Used to live there. Cost of living is, on average, higher than other metro areas.How many of you live there?
I want to move but every cost of living chart I see has it as one of the highest in the country. Is it really that expensive to live there?
If you want to lower your cost of living, you have to live farther out, which means a longer commute, or you can live in Prince George County or ratty parts of DC. Other options are looking to rent a room from a house, sublet from an apartment with strange roommates, or have a friend share an apartment. So you can "eek" by on $40 K. Not easy or fun.
Cost of living chart you can ignore. There are affordable places and mega-unaffordable places. Bethesda, Potomac, Reston, Arlington, Northwest DC, forget about it.
There are a lot of good steady government jobs though. Go to www.usajobs.gov to see if you can get a federal job before even moving there.