The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Neuromancer]

comic book stores? they still exist?

i'v enever been to any convention like that, but every time i see a black woman in cosplay pics, she's usually with non-black men. it always leaves me to believe the BW are just taking on the persona and interest of her boyfriend.

Look for black comic conventions like mecca con or black age of comics convention. You can eat.

 

[Yesterday]

I really am tired of this shyt.

I remember a time where being a nerd got you bullied non-stop! Regardless if you were a boy or girl! It's only in recent years that being a nerd has become a cool thing...

I have grown annoyed with the "Only White people will accept me because I was too different for Black people." rhetoric that has become popular lately.

If you like White girls, fine. If you like White boys, fine. However, don't sit up here and act like you're extra special just because they choose you as their special Black token.

Seriously, to these people, does Blackness only boil down to two things?: Thugs vs. Nerds. If you say yes, that says more about you and your perception of Blackness then it does Black folks in general.

Some of these dudes be whining more than a bunch of females in heat while on their period. Sheesh, stop acting like you're entitled to the bad chick around the block and stop acting like that just because that one Black girl rejected you for being a "nerd" that means all other Black girls are the same.

Also, why does the blame always get put on Black women??? Why is it always Black women being blamed for the woes of Black men and the Black community in general?

On top of that, why are we crying to Gawker about this? A site that has a majority White audience? Cacs love to act like they know what's best for our community and get all kinds of glee having our problems directed to them to make them feel better about their views on us and to justify their racist bullshyt.

I'm not apologizing for this rant. I'm really sick n' tired of this crap.

The blame falls in black women because they're the ones who choose the path of dusty nucca only to complain and play the victim when it blows up in your faces. The moment when bw solar taking responsibility for their poor decisions is the moment you stop having fingers pointed at you. Why wouldn't "nerds" have a problem with being overlooked only to be expected to pick up scraps later in life?

 

[Neuromancer]

You chose to quote me and not the person I quoted who actually made the statement. Ask the OP for proof.

But you won't.

Read my post to them challenging their comment.

 

[VFib]

The blame falls in black women because they're the ones who choose the path of dusty nucca only to complain and play the victim when it blows up in your faces. The moment when bw solar taking responsibility for their poor decisions is the moment you stop having fingers pointed at you. Why wouldn't "nerds" have a problem with being overlooked only to be expected to pick up scraps later in life?

Just because it's expected does't mean they have to, Don't they understand that they can say No?

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

The awkward black boy Nerd is bullshyt.

There's more awkward black girls. Awkward black boys aren't checking for them. nikkas love white chicks but want to blame someone else for it.

Nobody cares if a girl is awkward. If she is not fat and has a vagina then she has options. youre making false comparisons

 

[el_oh_el]

You can't deny that bw more times than not chose the most unreliable bm to procreate with.

Or maybe there's a high percentage of unreliable black men?

The circle goes on and on, hence the reason why this trite topic continues to do numbers despite being discussed at length numerous times.

 

[Neuromancer]

Nobody cares if a girl is awkward. If she is not fat and has a vagina then she has options. youre making false comparisons

Thrasher

 

[Larry Lambo]

I read a few pages but not reading this whole thread.

Get you bread up, get in shape, dress nicely, and go out and socialize with people.

If you get chose, great. If not, just deal with it.

I don't care who these chicks are choosing. It they not choosing me than there's something I can improve about myself.

 

[Wild self]

What type of response were you looking for with that post? Did you expect the Coli ladies to offer up their panties?

No, but that's crazy that you just admitted that sex is the best aspect of you as a person. There are brehs that eat in the dating scene, who still believe that it is right to call out the bullshyt in the dating scene.

Besides, I can have more than a few coli ladies if I wanted to, just that I still believe it's right to call out on the nonsense. It's a former of injustice, thought not illegal, is still morally wrong to support. Anyone with a conscience can say that.

 

[Somewhere For Me]

Let me say this as well:

I think both genders, regardless of race, can have this attitude that just because they are "proper" that they are more deserving of a mate.

Yes, this includes chicks. I've known of so many chicks who think just because they are the good girl who is still a virgin that focused on her education above all is the only one deserving of a good man.

As we have come to see, plenty of dudes, including good dudes, will wife a ho up. Especially a reformed ho.

shyt, there are good chicks right now going through a crisis trying to figure out why the bad bytch ho beat her to the aisle...

Yo, I can write a book on this shyt.

 

[Gold]

Oh man I gave you the answer.

 

[Blackout]

Nobody cares if a girl is awkward. If she is not fat and has a vagina then she has options. youre making false comparisons

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

That's because those are the type of men who have status with in our community amongst our youth and willfully ignorant adults.

You gotta sell that coke bruh.

Throw the books in the bushes for the block and

Your a case away from being a ladies man.

A coke transaction from being a ladies man.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

The blame falls in black women because they're the ones who choose the path of dusty nucca only to complain and play the victim when it blows up in your faces. The moment when bw solar taking responsibility for their poor decisions is the moment you stop having fingers pointed at you. Why wouldn't "nerds" have a problem with being overlooked only to be expected to pick up scraps later in life?

 

[VFib]

No, but that's crazy that you just admitted that sex is the best aspect of you as a person. There are brehs that eat in the dating scene, who still believe that it is right to call out the bullshyt in the dating scene.

Besides, I can have more than a few coli ladies if I wanted to, just that I still believe it's right to call out on the nonsense. It's a former of injustice, thought not illegal, is still morally wrong to support. Anyone with a conscience can say that.

Stop. You are reaching right now.