessing to take on that burden" and other spiritual minded stuff. It seems like after they had all their fun (men or women) want to spiritually guilt folks.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I think what most people mean by black men not looking for black women like that is that they're not waiting behind an emergency glass that will be smashed when she's with 3 kids out of wedlock.

We should be waiting brehs, it's our duty. That's what a good black man will do.

That's a tough line to walk breh...

Loyalty to a sista that wants to get dikk, stds and babies from Tyrone and his thug friends...and then come to us to take care of some worthless mothafukkas kids and disease riddled birdbrain hoebag...

OR

Dip to another race that will embrace us for who we are and treat us the way we deserve while we're in our 20's or younger.

I don't know about you, but I know what choice I would make.

 

[Blackout]

Basic confidence is not a given, because that is all women are asking for yet it is being turned into something completely different.

Who said that it wasn't important to be humble? Humbleness was not the topic. The topic was equating having a basic level of self confidence with wanting a womanizing Superhero. One can be humble and still manage not to practice the art of self deprecation.

Nobody ever denied that men should have basic confidence not once in this thread.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Would you be willing to detail how to get rid of lameness?

-Start working out daily
-Put down the deep fried foods and sweets
(You'd be amazed on how much p*ssy you'll start gettin once you're swol and in shape)


-Get out outta moms house
-Stop smokin blunts and drinkin everyday and playin X box in your room

-adopt new hobbies (outdoor shyt)
-travel outside of your city/neighborhood
-be a bold fearless nikka when talkin to females
-try to talk to females that seem "out of your league"

I could go on

 

[Wild self]

Whats weird is how I see these kind of women try to change a ghetto/playa dude to a faithful man yet dont try to change a nerdy dude into a confident man.

They want drama and whoredom. They better off worshipping the devil, cause God sees through their bullshyt

 

[Reginald Noble]

-Start working out daily
-Put down the deep fried foods and sweets
(You'd be amazed on how much p*ssy you'll start gettin once you're swol and in shape)


-Get out outta moms house
-Stop smokin blunts and drinkin everyday and playin X box in your room

-adopt new hobbies (outdoor shyt)
-travel outside of your city/neighborhood
-be a bold fearless nikka when talkin to females
-try to talk to females that seem "out of your league"

I could go on

You think Tyrone is doing any of the bolded items above?

nikka please

 

[Neuromancer]

-Start working out daily
-Put down the deep fried foods and sweets
(You'd be amazed on how much p*ssy you'll start gettin once you're swol and in shape)


-Get out outta moms house
-Stop smokin blunts and drinkin everyday and playin X box in your room

-adopt new hobbies (outdoor shyt)
-travel outside of your city/neighborhood
-be a bold fearless nikka when talkin to females
-try to talk to females that seem "out of your league"

I could go on

Thank you. I have a gf already and I don't do most of that shyt. I work out but I don't put on much mass. I like nerdy shyt though and I live in NYC not a forest so out doors stuff doesn’t really apply so much. Plus my girl hates being out and about.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

This thread ain't for p*ssy whipped negroes

Huh

 

[Somewhere For Me]

I really am tired of this shyt.

I remember a time where being a nerd got you bullied non-stop! Regardless if you were a boy or girl! It's only in recent years that being a nerd has become a cool thing...

I have grown annoyed with the "Only White people will accept me because I was too different for Black people." rhetoric that has become popular lately.

If you like White girls, fine. If you like White boys, fine. However, don't sit up here and act like you're extra special just because they choose you as their special Black token.

Seriously, to these people, does Blackness only boil down to two things?: Thugs vs. Nerds. If you say yes, that says more about you and your perception of Blackness then it does Black folks in general.

Some of these dudes be whining more than a bunch of females in heat while on their period. Sheesh, stop acting like you're entitled to the bad chick around the block and stop acting like that just because that one Black girl rejected you for being a "nerd" that means all other Black girls are the same.

Also, why does the blame always get put on Black women??? Why is it always Black women being blamed for the woes of Black men and the Black community in general?

On top of that, why are we crying to Gawker about this? A site that has a majority White audience? Cacs love to act like they know what's best for our community and get all kinds of glee having our problems directed to them to make them feel better about their views on us and to justify their racist bullshyt.

I'm not apologizing for this rant. I'm really sick n' tired of this crap.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

You think Tyrone is doing any of the bolded items above?

nikka please

That's the fukkin problem. That nikkaz mindset is gonna hold him back for ever

 

[Aceofspades404]

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[Behind-the-wheel]

I genuinely think y'all are retarded. 15 pages of an already overdone topic I try to make threads about diff topics and they flop. This and who's a c00n is all y'all wanna talk about

Awwwwww....feeling sore??

 

[Gold]

You ain't no nerd.

Spoiler

i'll take my nerd card back now please