The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

[KingMalik]

Bruh this sounds like my ex of 1 month except she was a divorced single mother with a 7yr old son. She had ridiculous expectations for me as well and Im 26 not even a yr removed from college with my first job and she was 31yr old school teacher.
I got fed up with her and dropped her because:

- She wanted me to foot the bill for everything... And I mean everything(All dates,activities you name it)
-We had only been dating a month but she threw a fit because I wouldn't consider finding a apartment closer to her side of town or moving in with her.
- Wanted me to be her financial security incase she couldnt pay for her priorities(Rent, Electric bill, Car note) she seriously sat me down asked could she depend on me if she was in a situation where her lights were going to get cut off.
- Tried to force a relationship between me and her son when I was still trying to get to know her
- Always would bring up the financial status of men she dated in the past but would act like my situation wasn't a big deal.

Whats crazy to me is as much shyt she used to talk to me about the men she dated that were making 6 figures she still calls every few months trying to get in touch with me.
bytch please

She messed up me taking any single mother seriously

You should've told her to go back to those big ballers then

She obviously got thrown in the bushes

 

[El negrito de tejas]

You should've told her to go back to those big ballers then

She obviously got thrown in the bushes

I told her she was a damn fool breaking up with them let me tell you the excuses she made about each one. All of them were in their 30's, had very respectable careers, and of course their own houses.

Guy #1: COO of Health insurance comapany: Cheated on her with 2 other women
Guy#2: ER Nurse: She said he was too good looking and she was insecure about women blatantly hitting on him and his female bosses trying to fukk him
Guy#3 Certified Public Accountant: She said he was too boring,controlling and cheap. dude was an accountant for Schlumberger making 150k with 20k annual bonuses.

Im thinking bytch you think black men like them come by on a daily basis?

 

[mamba]

 

[pete clemenza]

Exactly. A lot of these women are more of a financial burden than an asset.

They're coming to the table talking about "my degree this and my job that" when in reality they are bringing six-figure student loan debt, credit card debt, etc.

Preach brotha preach Man lot of these chicks might look like they got their sh*t together with the car and crib but on the low their deep deep deep in the hole

 

[Londilon]

Thats great that they were in long term relationships

That doesn't make them thots

It just means that you have to start over with me

Just because he didn't wife you
Doesn't mean im going to be rushed because you think your time is running out

Why are you dating women who want marriage if you don't want marriage? If a woman tells me she is looking for a serious relationship and I'm not, I'm going to bounce.

 

[Turbulent]

I told her she was a damn fool breaking up with them let me tell you the excuses she made about each one. All of them were in their 30's, had very respectable careers, and of course their own houses.

Guy #1: COO of Health insurance comapany: Cheated on her with 2 other women
Guy#2: ER Nurse: She said he was too good looking and she was insecure about women blatantly hitting on him and his female bosses trying to fukk him
Guy#3 Certified Public Accountant: She said he was too boring,controlling and cheap. dude was an accountant for Schlumberger making 150k with 20k annual bonuses.

Im thinking bytch you think black men like them come by on a daily basis?

lol, and now her dumbass is probably telling some story about you to the guy she's talking to. like "we didn't work out because he was too young, not mature enough...". type of chick who never takes responsibility for shyt. it's NEVER her fault...

 

[Turbulent]

Why are you dating women who want marriage if you don't want marriage? If a woman tells me she is looking for a serious relationship and I'm not, I'm going to bounce.

when a chick wants you nd you keep it real with her from jump, she will tell you whatever to get by. you tell her "Right now, i'm just doing me, not really trying to rush anything." if she's heavily attracted to you she'll say "yeah, i'm at the same stage right now. just going with the flow." she doesn't want to break the groove and have to start all over...

 

[froggle]

It's wild out here but I dont know if it is a mix of feminism, television & social media who sold these women dreams, but it is turning into a nightmare.

I look at my parents generation and the majority of my mothers friends and aunts are still married. HOWEVER they cooked for their husbands, knew how to run a household, essentially knew they were put on the earth to make sure their men and children were set and still had the independence to work.

My mother keeps saying "these modern women are so worthless"

Growing up I got served breakfast, lunch & Dinner. My father doesn't even know how to cook , but these birds all they know how to do is look good and be on the "hype". Then when you do wife them up, they miserable as hell and truly have nothing to offer but their looks and bomb head....which gets played out VERY quickly.

I laugh when you hear the women getting desperate like I know 5's who have master degrees out here punching holes in condoms so they can at least have a child.

 

[El negrito de tejas]

when a chick wants you nd you keep it real with her from jump, she will tell you whatever to get by. you tell her "Right now, i'm just doing me, not really trying to rush anything." if she's heavily attracted to you she'll say "yeah, i'm at the same stage right now. just going with the flow." she doesn't want to break the groove and have to start all over...

Hell yeah I get this every time out here in Houston. I tell them up front I'm not looking for a serious relationship and their cool about it first but eventually once we've spent a significant amount of time with each other and have sex that's when they bring it up. "We can't do this forever woneal512... You know what I'm really looking for."

 

[Yup]

It's wild out here but I dont know if it is a mix of feminism, television & social media who sold these women dreams, but it is turning into a nightmare.

I look at my parents generation and the majority of my mothers friends and aunts are still married. HOWEVER they cooked for their husbands, knew how to run a household, essentially knew they were put on the earth to make sure their men and children were set and still had the independence to work.

My mother keeps saying "these modern women are so worthless"

Growing up I got served breakfast, lunch & Dinner. My father doesn't even know how to cook , but these birds all they know how to do is look good and be on the "hype". Then when you do wife them up, they miserable as hell and truly have nothing to offer but their looks and bomb head....which gets played out VERY quickly.

I laugh when you hear the women getting desperate like I know 5's who have master degrees out here punching holes in condoms so they can at least have a child.

I don't agree, guys are wifing superficial women...if you looked back a woman that acted as a respectable woman was treated with respect. Today a lot of men will look at you sideways and call you sheltered.

Men like women need to choose wisely....many of our mothers and grandma's would not be chosen in this current dating climate.

 

[#1 pick]

I told her she was a damn fool breaking up with them let me tell you the excuses she made about each one. All of them were in their 30's, had very respectable careers, and of course their own houses.

Guy #1: COO of Health insurance comapany: Cheated on her with 2 other women
Guy#2: ER Nurse: She said he was too good looking and she was insecure about women blatantly hitting on him and his female bosses trying to fukk him
Guy#3 Certified Public Accountant: She said he was too boring,controlling and cheap. dude was an accountant for Schlumberger making 150k with 20k annual bonuses.

Im thinking bytch you think black men like them come by on a daily basis?

She got bushes and dogged out by them. Most never showed marriage cards to her. She's wasting anyone's time saying otherwise

 

[mamba]

Damned if they do, damned if they don't. I dont feel sorry for sistas because I know that real life isn't like the coli. To the coli every nikka posting is like James Bond swimming in 18 year old p*ssy, making money without needing a degree.

Are a lot of Black women not bringing a lot of debt to the table along with their "degrees" and other shyt?

And expecting a nikka to help carry that debt load after marriage?

 

[Yup]

I told her she was a damn fool breaking up with them let me tell you the excuses she made about each one. All of them were in their 30's, had very respectable careers, and of course their own houses.

Guy #1: COO of Health insurance comapany: Cheated on her with 2 other women
Guy#2: ER Nurse: She said he was too good looking and she was insecure about women blatantly hitting on him and his female bosses trying to fukk him
Guy#3 Certified Public Accountant: She said he was too boring,controlling and cheap. dude was an accountant for Schlumberger making 150k with 20k annual bonuses.

Im thinking bytch you think black men like them come by on a daily basis?

That's a valid reason. But op, there are rich a$$holes, having a plush job is not the sole factor for seeking a relationship.

 

[mamba]

Hell yeah I get this every time out here in Houston. I tell them up front I'm not looking for a serious relationship and their cool about it first but eventually once we've spent a significant amount of time with each other and have sex that's when they bring it up. "We can't do this forever woneal512... You know what I'm really looking for."

The desperation will have these women saying and doing anything.

Know your value, brehs. The rest is easy. Trust me.

 

[Cynic]

Bruh this sounds like my ex of 1 month except she was a divorced single mother with a 7yr old son. She had ridiculous expectations for me as well and Im 26 not even a yr removed from college with my first job and she was 31yr old school teacher.
I got fed up with her and dropped her because:

- She wanted me to foot the bill for everything... And I mean everything(All dates,activities you name it)
-We had only been dating a month but she threw a fit because I wouldn't consider finding a apartment closer to her side of town or moving in with her.
- Wanted me to be her financial security incase she couldnt pay for her priorities(Rent, Electric bill, Car note) she seriously sat me down asked could she depend on me if she was in a situation where her lights were going to get cut off.
- Tried to force a relationship between me and her son when I was still trying to get to know her
- Always would bring up the financial status of men she dated in the past but would act like my situation wasn't a big deal.

Whats crazy to me is as much shyt she used to talk to me about the men she dated that were making 6 figures she still calls every few months trying to get in touch with me.
bytch please

She messed up me taking any single mother seriously

:madiba:
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