the first dude a girl fuks is the most important

[cleanface coney]

he sets the standard for every nikka after dat real talk

if he a bum dirty nikka thats what she like
if he a school, clean cut nikka thats what she like
if he cheated on her and she still stayed wit him thats what she like

no point in tryna convince a girl she need something else

what yall think?

 

[Malta]

Seems like the first man she has a child with is the most important, which is why dudes can get away with so much if they are the "baby daddy".

But, the women answering would know more than me.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

he sets the standard for every nikka after dat real talk

if he a bum dirty nikka thats what she like
if he a school, clean cut nikka thats what she like
if he cheated on her and she still stayed wit him thats what she like

no point in tryna convince a girl she need something else

what yall think?

Nah, it's about where she is at the time and what her goals at the specific time at the moment. A girl can smash a bum negga in HS but if she goes to college and meets smart good looking neggas, lame neggas are dead


Wonder why some white girls get their first black man late in their life ?


Now, if you say she looks for the same negga that gave her the same emotional high then I agree. Long as you keep your relationship spicy and interesting with your chick while you control the wheels and prove her you a good leader. You are golden. No matter who and what the chick is.



I know Reincar disagrees though

 

[LeVraiPapi]

Seems like the first man she has a child with is the most important, which is why dudes can get away with so much if they are the "baby daddy".

But, the women answering would know more than me.

I agree. No matter how much thgey tell you they hate that man, there's always that guilt inside as to why they couldn't keep that man and they would let that man smell that if given a chance.

I know a girl who had 2 kids by some dude. Dude left her for some fresh meat. Tell me why dude still has the key to her house and why this negga gotta know who she bringing around their kids ? (meaning he must ok u b4 u can hit it).


Crazy, but you should hear her on the phone with dude trynna explain why she didn't cook. Dude has a wife at home too. I told her I wanna meet the dude and she think I m trynna hit

I just wanna shake the negga hand cuz I respect his game and his strong hand

 

[cleanface coney]

Seems like the first man she has a child with is the most important, which is why dudes can get away with so much if they are the "baby daddy".

But, the women answering would know more than me.

true

but im talkin about as far as what they are looking for in a dude

 

[cleanface coney]

Nah, it's about where she is at the time and what her goals at the specific time at the moment. A girl can smash a bum negga in HS but if she goes to college and meets smart good looking neggas, lame neggas are dead


Wonder why some white girls get their first black man late in their life ?


Now, if you say she looks for the same negga that gave her the same emotional high then I agree. Long as you keep your relationship spicy and interesting with your chick while you control the wheels and prove her you a good leader. You are golden. No matter who and what the chick is.



I know Reincar disagrees though

i think alot of dudes get caught up in what a female says

instead of her actions and decisions

every chick wanna nice dude, that got money and is educated

but do they all choose those type of dudes?

 

[LeVraiPapi]

i think alot of dudes get caught up in what a female says

instead of her actions and decisions

every chick wanna nice dude, that got money and is educated

but do they all choose those type of dudes?

well they have sexual desires my dude. They gotta go with what comes to them. You know how many dime females out there wishing they had a below average male give them a back rub before they sleep ? You can't blame them at all. Best believe, once they find that "it" dude, they will leave that negga. ometimes they stay outta fear, not love

 

[1980sCokeFlow]

Well i'm a former bum ass nikka and he first is a bum ass nikka so I think you may be on to something my brotha.

 

[cleanface coney]

well they have sexual desires my dude. They gotta go with what comes to them. You know how many dime females out there wishing they had a below average male give them a back rub before they sleep ? You can't blame them at all. Best believe, once they find that "it" dude, they will leave that negga. ometimes they stay outta fear, not love

i think if the first nikka did his job right
and was a certain kind of way
she gone always want that kind of guy in the end

hood nikka, college nikka, whatever type

thats why girl repeat wit the same kind of nikkas

if you act like the nikka who previously smashed
even if you not that type

you gone alwats get the panties

even if she dog the nikka out and talk bad on him
he still fukked

 

[Fckumeen]

This premise holds no water. How can a teenage boy really be a bum? He lives with his parents just like other teenagers.. You mean to tell me a hormonal teenage girl knows what she wants at that age when grown ass women don't even know what the hell they want.

 

[Singh]

bishes never forget that first dude

+ or - experience

it does set the tone for future relationships

 

[cleanface coney]

This premise holds no water. You mean to tell me a hormonal teenage girl knows what she wants at that age when grown ass women don't even know what the hell they want.

lol what make you think women are so mature when they get older

i said the first nikka she fukks set the standard yea

she liked him regardless before fukking him.
he was the first to fukk
whatever swag he had will in the end be the type of dude she looks for
imo

 

[Auger]

Nah, I don't believe that

People (yes even women too) are capable of making wrong judgements at whatever point they are in their life. If they mature and evolve as an individual then those wrong decisions (or misjudgements) can remain just that. It doesn't necessarily indicate pattern for things to come.

Just like statistics, you can't identify any type correlation based off one scenario (let alone the first one)

 

[Real]

Whats up with u nikkas thinking yall know how a woman thinks?

 

[Liquid]

Seems like the first man she has a child with is the most important, which is why dudes can get away with so much if they are the "baby daddy".

But, the women answering would know more than me.

this is why I always looked at women with kids during my early 20's talking to me seriously like