The Coli Black Male Holiday Well being check

[LezJepzin]

Returned to work yesterday for the first time since March. Felt great to be back

Things are looking up

 

[Easy-E]

 

[Kenny West]

Stay safe and stay blessed everyone. Happy thanksgiving

 

[MajesticLion]

 

[SmallWars]

I'm lonely as shyt but enjoying my day playing video games.

Otherwise financially and physically doing great.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

You came in on some negative shyt calling nikkas weak because someone made a thread checking on other black men. Ain't nobody said shyt about woe is me or crying thats some shyt you brought up because you can't stand to see black men encouraging one another. You can't be like hey nobody cares about black men and then get mad that black men decide to care about each other and encourage each other to stay strong. Show me where someone in this thread said they wanted a shoulder to cry on, show me where in this thread that someone stated they wanted to cry on tv, show me where someone said they were feeling sorry for themselves, show me where someone said that they wanted to have you listen to them cry.

Breh, it's thanksgiving. I ain't about to keep going back and forth with you. I said what I said. You got a problem with it, then ignore me. You ain't changing my mind. I made my points in here, and like I said initially, I got no problem with brothas checking on brothas, but this site has been (not just today) a cesspool of men whining about various things. One of the things that trips me out the most is that y'all dudes whine cause you ain't getting treated as tenderly as women do. Y'all whine about any old thing. Now if you wanna keep on whining, do you. I'm not a whiner. I go out and make stuff happen. As I've said on here time and time again, probably 60% of TLR I wouldn't associate with in real life cause y'all got some twisted views of how the world is.

 

[xiceman191]

Breh, it's thanksgiving. I ain't about to keep going back and forth with you. I said what I said. You got a problem with it, then ignore me. You ain't changing my mind. I made my points in here, and like I said initially, I got no problem with brothas checking on brothas, but this site has been (not just today) a cesspool of men whining about various things. One of the things that trips me out the most is that y'all dudes whine cause you ain't getting treated as tenderly as women do. Y'all whine about any old thing. Now if you wanna keep on whining, do you. I'm not a whiner. I go out and make stuff happen. As I've said on here time and time again, probably 60% of TLR I wouldn't associate with in real life cause y'all got some twisted views of how the world is.

It's nothing wrong with what you said but deal with that shyt in those threads. Don't come in a thread meant for positivity and shyt it up with some negative shyt. Cause it comes across as you hating to see black men supporting each other.

 

[CookDat]

Lonely as fukk.
I'm over this year man just wrap this shyt up already

 

[10bandz]

@neotheflyingone why you in here acting like a fakkit

 

[10bandz]

nikkas is down bad. Not financially or physically of course but mentally nikkas is hurting man rough patch in life but I just gotta suffer in silence for now

You don’t gotta suffer in silence ....at the very least vent on here if you have to

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

@neotheflyingone why you in here acting like a fakkit

I decided to pretend to be you for a day.

 

[The God Poster]

I mean, I can appreciate the idea behind this thread... but this whole "black men are so weak, nobody cares about us, woe is me" needs to stop.

Y'all making us look weak outchea.

Where did the OP say all black men . The thread is letting those who are going thru shyt during the holidays know they got brehs who are willing to listen & be there .

Y’all done got so caught up in entertaining everyone with the antagonize the “other side “ threads you talking down threads about brothers showing each other love .

@Stringer Cochran @G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman & yourself are main culprits of the type of threads I’m referring to.

String has a good thread going save all the nonsense & arguing for another thread this ain’t it.

 

[Jasonmask]

You don’t gotta suffer in silence ....at the very least vent on here if you have to

Nah it be old ass weirdos who scroll through your post history to use it against you in the future, but I appreciate it fam fr

 

[Still Benefited]

It's nothing wrong with what you said but deal with that shyt in those threads. Don't come in a thread meant for positivity and shyt it up with some negative shyt. Cause it comes across as you hating to see black men supporting each other.

This is a fair statement

I do deal with it in those threads,but I should have kept my judgements out of this thread.
It could only take a few judgemental comments to keep someone from expressing themselves and venting.
Doubtful,but you never know,it could have been one person who needed this thread and to vent at this very moment who didn't due to judgement. The universe works in mysterious ways like that,So I apologize for anything I said that came off that way.
I only want black men to be them strongest selves and not fall into that trap and cycle of thinking from a victim perspective.
By all means,get out what you gotta get out in this thread. Maybe as a middle ground a potential solution or plan can be stated along with your stresses, just because thats a good habit to form.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Nah it be old ass weirdos who scroll through your post history to use it against you in the future, but I appreciate it fam fr

Not just on here but thats even in real life. I'm careful with what I share with anyone that they can use against me if and when they break bad one day.