my post didnt day anything about sex lol
the type of dude

Well my first was older so...maybe he set that older guy standard.

I have dated younger before though.
my post didnt day anything about sex lol
the type of dude
Well my first was older so...maybe he set that older guy standard.
I have dated younger before though.
Your theory is off base. It more so applies to women who are stuck in the same mentality and or never mature.
My first is no where near what I want now. I was young carefree and in college. If my first were to try to talk to me now I'd decline without a doubt. Just because there was a connection and or I liked who he was then doesn't mean I'm still in the same mindset and will want it now. It was what I wanted at that time. He can't hold a candle to my current s/o. They are complete opposites. I will say he thought me what not to do, who to steer clear of and what I don't want in a man.
Wonder why some white girls get their first black man late in their life ?
It's because black men are low on the totem pole of sexual/relational desirability I'd reckon. Once the white women are passed over they flee to the arms of Tyrone, Jay-Quan, Tay-Ron, Bay-Ron, Deshay-Rawn, Drais-Ronn the likes
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