The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Phitz]

Pretty much, people are just gonna come up with excuses.

I'm a short, skinny, flat chested, never had a perm, head always in a book, breaking the curve in class, glasses wearing quiet weirdo, yet all the men I've dated have been black.

If it's really important to you, you'll find a way. For men, sticking to their race just isn't as important as getting their dikks wet so

EVery guy has met a thot werido and/or nerd, not saying you're a thot or nerd, just agreeing with what your'e saying(men trying to get their dik wet). Men dont' swerve women the same way women swerve men. You said you were skinny. I guarantee that has not stopped you from getting a quality guy. Most guys(even black ones) do want a slim woman regardless of all that thick talk. They like thick, but they don't want fat. You being skinny and flat chested means they dont' get the fat. Plus alot of men don't care about being flat chested. U got nipples they will treat them like pacifyers regardless of size.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Black male nerds need to ask themselves this: What are they doing to link up and find black female nerds? If you want a black nerd partner, you can find one. You guys are making it seem like non black females are throwing themselves at you while black females are giving you the stank eye

Are these non black females initiating the conversation/attraction and are black females not? Are the nerds only going up to and flirting with the non black females OR flirting with MORE non black females than black ones? What are these non black females doing differently than black females?

They're unicorns. I don't know why its hard to grasp. They're as much of a unicorn as a asian girl in Louisiana with a ghetto accent and box braids.

 

[Blackout]

Black male nerds need to ask themselves this: What are they doing to link up and find black female nerds? If you want a black nerd partner, you can find one. You guys are making it seem like non black females are throwing themselves at you while black females are giving you the stank eye

Are these non black females initiating the conversation/attraction and are black females not? Are the nerds only going up to and flirting with the non black females OR flirting with MORE non black females than black ones? What are these non black females doing differently than black females?

Black female nerds are not common. Most throw away their nerd traits to chase popularity.

Black male nerds are linking up with any black woman so if a black nerd partner is out there he will find her and she isnt then he wont. Black nerds arent picky.

Its just that nonblack women have an interest in black male nerds for some reason so they scoop them up before they can meet with a sista.

 

[wickedsm]

I'm pretty sure there's a gang of anime threads on lsa so there's definitely "nerd girls" out there fellas

Good luck to everyone in finding that special someone and not worrying about who didn't want you back then- just who wants you and you want them here and now

 

[wickedsm]

Because women dont react as negatively when a man is into sports than men who are into anime and many women are even into sports unlike anime or video games.

Thankyou for the thoughtful response.

 

[Arishok]

Black male nerds are linking up with any black woman so if a black nerd partner is out there he will find her.

Its just that nonblack women have an interest in black male nerds for some reason so they scoop them up before they can meet with a sista.

So it's that non black women are initiating the attraction to black male nerds and black women aren't?

 

[Blackout]

So it's that non black women are initiating the attraction to black male nerds and black women aren't?

Basically, I dont know why non black women like male black nerds so much.

I rather see them with black women so dont get me wrong.

 

[Arishok]

They're unicorns. I don't know why its hard to grasp. They're as much of a unicorn as a asian girl in Louisiana with a ghetto accent and box braids.

I doubt that, I go to C2E2 every year and always see a handful of black female attendees/cosplayers.

 

[Barnett114]

And for them nikkas that say "but but we would take any kind of black woman" If she walked up on you

 

[Gold]

They are linking up with any woman that will come their way.

Black nerds arent picky.

Then why are we here lamenting the lack of black female nerds... if nerds could care less what women are coming their way? If nerds dont care why should we?

 

[Arishok]

Basically, I dont know why non black women like male black nerds so much.

I rather see them with black women so dont get me wrong.

There's nothing I can say about this if an attractive non black woman comes up to you expressing interest when black women aren't then

But this doesn't mean black women are turning you down or chasing thugs, just that they're more reserved and that's black women's fault.

 

[Gates]

Who's saying nerds?

Dudes hype up girls as being fukkable all the time but will say a chick isn't wife able. Dudes will consistently say that you supposed to just fukk thots but not marry them...

HOW IS THIS DIFFERENT? How is a blowing the back out of thots but marrying a nice, wholesome girl any different than a girl getting her back blown out by thugs and marrying a nice, nerdy nikka?

Explain.

There are important similarities in that Thot/Thug worshipping creates negative role models for men and women respectively.

However it's different because the woman in the article wasn't talkning about "fukking thugs but not marrying them", she was attracted to them in the sense that she wanted to settle down with one. When it comes to men and thots it's pretty obvious that thots simply are sexual objects. I don't think men are talking about earning their affection and investing romantic emotions etc. As a man you grow up seeing that men who are aloof with women often times are more successful with them than the ones who treat them respectfully, so in a sense women like this are rewarding men for being destructive in their environment. With validating thots you get a lot of attention seekers, but in validating thugs you get a bunch of destructive a$$holes.

 

[Blackout]

Then why are we here lamenting the lack of black female nerds... if nerds could care less what women are coming their way? If nerds dont care why should we?

Black female nerds are my type.

There's nothing I can say about this if an attractive non black woman comes up to you expressing interest when black women aren't then

That is all Im trying to say.

Thats the only type of black nerds Im defending cuz being single and lonely sucks and actually makes women less likely to want to be around you cuz they can feel the desperation. Those dudes are just trying to survive..

Im not defending those that prefer non black women tho

 

[MalikReloaded]

If you're a black nerd, regardless of if you're male or female, is it easier to go interracially? Yes because there are more white male/females who are into the "nerd" culture than black male/female. However, is it near impossible to date intraracially like you all are claiming? No. If a black nerd wants a black partner, they'll find one.

I can definitely find a black woman if I wanted one. My interest level is very low though. They didnt want me from 18-25. Why should I want them now? I was a lame nikka then. I should still be a lame nikka now too. Stay consistent.

 

[Blackout]

Thankyou for the thoughtful response.

Its all love.