The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[ignorethis]

Dare to Mention you're into anime.

Nothing else dries up a thots p*ssy faster. Mentioning you're into quality foreign entertainment.

I keep it 100 most of the time, but yea I be dead set on hiding the fact I like anime from female friends.

I got enough hell from my nikkas growing up about that shyt, like "you too old to still watch that shyt", but its not that bad because most nikkas ages 27-15 grew up being a big fan of some type of anime.

But black women do not rock with that shyt lololol

 

[YeLovesBoston]

on the real though, some of you guys taking this too personally.

Just widen your dating pool and give guys you might be overlookin a shot. Nothin more than that and if you don't want that, its your choice and no one can force you.

This article literally isn't bashing anybody.

 

[Gold]

although we all know what's meant by thugs, i think it's time to retire that label. a lot of these dudes aren't thugs in the traditional sense, they're just charismatic losers.

And that is exactly where this issue stems from.

A breh who spends all of his time going after ladies but not focusing on his career/ambitions/goals etc.... will get more girls then a breh who spends all his time focusing on career/ambitions/goals but wont ever talk to a lady.

The problem is... nerd brehs ignore the "talk to a lot of women vs talk to no women" part and focus on "goals/ambitions vs no goals/ambition" part

I don't care if you are the next bill gates, you gotta talk to the opposite sex

 

[Wild self]

nikka stop arguing directly with these Women on this subject we are never going to come to an agreement due to the nature of the topic.

Exactly. Its like going against white supremacy with all the Simps and enablers who benefit from this current social dynamic.

Yes, you can work on yourself, but in the meantime, get yourself a foreign black woman that ain't about that shyt. There are solutions to dealing with these dysfunctional people of the west.

 

[Gold]

Tupac in a Crip suit with gang ties is to some lost hoes.

And an instathot with nothing but pictures of her in midsquat is to some lost brehs

 

[Blackout]

And that is exactly where this issue stems from.

A breh who spends all of his time going after ladies but not focusing on his career/ambitions/goals etc.... will get more girls then a breh who spends all his time focusing on career/ambitions/goals but wont ever talk to a lady.

The problem is... nerd brehs ignore the "talk to a lot of women vs talk to no women" part and focus on "goals/ambitions vs no goals/ambition" part

I don't care if you are the next bill gates, you gotta talk to the opposite sex

So now nerds dont talk to the opposite sex yet earlier you said that they end up with white women because they chase white women?

How do these guys get white women without talking to the opposite sex?

Is it oochie wally or is it one mic?

 

[Neuromancer]

I really am tired of this shyt.

I remember a time where being a nerd got you bullied non-stop! Regardless if you were a boy or girl! It's only in recent years that being a nerd has become a cool thing...

I have grown annoyed with the "Only White people will accept me because I was too different for Black people." rhetoric that has become popular lately.

If you like White girls, fine. If you like White boys, fine. However, don't sit up here and act like you're extra special just because they choose you as their special Black token.

Seriously, to these people, does Blackness only boil down to two things?: Thugs vs. Nerds. If you say yes, that says more about you and your perception of Blackness then it does Black folks in general.

Some of these dudes be whining more than a bunch of females in heat while on their period. Sheesh, stop acting like you're entitled to the bad chick around the block and stop acting like that just because that one Black girl rejected you for being a "nerd" that means all other Black girls are the same.

Also, why does the blame always get put on Black women??? Why is it always Black women being blamed for the woes of Black men and the Black community in general?

On top of that, why are we crying to Gawker about this? A site that has a majority White audience? Cacs love to act like they know what's best for our community and get all kinds of glee having our problems directed to them to make them feel better about their views on us and to justify their racist bullshyt.

I'm not apologizing for this rant. I'm really sick n' tired of this crap.

The article writer was a woman. This thread went left

 

[Sassy]

@CinnaSlim @Sassy @MarsPunka and other self proclaimed nerds... how many times have been run through by aint shyt thugs

For me. None. My number is barely over a 5 xD

 

[MalikReloaded]

I'm going to try to appeal to women logically here. It's probably (high likelihood) a futile exercise but I'll try anyway.

Imagine a dude you meet when you're younger. You think he's handsome but he's not really feeling you like that. So yall stay friends. This male friend goes on to hit the lottery, makes $20 million dollars. Overnight his life changes. He's living life to the fullest, traveling across the world, partying everynight, enjoying life as a rich man. He talks to you less and less. You're his old friend from college or whatever. He never saw you that way. Never saw you romantically. Plus, he's rich now. He has supermodels and dime pieces calling him everynight trying to be with him. He has options and he's excercising all of them

Okay. Ten years go by. All the money is gone. He's stone cold broke. Of course all his rich friends and all the supermodels and gold digging honies are gone. He's back living with his momma. Now who does he call? You. His old female homie from back in the day. He says youve been on his mind lately. He's wondering how you've been. He's also wondering why you two never got together, that you were the right woman for him all along. Of course the woman would hopefully be disgusted by this. When he was rich and had a lot of options (kinda like a woman being young and beautiful), he wasn't even thinking about her. But now he blew all his lottery money, back at his mama's house and at rock bottom (kinda like a woman getting older and losing her beauty), all of sudden he can't stop thinking of his old friend and wants to be with her. And he'll have a nerve to get mad that the female friend wasn't waiting for him and got married to someone else while he was out there partying and living it up Hopefully the woman in the story would the phone and delete his number. When homie was on top of the world, he was gone in the wind. Now he on his ass, he wants you. The disrespect in that is mind boggling. That's how the nerds, lames and nice guys feel, ladies.

 

[Wink Beaufield]

Some of you nikkas sound mad feminine

Crying and whining on some "ol black women don't want me cuz I like anime and I know this for a fact because I've met every single black women on this planet."

I can smell the desperation and emo funk from my screen

And you don't think these females can sense this too?

The quiet thirst in this thread could drain the Mississippi River.

I and a few others told them to hit up some conventions where folks will have something in common to break that ice. That's how I met my girl at a panel discussing a game called Touhou.

 

[Neuromancer]

For me. None. My number is barely over a 5 xD

And you're not married yet?

 

[marcuz]

For me. None. My number is barely over a 5 xD

what i tell yall bout women always claiming 6 partners real # bout 14

 

[Gold]

For me. None. My number is barely over a 5 xD

What does barely over a 5 mean?



Did number 6 pull a 10 seconds in and peace

 

[Neuromancer]

The quiet thirst in this thread could drain the Mississippi River.

I and a few others told them to hit up some conventions where folks will have something in common to break that ice. That's how I met my girl at a panel discussing a game called Touhou.

Black Nerd Dating - Home

 

[Wild self]

Getting a Woman in America requires precision, accuracy intel and speed. Similar to military operations. I mean hundred page books have been written on the shyt. (Only in America) You don't have enough info and you don't execute correctly = You're dead in the water...

The average American male is not motivated enough to go through the training required during puberty to learn how to get females because the majority of females in their age range are already pre-diabetic, shaped like an apple and visually unappealing along with mentally non-stimulating.

This can be seen in the younger Gen Y cats on here who have a attitude about conquesting because the quality of p*ssy in their generation is virtually zero out of 100

Sad to say, a lot if that is true

You can develop confidence by going to the gym regularly, eating right, and so on, but even social privilege is only gained by a handful of men.