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The country >>>>>>>>>>>>> the city
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Never mind.
Riding dirtbikes and quads in the backstreets and finding offroad trails everywhere
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getting blitzed.
My girl is straight out of the city of Atlanta, and wants no parts of the country
.I told her in 10 years I’m moving back to Carolina, and building my country pad. She can roll with me or not; either way, I’m leaving the city. I can always get another girl when I move to the country
THere are a lot of kids that I grew up with and younger than me that I knew who’s families (considered middle to upple class, successful) were in the suburbs that have fukked up lives. Being in the suburbs or living way out doesn’t guarantee nothing . Either they grew up too sheltered; didn’t take advantages of the opportunities they had, or tried to emulate what they assumed was the “city” lifestyle trying to be something they’re not. I know children of lawyers and executives who were teenage parents or on drugs, or at rehab centers. I have cousins that have been lifetime section 8 recipients who live out in nice houses in the suburbs in decent neighborhoods whose kids could barely finish junior high school bc of behavioral issues. Any values, discipline and structure starts at home; if support is lacking, education is not stressed, low morals it doesn’t matter where a person lives. Don’t act like city kids aren’t attending college- judging by your standards then I wasn’t supposed to be shyt bc I was in the city, my parents weren’t on me like that with education and they weren’t that emotionally supportive, but the finances were straight and we lived in the city.
The private school I went to, one of my classmates was murdered, the other one has 5 kids by the time she was 29, another - teenage pregnancy, and other stories similar when this was supposed to be a “reserved” school environment. There were only 20 students in the class- so what's the stats on that?
No- shytty parenting comes into it when they don’t place limitations at home and have no boundaries regardless of the environment. So all kids who grow up on the city have selfish parents or fukked up in the head? Drugs are just as accessible in burbs, car accidents happen anywhere. Dudes from the burbs serving 10 yr sentences. Financial suicide.. whuuttt? I personally know people on the burbs and country living in new construction homes, high incomes but struggle everyday with bills bc they are trying to keep up appearances or live out their “financial success” fronting - that’s selfish to kids too bc they’re parents are stressing and too distracted to manage their kids. None of what you said holds weight.
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ManBearPig
half man half bearpig
No thanks.
huh?
You became a success because you worked hard for it. Queens is the closest thing to a hybrid of suburban and city living, but a lot of people who live in places like the South BX and many places in the city dont have that. You can have your own opinion, but most people that lived through stuff like that, dont want their kids to go through that.
. No one was talking about formal education level, just the things outside of the school system. At least see it halfway like how I do it.Most city designers themselves will admit that cities werent made to raise kids in it. Its there for making money and for entertainment.
Me personally i need 24 hours businesses within driving distance Plus i can rarely find black owned shyt out in the country. So basically Gotta be where my people are/sometime need stores to be open past 5pm.
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Damn, @Nicole0416 boo can you go a single thread without arguing with somebody???
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I cant do the country, its boring as hell and nothing to do
Id rather do city
But suburbs right outside a major city with a metropolitan feel>>>>>>
Id rather do city
But suburbs right outside a major city with a metropolitan feel>>>>>>
CashmereThoughts
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Meh, id rather live in a globally important city and enjoy the culture that comes with it. was at an afrobeat party in BK yesterday. when i visted suburban NC and nikkas aint even know the genre existed and they clubs were still playing 2000s lil john
You lose out on alot culturally and socially living in those environments man
You lose out on alot culturally and socially living in those environments man
CashmereThoughts
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you can fish in Brooklyn. There are quiet suburban areas right here in that people never hear about. we have beaches, massive forest like parks,Cruise Terminal, botanical garden, an amusement park, world class museums, free concerts from big name artists in prospect park, businesses and cuisine from the entire African diaspora the list goes on. Give me access to everything i cant to the "simple life "Riding dirtbikes and quads in the backstreets and finding offroad trails everywhere
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Not sure that you’d be objective so I deleted my post.
Like they didn't start it?.. I made a statement in response. That's it. They want to take it all personal and get all in their feelings; start taking shotz. That's not on me.Damn, @Nicole0416 boo can you go a single thread without arguing with somebody???
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Not sure why you're being defensive.
Not shytting on Chicago but just saying when you're young and want the city life like clubbing and culture, you probably want to live in Atlanta, NYC, Chicago, LA, etc.
As you get older though, that shyt is less appealing and some isolation from the hustle and bustle is preferred which is why, like I said, no one is retiring to live in these places. They want to go somewhere they can enjoy the beauty of mother Earth and get peace and quiet .
