If you're making around 50k, you'll live a lot more comfortable with a roommate(s). You'll save a lot and have more extra money. You can make good money here, but it's probably not worth it. Decent is a very expensive place to live, if you're from the south you're not going to like it here long. Once you see how much fronting and c00ning goes on around here. A lot of people look well of, but there up to there neck in debt. Stress the fukk out. I'm leaving soon. I don't see how you could have kids here without having 150k household income. A lot of fine educated sistas with no wife characteristics. A lot single career chicks in there 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s. You can be a playa here forever.
Like I always say, 50k down south > 90k DMV
If you do come, don't acquire too much stuff, bcuz you're going to want to leave.