The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[wickedsm]

Im not for gender wars either sista

The interests are Anime, video games, certain music etc.

It makes the lady less interested when she finds out that you have such interest. Some prefer not to be with a man with such interests if she is able.

It doesnt leave you to "beg" women but it does make it so that you have to get her to look past that interest that she deems undesirable.

K. I'm just wondering if that's really different than men who are really into anything like say sports for instance? You ever heard the term football widow? Lol
I actually enjoy watching and attending sports w my H so no problem here.
Or car stuff and shows?
Or sneakers? H is a sneakerhead. I'm not. He enjoys it. I support him in his collecting habit.

I'm just wondering if people are looking for a partner who's okay with their interests or do they need to share the same interests?
It makes a world of difference


Hypothetically were I a single lady I wouldn't have any problem with a guy with any of those hobbies or interests as long as we had some other common hobbies and interests and he didn't demand that I must like his at the same level he did ya know?

 

[Arishok]

Your statement is ignorant.
You ARE forced to date outside your race when NO ONE from your race will date you.
That's like saying "No one is forced to eat steak when there's no chicken available".
Technically they don't have to eat steak...but if the chicken ain't available...THEY'RE GONNA EAT SOMETHING!




I can only speak on what I know.
And that's white and middle eastern females.
All the black females I dated were worthless except for my wife. She's the only one I've ever come across while dating that was worth a damn.

Not ignorant and there's no way to prove that NO ONE from your race will date you. It's about seeking what you want. Are these guys visiting social events in their area that gathers others that share the same interests and linking up with the black women there? If not, that's their own fault, not thug loving black women.

 

[MalikReloaded]

And stop telling nikkas we're whining or crying for calling out the behaviors of black women. I didn't write a public internet article about how my dating life sucks. A black woman did. I'm just one of millions of black men explaining why she's having problems.

 

[Blackout]

K. I'm just wondering if that's really different than men who are really into anything like say sports for instance? You ever heard the term football widow? Lol
I actually enjoy watching and attending sports w my H so no problem here.
Or car stuff and shows?
Or sneakers? H is a sneakerhead. I'm not. He enjoys it. I support him in his collecting habit.

I'm just wondering if people are looking for a partner who's okay with their interests or do they need to share the same interests?
It makes a world of difference


Hypothetically were I a single lady I wouldn't have any problem with a guy with any of those hobbies or interests as long as we had some other common hobbies and interests and he didn't demand that I must like his at the same level he did ya know?

Because women dont react as negatively when a man is into sports than men who are into anime and many women are even into sports unlike anime or video games.

 

[Blackout]

Not ignorant and there's no way to prove that NO ONE from your race will date you. It's about seeking what you want. Are these guys visiting social events in their area that gathers others that share the same interests and linking up with the black women there? If not, that's their own fault, not thug loving black women.

They are linking up with any woman that will come their way.

Black nerds arent picky.

 

[Phitz]

A lot of women identify as nerds nowadays, because they think it attracts intelligent men with good jobs.

Yeah, it's getting annoying now. They ruining it for the true nerd chics. Reminds me of that thread with the PHD chick that kept calling herself a dork, even though she had all thsoe instagram pics showing her ass. Intellitence/academia does not discriminate against thots, that's where alot of them begin or expand their thotness. Everytime I read about a chic that says she's a nerd/dork I want to throw up...lying ass. Glasses and good grades, a nerd does not make. Thots can do that too.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

at you thinking dudes were voluntary celibate in their years around black women so they could have an excuse to date white women in the future.

Yea....that hoe probably want us now. She 30 or close to it and need a stable dude to settle with. Don't change the fact that from 17-24 she wasnt interested.

I'm still at you really believing thirsty dudes with almost no real dating options are out there turning down cute black women. Turning down sex and relationships. What fantasy you living in nikka? Nikkas will smash anything. Nikkas would have gladly dated black women. You get dissed over and over and over. Eventually you try other options. Then eventually you just leave. Yea, these hoes want us now that we making money and they want to get married. Where were they 5-10 years ago?

EXACTLY!!!

 

[Neuromancer]

So all black male nerds aren't getting p*ssy from black women till 30?



Listen breh

If black nerds are getting white women only its because they only want/chase/go after white women. Stop this fukkin nonsense breh, its pathetic.

I can't cosign all of what you said but I will say that I owned my nerdiness in front of all women I fukked with and they either accepted it or gtfo. Most were black so you're not entirely wrong.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Pretty much, people are just gonna come up with excuses.

I'm a short, skinny, flat chested, never had a perm, head always in a book, breaking the curve in class, glasses wearing quiet weirdo, yet all the men I've dated have been black.

If it's really important to you, you'll find a way. For men, sticking to their race just isn't as important as getting their dikks wet so

 

[Barnett114]

MalikReloaded trying too hard

 

[Phitz]

Because women dont react as negatively when a man is into sports than men who are into anime and many women are even into sports unlike anime or video games.

There are people that are into all of those

 

[Blackout]

Pretty much, people are just gonna come up with excuses.

I'm a short, skinny, flat chested, never had a perm, head always in a book, breaking the curve in class, glasses wearing quiet weirdo, yet all the men I've dated have been black.

If it's really important to you, you'll find a way. For men, sticking to their race just isn't as important as getting their dikks wet so

Women generally have more options than men as to who will date them.

Female nerds are no exception.

 

[capt_saveahoe]

The problem with self identified geeky and nerdy blacks is that they dont really want each other. Of course women have the upper hand in sexual selection so if women show love to the men most of them will jump at it.

The real issue from my experience is the so called black nerds and geeks tend to want to identify more with nonblacks.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

They are linking up with any woman that will come their way.

Black nerds arent picky.

EXACTLY!

I wish I could show yall some pics of the females I hooked up with when black females wouldn't give me play.
There is a whole world of women out there that will appreciate a black man when a black female wont.

 

[Arishok]

They are linking up with any woman that will come their way.

Black nerds arent picky.

Black male nerds need to ask themselves this: What are they doing to link up and find black female nerds? If you want a black nerd partner, you can find one. You guys are making it seem like non black females are throwing themselves at you while black females are giving you the stank eye

Are these non black females initiating the conversation/attraction and are black females not? Are the nerds only going up to and flirting with the non black females OR flirting with MORE non black females than black ones? What are these non black females doing differently than black females?