The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

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:manny:She had some decent points. Usually in the media only a certain type of dude is heavily promoted, the gangster, baller types. So if that's all you're seeing as you grow, then that's what you're gonna go for. Its the same for all these PAWG lovers on here. And the dudes who don't fit into the these stereotypes are gonna feel slighted and neglected, and then go on to hold a bitter view of the women who rejected them.

So really we should all come together and :hug:
 

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No most of them live in park slope cause they make good money. What's going on in the lower anyway?


Nothing really, just trying to stay woke.

Just happy I can spot the weirdos and creeps who are either

1. thugs or thots

2. try to hide behind sophistication like superficial people or the women who wrote this article.

I find you don't only lose your sanity, you also lose time and money.
 

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Nothing really, just trying to stay woke. Just happy I can spot the weirdos and creeds who are either thugs or try to hide behind sophistication like the women who wrote this article.

I find you don't only lose your sanity, you also lose time and money.
I get what you're saying. As I said before I advocate for self improvement and finding some one who is gonna compliment you. I found my black girl nerd and I'm watching her rise as I rise. Just saying.
 

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This will go on deaf ears.

Immature women are common and thats the issue.

Not enough women want to admit their faults and want to blame black nerds instead of themselves for their crappy judgement in men until they hit 30 and finally smarten up when they are past their prime.

They will call the black nerd awkward, antisocial and lame and then tell him to fix it yet fail to notice how they ramp up the difficulty when it comes to him. Despite popular belief many nerds are social and not awkward yet only appear that way to women who clearly set up a lot of invisible barriers for his type and his type alone to knock down to get to her.

Then when he is forced to date out they lie to themselves and say how they prefer white women. They pretend as if the men they saw as thirsty, even worse a black nerd, magically have high standards when the reality is that a black nerd would be even less likely than other types of black men to have preferences other than a woman who would give him a chance.

I agree with the article that this cycle needs to stop so there will be less black nerds being forced to date out and benefiting non black women and less black women and children being used and then abandoned by aint shyt men.

I also agree that the media does promote being ghetto by both men and women rappers and singers.

I just hope a fad starts up which will make intelligent black men popular cuz looking at the scene it looks like thats the only thing immature women will respond to.
 
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Dare to Mention you're into anime. :wow:

Nothing else dries up a thots p*ssy faster. Mentioning you're into quality foreign entertainment.
This depends on how you own it. I was living with a chick who was ProBlack but also a bit hood and when I told her I not only loved comics but wrote them she gotten into them. The relationship ended in infidelity on her part but that's another story.
 
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This depends on how you own it. I was living with a chick who was ProBlack but also a bit hood and when I told her I not only loved comics but wrote them she gotten into them. The relationship ended in infidelity on her part but that's another story.
They're few and far in between. This one in particular loved mirai Nikki but has like 4 kids and two baby daddy. A joy to be around but :yeshrug:
 

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He shouldn't care what other people think, just like other people shouldn't care about his preferences. Yet, people do care.
So because people care he has to explain himself? Or force himself to date women he's not attracted to/interested in or whatever the case may be? At the end of the day, those people that care aren't paying his bills, feeding him, giving him money, etc. They are doing nothing to make sure he is healthy physically, mentality, or emotionally. The only person doing that for him is him so the only opinion that should matter is his. But let's be honest the black males who do pawg because they feel black women don't want them aren't announcing why they pawg to explain their reasons, they're doing it because whether consciously or sub-consciously they know they're doing it for the wrong reasons and are trying to explain to themselves why they pawg not to other people.
 
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