The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

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  1. The bad boy became the in style during the mid to late 90's. I hate when people act like the 90's was one year.
  2. As someone who is far from a thug, conservative demeanor, reserved attitude irl, good grades but not a nerd I never had a problem with women. Then again I'm not ugly. I'm not a male supermodel dime (pause) but I'm not Flava Flav either. So I guess life balances things out. Besides that the girls that like only bad boys were never my type. I like a more balanced and sensible female who was raised with a strong and active father or at least a strong and active father figure in her life.
  3. This woman has major issues ... :russ: I don't even need to say more ...

This is huge when it comes to dating black women. Though a lot of the thug chasers have fathers that are good role models in their lives.
 

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We don't hate quality women, but she only made this article because she believes she entitled to to best quality of the black male nerd after rejecting them for a long. It's a logical thing. Not a woman bashing thing.
It's also wrong on both sides. No Black man or woman should be made to feel like a second choice.
 

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While it's true that black women outpace black males in higher education, they still lag behind black men in certain fields. Black engineers and scientists, for example, are overwhelmingly male. Though rare, by no means are they mythical.

Statistically, a black engineer is more likely to find a white woman who shares his interests than a black woman. However, if he prefers white women, people will assume it's because he's a c00n.

Yeah, but engineering fields are damn sure not overwhelmingly black male. Not by a long shot. There have been scores of articles written about the underrepresentation of black people in stem, so there isnt this population surge of black males in engineering fields at play here.

What does your comment about a black engineer "statistically more likely" to share interests with a white woman all about? Your inferences are competing with each other. If engineering fields are largely a gender thing as you claim, then why are they more likely to discover white women based on that 'engineering' framework? They would seem to be more likely to date a male if anything.

If you want to say that because of OVERALL population differences between whites and blacks, black males (and black females) have more potential options interracially then just say that. Or just say black males have grown to appreciate a European sense of beauty because of the company they choose to keep. But this would come too dangerously close to black men accepting responsibility for aggregated outcomes due to their decision making. Stop with the racist notion that black women just cant appreciate intelligence and stability like the white woman naturally can.
 
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This narrative is tiring. If you're a "unconventional" black man, then cook with the ingredients in your kitchen. These dudes stay fukking up because they're chasing the superficial women that they have nothing in common with anyways. Listening to grown men constantly shirk responsibility is annoying.
 

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We don't hate quality women, but she only made this article because she believes she entitled to to best quality of the black male nerd after rejecting them for a long. It's a logical thing. Not a woman bashing thing.
It's also wrong no one should be made to feel like second or third choice to someone else.
 

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i've had plenty of white female friends who were nerds themselves.


they did not want this
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You're making your assumption based off looks. There is no specific look for the white or black male nerd. Quite frankly being a nerd doesn't automatically equate to having no sense of style as you're trying to make it seem with your superficial and willfully negligent post. There are plenty of clean cut black male nerds who look decent but because they don't have the swag or demeanor, they are considered a deal breaker for 95 percent of black women under the age of 30. That being said, let's look at the bigger picture. Women from other races seem to be more inclined to look for a dependable partner earlier on in their adult lives this whole high school joc nerd hierarchy amongst white people that you see in movies doesn't actually exist.
 

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It's also wrong no one should be made to feel like second or third choice to someone else.

Yeah and they have the right to shut on any quality person because of lack of social attraction. Sounds dangerously close to racism.
 

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How many "nerdy nikkas" have the opportunity to fukk thots and then marry a nice, wholesome girl? :russ:Only the most attractive men can do that.

Women can sleep with whatever type of man they're actually attracted to, then turn around and use "nerds" and nice guys for their money.

Again, you're using only specifically nerdy nikkas but I never drew a comparison to thots and nerds? I'm using normal dudes and normal chicks like I'm assuming the female in this article is.

How is a thot doing thot shyt and hoping some nerd saves her different than some nikka running through hoes and marrying a nice wholesome girl?

And I'm fukking thots right now and I'm a corny nerdy nikka who will have no problem finding a nice girl to date.

How is a REGULAR Breh fukking randoms and having his fun before settling down with a wholesome girl different than a REGULAR CHICK fukking random dudes and settling down with a nerdy / wholesome dude?
 

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You're making your assumption based off looks. There is no specific look for the white or black male nerd. Quite frankly being a nerd doesn't automatically equate to having no sense of style as you're trying to make it seem with your superficial and willfully negligent post. There are plenty of clean cut black male nerds who look decent but because they don't have the swag or demeanor, they are considered a deal breaker for 95 percent of black women under the age of 30. That being said, let's look at the bigger picture. Women from other races seem to be more inclined to look for a dependable partner earlier on in their adult lives this whole high school joc nerd hierarchy amongst white people that you see in movies doesn't actually exist.
White women tend to snap out of the shyt in their twenties before they have kids with the bad boy too, lol.
 

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This narrative is tiring. If you're a "unconventional" black man, then cook with the ingredients in your kitchen. These dudes stay fukking up because they're chasing the superficial women that they have nothing in common with anyways. Listening to grown men constantly shirk responsibility is annoying.
I agree. I personally think all black men should focus on goals and ideals as opposed to chasing instathots.
 

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Yeah, but engineering fields are damn sure not overwhelmingly black male. Not by a long shot. There have been scores of articles written about the underrepresentation of black people in stem, so there isnt this population surge of black males in engineering fields at play here.

What does your comment about a black engineer "statistically more likely" to share interests in a white woman all about? Your inferences are competing with each other. If engineering fields are largely a gender thing as you claim, then why are they more likely to discover white women based on that 'engineering' framework? They would seem to be more likely to date a male if anything.

If you want to say that because of OVERALL population differences between whites and blacks, black males (and black females) have more potential options interracially then just say that. Or just say black males have grown to appreciate a European sense of beauty because of the company they choose to keep. But this would come too dangerously close to black men accepting responsibility for aggregated outcomes. Stop with the racist notion that black women just cant appreciate intelligence and stability like the white woman naturally can.
Where did this come from? Is it all media?
 

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We talking about a certain type of black and Spanish? Define these types. I agree with you though. If a white girl/ boy makes you happy that's fine. No one should have wagging tongues about it.

I'm just saying a nerdy black dude is not sliding over there by Avenue C to snatch up a Spanish chick. That's why you had to mention park slope.
 
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I tutored this black girl in math and she was like after I become a doctor she'll call me.

She has a child. Keeps telling her baby daddy she's with another man when she's with her tutor (me). Has "multiple" bfs-- she's a thot.

That Remark bothered me so much I added the agency to assign me to someone else. Which was a white girl from a wealthy family who tipped well.:ehh:. She's fun to be around. And wasn't a thot.

By the way she called me to tell me she failed math. I was like I don't give a fukk. :usure:
 

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I'm just saying a nerdy black dude is not sliding over there by Avenue C to snatch up a Spanish chick. That's why you had to mention park slope.
No most of them live in park slope cause they make good money. What's going on in the lower anyway?
 
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