The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

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Hypergamy :yeshrug:

I talk to a bunch of insecure men. I just hate when they complain, I give them advice, we talk it out and they don't take the advice and continue to complain. They don't want to change and I don't have time to baby grown ass people.
As long as you're honest. This leads to pump and dump for most guys btw.
 

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Hypergamy :yeshrug:

I talk to a bunch of insecure men. I just hate when they complain, I give them advice, we talk it out and they don't take the advice and continue to complain. They don't want to change and I don't have time to baby grown ass people.

We know that women want their own Superman that comforts them. But in Hypergamy, most people get burned and end up unhappy.
 

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We know that women want their own Superman that comforts them. But in Hypergamy, most people get burned and end up unhappy.
It doesn't mean he has to be Superman lol. Everything is extremes with yall. I'm submissive by nature. If I am going to submit to a man and let him lead, he needs to be worth it. He has to bring something to the table. Lead us to greatness.

Notice my post was talking about insecurites and made no mention of material wealth. Keep it in context boys.
 

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It doesn't mean he has to be Superman lol. Everything is extremes with yall. I'm submissive by nature. If I am going to submit to a man and let him lead, he needs to be worth it. He has to bring something to the table. Lead us to greatness.

Notice my post was talking about insecurites and made no mention of material wealth. Keep it in context boys.

Most men of worth, know that they only give their best to women that work on themselves and are level headed. Otherwise, you gonna be :manny: status to them.

Especially now, where marriage rates are tanking. Just work on yourself first, then the quality man will appear.
 

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"It wasn’t until my 30s that I began questioning my line of thinking in terms of Thugs and Black Boy Nerds; I started to wonder what the Thug brought to the table. Who was he aside from smoldering good looks, stilted conversation and emotional closed-off-ness? Once I stripped away the fantasy, I realized he was a scared little boy, acting out by withholding affection and commitment and I was a scared little girl accepting his bad behavior because I didn’t think I deserved better.

Oh fukkin PLEEEEASE....now that you're old and washed up and no "Thugs" want that saggy worn out p*ssy anymore...now you are considering the Black Boy Nerds???
bytch GTFOHWTBS....They ain't lookin for your tired run-thru ass.
You still dumb as hell and ain't thinkin...those Black Boy Nerds are in their 30's too and wise to your bullshyt after dealing with it for a lifetime.
And that's exactly why they're with Ericka and Becky.
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"The more I embraced being a Black Girl Nerd, the more I discovered I wanted a Black Boy Nerd of my own. I was tired of the dark, brooding, emotional terrorism of the Thug. I rethought my archaic ideals surrounding masculinity, which helped me to embrace the type of guy that worked for me, not against me. I’m not saying Black Boy Nerds can’t hurt us, but I do think they’re worth getting to know."


Yeah...the exact words of every old washed up ran-thru hoe I ever knew from the PJs back home.
Every...single...gatdamned...one of them is posting on FB about the same damn shyt. With their 3+ kids and project living with multiple baby daddies who are still on that same stupid pathetic "Gangsta" bullshyt that they were about back in the 7th grade.
Every one of those silly birds are posting about how they want a nerd now and want someone who can give them what they need.

Well, nerds don't want you!

Buncha fukkin dodo birds...your time passed decades ago bytch.
We married wholesome females (black, white and other) that would date nerds and had better minds and more going for them.
fukkin black females do this shyt every damn day, I see it all the time...the whole range of em.
The young ones curving regular smart black kids, the 20 year old ones getting knocked up by tyrone and his boys, and the 30+ ones with saggy t*ts and 3-4 kids and just disgusting talking bout "I need a good man".
Man, fukk YOU!!
Every one of you fukk YOU!!!!
I hope you NEVER find a good man, stay with fukkin Tyrone and his cronies!!
That's what you deserve, and I hope they shyt on you every fukking day!
:deadrose::russ:Lmao no chill. This whole thread is comical though.
 
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Didn't read, but I assume this article is talking about my cousin. Handsome dude, smart, not the slightest bit awkward, though. He's just well-mannered and knowledgable. Black women don't check for him. Truth
....we're a lot alike in alotta ways, first gen grandkids into guitars, sci fi, gaming, computers and graphic novels. When we talk it's just :mjlol::lolbron::jbhmm: but black women, outside of our family, not wit it.
 

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Most men of worth, know that they only give their best to women that work on themselves and are level headed. Otherwise, you gonna be :manny: status to them.

Especially now, where marriage rates are tanking. Just work on yourself first, then the quality man will appear.
Are you speaking in general or to me specifically. I think I've made it pretty clear what im about. Hence, why I can't stand people who refuse to work on themselves.
 

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I touched on this in the bitter bytchmade thread I made earlier. You know how there's a saying, you probably don't get along with certain people because they remind you of yourself?

I feel like certain self-proclaimed "nerds" dislike thugs because they want to be assertive or confident like them, but feel that they are to awkward to. Like a self fulfilling prophecy.

I dislike insecure men because I also suffer with insecurity and I feel like because they are men they should be better than me. I want to spend time with someone who makes me a better person, or we make eachother better people. I don't want to be around people who bring me down. A lot of the time people like to bond over misery and sit and stew in it. I want more.


shyt, i agree. can't have two homebodied introverts laying up under eachother. someones gotta be the outgoing social type.
 

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Are you speaking in general or to me specifically. I think I've made it pretty clear what im about. Hence, why I can't stand people who refuse to work on themselves.

In general. Both men and women just want the best out of no effort. Problem is, people get rewarded, whether in money, sex, food (lol), for doing negative crap.

I mean, a man like me that been to different places, with mad connects to more $$$, ain't just gonna pick a below average chick with debt and weight/emotional issues.
 

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Over 1,000 posts in this bytch? And I bet its nothing but nikkas blaming women for why women don't want them. Good lord you nikkas are faggits.
 
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