The feeling after having to cut contact with the girl your messin with

[EQ.]

"Get off that bus breh, and wait at the stop...their will be another one in 10 minutes"

 

[jilla82]

imagine the joy of the next breh though

 

[jadillac]

Its like missing the game winning shot, being filled with doubts. Two yrs ive been single, and i get the oppurtunity again to date (on my.terms after bettering myself), and shyt just screws up for whatever the reason. For one the way i play the game is just mess and get.to know.one chick.at a time. I dont have these.so called "roster" that some have.
itslime:

You sound just like me man. I was gonna make a thread about that. But I figured it'd be pointless with all the "playas" on the Coli.

But I can't deal with/get to know more than one chick at a time


































I'm here if you need me

I feel u breh, goin thru it myself... dont cave in if u start feelin

Let's be strong together.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Its like missing the game winning shot, being filled with doubts. Two yrs ive been single, and i get the oppurtunity again to date (on my.terms after bettering myself), and shyt just screws up for whatever the reason. For one the way i play the game is just mess and get.to know.one chick.at a time. I dont have these.so called "roster" that some have.

Maybe i aint cut out for relationships.

putting all your eggs in one basket.

Cant invest all your emotions in one chick unless its wifey and even then you have to be ready to walk away at any time unscathed.

Right now you are in the process of manning up.

 

[Im clue]

You sound just like me man. I was gonna make a thread about that. But I figured it'd be pointless with all the "playas" on the Coli.

But I can't deal with/get to know more than one chick at a time


































I'm here if you need me



Let's be strong together.

Coli brotherly love!!

 

[EffedUp]

My feeling's more like......since she was on that bullshyt anyway.

 

[jadillac]

putting all your eggs in one basket.

Cant invest all your emotions in one chick unless its wifey and even then you have to be ready to walk away at any time unscathed.

Right now you are in the process of manning up.

Breh, I understand the logic of noth putting all ur hopes into one chick and always having a plan b......BUT realistixcaly, that's flawed. Basically you have an "open relationship" While you may have other options of women, that' means she probabloy has other men also.

I cat get down with being with a chick on a Friday night, paying for a date, no matter how big or little the amount, then knowing Sat nite she's probably smashing some other dude. You're kissing her on the cheek or lips and she possibly had another dudes piece in her mouth.

For me, it's one thing to find out a chick is cheating, but its another to basically green light that behavior.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Breh, I understand the logic of noth putting all ur hopes into one chick and always having a plan b......BUT realistixcaly, that's flawed. Basically you have an "open relationship" While you may have other options of women, that' means she probabloy has other men also.

I cat get down with being with a chick on a Friday night, paying for a date, no matter how big or little the amount, then knowing Sat nite she's probably smashing some other dude. You're kissing her on the cheek or lips and she possibly had another dudes piece in her mouth. :comeone:

For me, it's one thing to find out a chick is cheating, but its another to basically green light that behavior.

Even if you mess with other girls you can have your chick remain single. Just let her know.

And even if your just with one girl and she is just with you. You still cant invest all your emotions in the relationship, even if you're married. When it ends you'll be shattered. This is why so many dudes get fukked up after a divorce.

You always gotta keep a little of your heart to yourself. You have to be prepared to leave and lose her at any time. This will save you from pain if things go south and it keeps the relationship fresh. She will also respect you more because you're still seen as a challenge.

 

[jadillac]

Even if you mess with other girls you can have your chick remain single. Just let her know.

And even if your just with one girl and she is just with you. You still cant invest all your emotions in the relationship, even if you're married. When it ends you'll be shattered. This is why so many dudes get fukked up after a divorce.

You always gotta keep a little of your heart to yourself. You have to be prepared to leave and lose her at any time. This will save you from pain if things go south and it keeps the relationship fresh. She will also respect you more because you're still seen as a challenge.

Bro...you know ur cool from the SOHH days.........but what woman that's wroth a damn is gonna agree to that? lol...I almost wouldnt even want a woman who would agree to that....that's definitely not a wifing type.

And yeah I understand, but realistically, you cant love from a distance.

If you wouldnt take a bullet for a woman you marry...then why marry her? On the flipside, if you would take the bullet, you're gonna be hurt if seriously she left you for whatever reason.

 

[Im clue]

Breh, I understand the logic of noth putting all ur hopes into one chick and always having a plan b......BUT realistixcaly, that's flawed. Basically you have an "open relationship" While you may have other options of women, that' means she probabloy has other men also.

I cat get down with being with a chick on a Friday night, paying for a date, no matter how big or little the amount, then knowing Sat nite she's probably smashing some other dude. You're kissing her on the cheek or lips and she possibly had another dudes piece in her mouth.

For me, it's one thing to find out a chick is cheating, but its another to basically green light that behavior.

 

[Blacsmiff]

Pulled the trigger myself a few days ago. You're not alone. http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/48237-she-wants-talk.html#.UHjVjc169CU


But thank goodness I kept my roster lookin:

Spoiler

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Bro...you know ur cool from the SOHH days.........but what woman that's wroth a damn is gonna agree to that? lol...I almost wouldnt even want a woman who would agree to that....that's definitely not a wifing type.

And yeah I understand, but realistically, you cant love from a distance.

If you wouldnt take a bullet for a woman you marry...then why marry her? On the flipside, if you would take the bullet, you're gonna be hurt if seriously she left you for whatever reason.

Many women would agree to that. Im not saying I get down like that but I have friends who have it like that. On the flip side, these dudes are successful wouldnt be single for long if the girl left them.

All that romantic stuff you said in your 3rd paragraph is for the birds. I used to think the way you do because logically it makes the most sense. Taking a bullet is whatever.....Im saying you cant just put your all into some chick. She is a human the chances of her doing you dirty is there.

 

[Im clue]

Even if you mess with other girls you can have your chick remain single. Just let her know.

And even if your just with one girl and she is just with you. You still cant invest all your emotions in the relationship, even if you're married. When it ends you'll be shattered. This is why so many dudes get fukked up after a divorce.

You always gotta keep a little of your heart to yourself. You have to be prepared to leave and lose her at any time. This will save you from pain if things go south and it keeps the relationship fresh. She will also respect you more because you're still seen as a challenge.

If you aint gon give.your all to the other half, why get married in the first place?.
fukk it, ill give a chick the benefit of the doubt. Let me be strong enough mentally and emotionaly if shyt ever fukks up.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

If you aint gon give.your all to the other half, why get married in the first place?.

Cause life aint a movie?

 

[Im clue]

Love is free. Why hold back on it